After reading the original work of "The Golden Powder Family" several times, I understood the estrangement of the Sisters of the Jin Family after Leng Qingqiu and Jin Yanxi married her. This is the same reason that the daughter-in-law of the Jin family hates her. It turns out that they have never been people of the same world. This alienation is inevitable, and this is also the harshest reality of the marriage of the rich. There are worlds that don't belong to you, and you can never squeeze into them. Today, we will talk about the relationship between Leng Qingqiu and the Jin family.
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Yanxi's fifth sister liked Leng Qingqiu for the first time and asked Jin Yanxi to associate with her. The marriage between Jin Yanxi and Leng Qingqiu was vigorously promoted by the fourth sister. In order to promote this marriage, he also quarreled with his third sister-in-law. At that time, Jin Yanxi's sisters all thought that Leng Qingqiu was more suitable for Jin Yanxi, Bai Xiuzhu had a big temper, and the Jin family did not need to sacrifice Jin Yanxi's marriage to fulfill their father's career.
At that time, Jin Quan was the prime minister with unlimited scenery, and many people were obsessed with the Jin family. But later, Jin Quan died of illness, and Jin Yanxi himself went to bai xiuzhu. In the past, Jin Yanxi felt that Bai Xiuzhu had a big temper, but later Jin Yanxi was willing to endure her temper, because he had something to ask for.
Jin Yanxi's sisters-in-law believe that Jin Yanxi's love should be the right one, and Bai Xiuzhu is the best candidate. You will find that they do not hate Bai Xiuzhu. Every time Bai Xiuzhu came, even if she had a little temper, they would make her happy. Because, this kind of temper, they have their own. They know that under the same roof, you are nothing more than you coaxing me, I cajoling you. Bai Xiuzhu lost her temper and lost her temper, but they were people from the same world.
They marry into the Jin family, there may be an element of love, but they are all door-to-door. Behind all their glory in their husband's family is the confidence given by their mother's family. Moreover, they knew that Bai Xiongqi could not be offended, and Bai Xiuzhu could not be snubbed.
They also know that this is just the love of Bai Xiuzhu and Jin Yanxi, but this is a well-known thing. Now, Jin Yanxi marrying someone else is equivalent to dumping Bai Xiuzhu. It is difficult to tolerate whoever this happens to.
Compared with the Jin family sisters' admiration for love, the concubines of the Jin family have already seen through the truth of the life of the rich. In the face of interests, there is no love. It's just a pity that Leng Qingqiu at that time didn't understand, and the Sisters of the Jin Family didn't understand either. By the time they both understood, the two had become tragedies.
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The Jin sisters only had Doji married, and none of the others had experienced marriage. They don't have that much experience with marriage. Compared with the sons of the Jin family, the daughters of the Jin family are very capable. They do have the ability to marry love and live their lives with the people they like. However, Jin Yanxi and Leng Qingqiu, no matter who they are, they are not capable of pursuing love.
The sons of the Jin family have their own careers by relying on Jin Quan. However, the daughter of the Jin family traveled across the ocean to study and has always had a plan for her life.
In fact, they have not been too worried about family affairs. In the end, they are only worried about their mothers. They got to know Leng Qingqiu because of Jin Yanxi. Their appreciation of Leng Qingqiu's talent is true, but the expectations of her are also true. They hoped that Leng Qingqiu could change his brother and let Jin Yanxi advance. However, in the end, they found that Leng Qingqiu was only vain to marry into the Jin family.
It is true that they appreciate Leng Qingqiu, and Leng Qingqiu is somewhat talented. However, they also know that they and Leng Qingqiu are people of two worlds. Leng Qingqiu always likes to shut himself up and do his own thing. She is not involved in socializing at home. The clear height of the cold autumn is incompatible with the family.
They felt that Leng Qingqiu was good, but they did not hate Bai Xiuzhu, when Bai Xiuzhu came to the house, they were also very polite. They are also learned people, and they are also people who have seen the world. They also do their own thing in a quiet place, but they also play mahjong and gossip with their sisters-in-law. But Leng Qingqiu would not, she herself alienated everyone. Later, she and Jin Yanxi had a conflict. It was useless for Daozhi to persuade her, she herself could block all her retreats.
Jin Yanxi's sister contributed to this marriage by overestimating love and underestimating reality. They didn't know the real Leng Qingqiu, and they didn't know what kind of person their younger brother Yanxi was. Blindly pursuing love, in the end hurting others and hurting oneself.
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Compared with the blind promotion of the sisters, the sisters-in-law are the thoughtful people. Many people think that Wang Yufen is provocative, and she is the one who cares most about this marriage. She targeted Leng Qingqiu, not only for Bai Xiuzhu, but also for herself.
Bai Xiuzhu and Jin Yanxi's things did not come to fruition, the most embarrassing person was Bai Xiuzhu, and the most difficult person was her. At the Jin family, Dochiru squeezed her. And the Bai family also blamed her. She was looking for Leng Qingqiu's trouble, which was a submission to the Bai family. She wasn't so stupid, she had to target Leng Qingqiu.
Wang Yufen is the person who can calculate the most, and she can afford to offend in the cold autumn. You see for the others, no matter how angry she is, she gives up three points. For Leng Qingqiu, she would not, that was because Leng Qingqiu's foundation was too weak. Even if she did something wrong with Leng Qingqiu, no one would be angry for her.
Especially after she successfully separated the husband and wife relationship between Jin Yanxi and Leng Qingqiu, Leng Qingqiu was even more like walking on thin ice in the Jin family. Being in the big house, of course, she knew that these were what the Bai family wanted to see. Later, the Jin family fell, for the sake of her husband's career, she also found Bai Xiongqi, and Bai Xiongqi promised to help. She just weighed the pros and cons between Leng Qingqiu and the Bai family, and then chose the latter.
At that time, the Jin sisters told Mrs. Jin to find someone who would manage the accounts and not to let Jin Yanxi be too big. Find a learned one who can urge him to study. This is nothing more than a vision, not at all realistic. The cruelty of a rich marriage is not as simple as they think.
The sisters-in-law know this old seven better, nothing to do, nothing to do. And in luxury marriage, love is the least important. Finding the right woman, supporting each other, and completing each other is the most important thing.
For ordinary women, the life of the rich is short-lived. Even if you marry into the giants, you don't really belong to the giants. The people who initially admired you are drifting away from you, and this is the cruelest reality.
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