Modern love stories

In my spare time, I occasionally watch a blind date program run by a famous program host. At first, I just looked at it with the mentality of watching a live-action version of the soap opera, but when the hero and heroine met and began to communicate face-to-face, the non-drama version of the dialogue immediately attracted me. Let's take some of the wonderful pictures to talk about some personal feelings.

A woman single divorced, with a child, divorced for more than three years, and now want to start life again, she found a blind date program group and put forward her own requirements for the other half. According to the woman's request, the program team found a high-quality man in his 40s, unmarried, turtles in the database. One day, the two met in a very elegant café on the corner of the street. The two sides just met quite strange, the topic from some very small things around to talk about, after a while each other will cut the topic to the right topic. The woman proposed that the blind date was for the purpose of marriage, and if the man did not have such an idea, there was no need to further develop it. The man shows that he is not in such a hurry, first holding the attitude of getting along for a while, and not necessarily getting married. From everyone's point of view, that's fine. Originally, from love to marriage is a matter of feeling between both parties, and there is no time period to agree on exactly when you need to get married. But the problem is that if the man does not look for a love partner with the purpose of marriage, then the starting point of the two is a little different. The woman will have no sense of purpose and security. This also reflects many men and women in love, at the beginning everyone did not explain, what is the purpose of mutual interaction? When there is a contradiction, I think in reverse, why the other party is with me in the first place. It's a waste of both time and feelings.

There are many examples around life that show that in the early days of love, under the influence of each other's hormones, both parties will quickly enter a state, and each other looks at each other as perfect people. After getting along for a period of time, the relevant issues that need to be considered are gradually presented, and the real problems that need to be considered are nakedly exposed, such as knowledge, academic qualifications, three views, the impact of the original family, career, financial resources, future planning, etc. This is the critical time to test both sides. Some lovers rush into marriage without thinking about these issues, and even soon have children, which lays the groundwork for unhappy marriages.

People now say that falling in love, falling out of love, getting married, and divorcing are all very normal things? Countless of these things happen every day. How is it worth pondering? Don't they all go by feeling?

In my personal experience, it doesn't have to be completely by feeling, after all, falling in love to getting married is not to find someone who can make you want to go home? A person who is willing to accompany himself and never abandon him? Therefore, instead of looking for a lover, it is better to find yourself first, the person who first figures out what he is, and what kind of suitable partner he wants to find in order to clearly show it. More often, the three views will follow the five views, and as you walk, you will find that the five views are not as important as the three views. It's more important than finding a lover to find yourself first.

May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become dependents! There are no more grievances in the world, and what a happy and happy family.