Recently, Olympic champion Wang Nan posted a photo of his 10-year-old son participating in the Youth Table Tennis Charity League on his personal social account, according to her description, it can be learned that that day was the first time in Guo Qi's life to officially participate in such a formal competition, although he stopped in the top 8, he was lucky to get the group championship.
Under wang Nan's lens, Guo Qi raised his hands and feet with the style of a general, and his movements were in place, although he was only 10 years old, he was not afraid of the stage. Perhaps to cheer up his son, Wang Nan posted a photo of him preparing for a match the day before the game.
Although Wang Nan has won the Olympic Championship many times, in the cultivation and education of her children, her joy and pride and pride cannot be hidden. For Guo Lin's performance, many netizens have left messages of support, and even more direct evaluation: "Another big demon king is about to be born."
But in fact, Wang Nan's education for her son's table tennis has always been free-range, and she did not force Guo Lin to become a professional table tennis player. Before that, she and her husband Guo Bin had reached an agreement: the daughter went professional, the son was a hobby, and respected the choice of the two children.
Nowadays, Guo Lin, who takes table tennis as a hobby, has won the group stage championship, and it is conceivable that her young daughter's achievements can be imagined. Probably for all parents, they want their children to have more choices.
Wang Nan's cultivation process of children also confirms the passage that Long Yingtai wrote to his son: Child, I ask you to study hard, not because I want you to compare grades with others, but because I hope that you will have the right to choose in the future, choose meaningful and time-sensitive work, rather than being forced to make a living. When your work has meaning in your heart, you have a sense of accomplishment. When your work gives you time and doesn't deprive you of your life, you have dignity. A sense of accomplishment and dignity will give you joy!
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Referring to the education of children, Wang Nan once said at the scene of the program recording: When she was pregnant, the simplest hope was to have a healthy baby. When he really came, watching him grow day by day, I was thinking, how can I become a good mother.
Then she added: I don't think that giving my child food and clothing in food, drink, housing and travel can be regarded as a good mother, I think it is more in education, but there are many ways of education, first of all, I will not suppress him, I prefer to become friends with my children.
At first, Wang Nan would also give his son various tutoring classes, and English and piano would not fall. But now, she feels that when the child is young, she is doing what the child likes, loving education, etiquette to people, learning more about various experiences in life, and slowly the child's interest point comes to the targeted training.
Perhaps it is this change in attitude towards education that makes Wang Nan the most intimate partner of children.
Facts have proved that Wang Nan has indeed achieved his original educational concept, and has not imposed requirements on his children, but has only conformed to the direction of his children's development, given them support and encouragement, and thus has been successful.
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Looking at Wang Nan's social account, it is not difficult to find photos and videos of the little daughter practicing table tennis hard, compared to the general's wind when the brother played, the little daughter is now just a little higher than the table tennis table, looking very cute, but full of explosiveness.
In order to let her daughter appreciate the charm of table tennis, Wang Nan will always personally accompany her daughter to train, watching Guo Bin, who is trained by mother and daughter, also sends out sighs from time to time, he said: Every day, it is difficult to use words to pay ... Parents are ordinary people are also poor children, hope to leave the child is not to forget the original heart, inheritance, mother's quality, cheers, their own life.
It can be said that the tacit understanding of Wang Nan's family of four has reached a consensus on education.
Wang Nan played ball at the age of seven and changed the life of the whole family with the efforts of one person. Life always depends on their own control, in the condition of conditions permitting, Wang Nan gave the two children the best way to educate, but also achieved the growth of the two children.
In fact, the best education for parents for their children is companionship and support, tolerance and understanding. Parental approval is often more important than any external reward, and it only when the child is willing to try something will things go more smoothly.
I believe that when Wang Nan registered his son for this table tennis competition, he did not deliberately ask for his results, but only regarded this game as a different experience in life, focusing on participation. Perhaps it is this calmness that makes her and her children become the best friends.
In fact, life is not a game, participate in it, will be plain to face wins and losses, can afford to lose, in order to win. Wang Nan, who has been a champion for a lifetime, chooses to slow down in her children's education, not overly demanding her children, letting them choose their favorite path and giving support and encouragement, which is enough to prove her love for her children.