Lin Huiyin died 7 years ago, 61-year-old Liang Sicheng married a 27-year-old woman who was scolded, what happened to this woman?
In 1962, the 34-year-old Lin Su married Liang Sicheng, a 61-year-old man, as he wished.
The combination of the two is that Lin Su disregards the death and life of her ex-husband Cheng Yingtao, and resolutely chooses to divorce;
It was Liang Sicheng who ignored the obstruction of his children, was decided by his best friend Zhang Xiruo, and was hated and scolded by Shen Congwen;
It is two people with a 27-year-old age difference who bear the worldly prejudice that it is difficult for old men and young wives to share a white head.
(Lin Su and Lin Huiyin, ex-husband Cheng Yingzuo, Liang Sicheng love-hate entanglement, see below)
61-year-old Liang Sicheng opened his mind twice and wanted to marry a woman who was 27 years younger, why was he ridiculed by the group of relatives and friends?
Can such an unblessed marriage be happy for a long time?
Marriage is like a person drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge. In less than 2 years, the two had a marriage crisis.
In 1963, The "Double Reverse" was investigated by Lin Su, who was suspected of occupying public funds. Liang Sicheng said that if the results of the survey are true,
We're both done.
This statement is light and breezy, and there is no mercy. This is Liang Sicheng's public expression of his attitude towards Lin Su: that's all.
In private, he was nothing more than that of Lin Su, and it was even more common.
Although Liang Sicheng married Lin Su, everything in the Liang family's arrangement was from the old, and everything was permeated with lin Huiyin's shadow, and Lin Huiyin's mother, who lived with them, was always dangling in front of Lin Su's eyes.
(Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin mother and daughter)
Lin Su, who had been straightened out, had the confidence to be the head of the house, and she began to quietly and slowly eliminate the traces of Lin Huiyin.
Later, he also boldly removed the portrait of Lin Huiyin made by Xu Beihong hanging on the living room wall, which was also a posthumous portrait.
Lin Su's heart was recognized by Liang Zaibing, who returned home, and the imposing Liang Zaibing threw her a big slap, and then left the scene in anger, and rarely stepped into the Liang family in the future.
Liang Sicheng saw this dispute, not only did not blame Liang Zaibing, but also said boredly when Lin Su cried: Why bother!
Yeah, why bother?
Liang Sicheng's implication is nothing more than: Why bother with the mediocre people for a while? Why move Lin Huiyin's portrait? Why bother with Liang Zaibing? Why disturb the peace of the house?
If you sow the cause of your own sins, bear the consequences well.
Although Liang Sicheng treats her like this, Lin Su always likes to declare that her marriage with Liang Sicheng is very harmonious and happy, and she is becoming more and more dependent on him.
It's just that the lies are sweet and the reality is a slap in the face.
Every day, Lin Su has to try her best to take care of Mrs. He, who Lin Huiyin calls "incompetent and nosy", eat three meals a day, and save money in the morning and dusk.
Despite what she did, she still couldn't make Liang Sicheng feel satisfied, and he still had to personally record Mrs. He's physical indicators and mental outlook every day.
But her own elderly mother took her two children, received 80 yuan a month for living expenses, rented in a cramped alley, did not get half of Liang Sicheng's pity, and only allowed to come to Liang's house every week to take a hot bath.
Liang Sicheng has always disliked Lin Su's son and daughter Tong and Lin Zhe, especially Lin Zhe. Once, Lin Zhe accidentally drank water from Liang Sicheng's cup, and Liang Sicheng was so angry that he scolded: I really have enough of you.
(Lin Su and his children)
Liang Sicheng, who used to be worried about Lin Huiyin's feelings everywhere, even took into account the feelings of Lin Huiyin's fans. It was only when he yelled at Lin Zhe, "I've had enough of you", did he ever think about taking into account the feelings of Lin Su, the pillow person.
For Lin Su's two children, Liang Sicheng did not fulfill the responsibility of his stepfather's teaching and allowed him to grow up.
In this family of heavy education and majors, Liang Sicheng's advice to Lin Zhe was: Go to the countryside and go to the "Labor University".
His explanation for this was: Although I should help Lin Zhe correct it, I really can't take care of my physical strength and nerves.
After that, Lin Su's two children were not enrolled in higher education, so they could not be arranged for a long time in their work.
After Liang Sicheng's death, Lin Su's relationship was finally settled, and his son became a driver for the leader, and his daughter came into the library as an administrator.
It is said that economic power dominates the right to speak, I don't know if it is worried about the right to speak, Liang Sicheng has always been in charge of the money bag in the housekeeper, has not given Lin Su the right to run the family, nor has he questioned Liang's own right to speak.
"I'm not a coward, I'm just very tolerant." Lin Su once commented on his marriage with Liang Sicheng.
I am very puzzled, such a person can not give themselves the warmth and dignity they want; can not give the marriage protected by parents and children, what is the use of patience?
