Love can be two hearts knowing each other, two feelings are pleasing to each other, but marriage has to endure the trivialities of life, the smoke of firewood.
"The Golden Powder Family" is a novel written by Zhang Hexhui over a period of six years, in which human nature is written too bluntly, and the TV series seems to be more pure.
Leng Qingqiu is a person who is incompatible with the entire Jin family, and for love, he is still a moth to the Jin family.
To this day, the times are progressing, and women's views on marriage and love are also undergoing earth-shaking changes, but Leng Qingqiu's reading so far still makes me feel the hatred of respect and love.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > blind love and drop out of school for love. </h1>
Before Leng Qingqiu knew Jin Yanxi, he was obsessed with Mandarin, went to school at Rende Girls' High School, and wanted to go to college in the future and become a teacher.
Now, isn't this the direction that all girls are sticking to?
Study well, enrich yourself with knowledge, arm yourself with academic qualifications, use what you have learned, and support yourself and your parents with a skill.
Everyone is lonely, and in the end, only they can rely on themselves.
What Qingqiu learned now, and then one day finally gave her the capital to stand in the world.
Qing Qiu is a child of a poor family, but he has courage and insight, and if he had not encountered the fate of Jin Yanxi, he might have lived well.
Jin Yanxi, the son of the prime minister, the proud son of heaven, the heavens gave him too high a starting line.
At the first meeting, the dim lights in the alleys, the rice paper flying in the sky, the Qingqiu who did not understand the world, the young master who did not learn and had no skills, and the two people who should not have communication met.
Since then, Jin Yanxi has moved his heart, lost his soul, and began to look for people all over Beijing, and the second encounter was in the nunnery in the northern suburbs, and he used his camera to photograph the back of Qingqiu.
The flower shop met, And Qingqiu met him again like a pure lily, chased after yanxi in the rain, and finally followed her home.
I really don't know what kind of karma this is? In the vast city of Beijing, two people who had never known each other met again and again.
All love is sweet, for the sake of their beloved, even if it is over the mountains, it does not feel far.
In order to catch up with the girl she liked, Yanxi went to her school to become a Chinese language teacher, rented the house next door to her house to open a poetry club, sent pastries, sent feasts, sent gorgeous satin to make clothes, sent shoes tickets to buy shoes...
When in love, the boy did not do too much, and at that time he probably really loved her!
All the girls who have just opened their hearts can't stand up to the good of a boy, and finally Qingqiu believes in the promise of continuing to go to school after marriage, delivers his life, and enters the palace of marriage.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the two did not give in to love, and their feelings were exhausted. </h1>
It is said that falling in love is easy to get along with, and what really tests the feelings of two people is married life.
Newly married Yan'er, the two are kind and loving, happy, and the little days do not take long to begin to walk from the ideal into the cruelty of reality.
It is said that falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.
The Jin family has a large population and complex members, and Qingqiu is restrained after marriage, and is only willing to hide in his room to read and write poetry.
Soon after Yanxi's new marriage began to stay at night, spending money like flowing water, starting a family without establishing a business, and for Qingqiu who married him, she did not help her integrate into her big family.
What is even more intolerable is that after marriage, bai xiuzhu and Bai Xiuzhu broke off their connection, frequently met, and exchanged letters, which is intolerable at present.
For Yanxi, getting married only means having one more wife, nothing else has changed, he is still him.
Yanxi did not change because of marriage, and there was no substantive change in Qingqiu.
Before Qingqiu got married, he loved to read and was not good at communication, and after being with Yanxi, he blindly compromised and gave in, but there was no effective change to keep the marriage.
Yanxi made friends, Qingqiu mocked him for borrowing money and making a generous offer, Yanxi did not return home at night, drunkenly went home, Qingqiu resigned, heard that Yanxi and Bai Xiuzhu were dating, Qingqiu did not try his best to save the marriage, but broke the jar and broke it...
These things may be done by Yanxi is not right, but in marriage, don't think about reforming him, but have the skill of maneuvering, so that he is willing to change for you.
Otherwise, the cow does not drink water and presses its head, which will only be counterproductive.
Marriage does not rely on the Cold War to solve the problem, but to rely on the solution of the problem to calm, after the problem is solved, calmly think about the reasons, run in again and again, fit again and again.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > thing is human, life and death</h1>
This is the law, and the big family of the Jin family cannot escape.
Jin Quan died, a generation of giants, fell apart, scattered.
Even when the Jin family was in a precarious situation, Yanxi and Qingqiu still did not reconcile.
Yanxi Yimen thought of relying on Bai Xiuzhu's relationship to revive the former glory of the Jin family, and for this reason, he did not hesitate to abandon his wife and son.
But I don't know that the affection that is late is better than the grass, and no one will always stand in place and wait for you to turn back, whether it is love or marriage.
Bai Xiuzhu was only to avenge Jin Yanxi's abandonment of her, she wanted Yanxi to feel the same, and the pain of being abandoned that she had tasted wanted Yanxi to also be painful.
A fire burned Qingqiu and their children, and also burned the last hope in Qingqiu's heart for Yanxi.
When Qingqiu left, Bai Xiuzhu also left, jin Yanxi regretted not being in the beginning, but what was the use?
Gambling books were poured with tea, and at that time, only the Tao was commonplace. It is precious when you have it, and it is irretrievable when you lose it.
In the end, Qingqiu took the child away, Jin Yanxi also left, and the lovers who once loved each other followed their respective life trajectories and threw themselves into the torrent of the times.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > love someone wrongly and ruin a lifetime</h1>
In the novel, Qingqiu takes her children to sell words and write couplets for a living, and what they learn is eventually rewarded. Yanxi pseudonymized Jinghua, and Qiu Xizhen became husband and wife, mixed in the entertainment circle.
Compared with many girls now, there is no real talent to learn, skills leaned over, all day for love to find death and life, Qingqiu is really worthy of admiration.
Many women say that I dare not divorce because I don't have a job, because I have children, I can't support my children, I can only settle.
Qingqiu is a person with great courage, only because he loves one person by mistake, and eventually half his life drifts to zero.
What exactly does marriage bring to women?
A good marriage brings a hard-working husband, a sensible child, a reasonable parent, and a harmony with home and everything.
Bad marriages bring women endless tears, endless lonely nights, maturity that is forced to grow up, and responsibilities that cannot be shirked in a lifetime.