<h1 class = "pgc-h-center-line" >01 is just like this before birth, and there is no arrangement after birth</h1>
In 1966, Liang Sicheng was also beaten to the right, suspended his salary, and was driven to live in a cowshed.
Lin Su actually chose not to give up this time, and used his salary of 62 yuan to support the 5 members of the Liang family.
The key to making careful calculations every day is to ensure that Mrs. He's braised pork is continuous at every meal.
From Liang Sicheng's serious illness in 1968 to his death in 1972, Lin Su has been taking good care of him.
After years of hard work, she finally exchanged a dying sentence from Liang Sicheng: These years, thanks to Lin Su!
What a touching sentence, but it is only touching, and it cannot be eaten as a meal. A very real problem arose: Liang Sicheng did not make any plans and arrangements for Lin Su's future.
Was it that Liang Sicheng went too suddenly, too late to make careful plans for Lin Su?
Obviously not, from the onset of illness to the serious illness, Liang Sicheng lay in the hospital bed for more than 1,000 days and nights. As long as you have the heart, these more than 1,000 days and nights can arrange Lin Su and her seven aunts and eight aunts properly.
However, Liang Sicheng did not think of planning for her at all, investigating the reason, or did not care for her, but that was it.
{Lin Su looks to liang sicheng statue}
At that time, Liang Sicheng left nothing for her except for an inheritance of 4,000 yuan and a bunch of unfinished manuscripts.
Their house at No. 8 in the New Forest Courtyard has only the right of residence, not ownership. At the end of the Cultural Revolution, Lin Su was also expelled. Many years later, as a tsinghua faculty member, she applied for a small house with 1 bedroom and 1 living room.
Some people say that Lin Su loves vanity and is begging for marriage, but she is just a free nanny for others, which is what she deserves.
When Liang Sicheng died, Lin Su was only 44 years old, married for 10 years, but widowed for nearly 50 years.
She humbled half her life, in addition to getting the name of a "first lady of Chinese architecture", in fact, she did not get good materials, in the end, the desire for fame and fortune was disappointed.
In his later years, Lin Su was once asked in an interview with the media: "What do you think you have gained from your 10-year marriage with Liang Sicheng?" ”
Lin Su was silent for a long time, and then said, "She gave me happiness!" ”
Yes, happiness can buy me willing, happiness can eliminate a thousand days of suffering, happiness can withstand eternal sorrow.
I hope that Lin Su at that time was really happy when Liang Sicheng treated her and her parents and children coldly, and she was still taking care of each other and Lin Huiyin's mother with all her heart.
Some people began to slowly sympathize with and pity her because Of Liang Sicheng treated her coldly; and because she had worked hard to take care of Liang Sicheng for several years, and after Liang Sicheng's death, she continued to take care of Lin Huiyin's mother, Mrs. He, until she was old, and some people began to slowly wash her white.
In the book "The Woman with the Aroma of the Soul", the author once proposed that we should be merciful and tolerant of Lin Su.
Is Lim Soo a good woman or a bad woman? We gradually understand that the complexity and twists of life are far beyond imagination, just as the richness and delicacy of emotions are far beyond our own control.
So, put away the habit of making conclusions easily, treat the people and things around you, and sometimes compassion is far more important than understanding.
If she had been living in obscurity as a weak person, presumably her wind evaluation would have turned upside down today. Unfortunately, after a period of silence, she began to be a demon again.
In 2004, on the occasion of the 100th anniversary of Lin Huiyin's birth, Lin Su appeared on various interview programs with the book "Liang Sicheng, Lin Huiyin and Me".
Whether in the flash or in the book, she stands in the perspective of a stepwife who is distressed about her husband, and uses the brushwork of the haha mirror to intentionally or unintentionally distort many facts.
Later, these distorted and distorted things became the evidence of Lin Huiyin's "green tea" being exposed on the Internet.
Under Lin Su's haha mirror filter, we can only see the shadow of Lin Huiyin's little woman:
Lin Huiyin blindly loves beauty, and always likes hard concave shape when taking pictures;
Treating feelings with Long Wangshu, her swaying left and right between Liang Sicheng and Jin Yuelin, and the difficult choice once made Liang Sicheng deeply miserable;
Liang Sicheng's birth mother originally did not agree to marry Lin Huiyin's daughter-in-law, and it was she who cried to Liang Sicheng before she came into the Liang family...
Lin Huiyin at the survey site
But the woman who faced the wind and sand, stepped on the mud, surveyed the terrain in her overalls, and climbed high and low;
The architect who picked up the lamp and drew pictures, dragged the remaining sick body, and ran to protect the ancient city wall of Beiping;
The patriotic scholar who returned from the south and returned to the north, was seriously ill, but in order to complete the unfinished business, he gave up going to the United States for treatment was gone.
What's even more ridiculous is that it is the same as the truth of the disappearance of Lin Huiyin in the book,
In books such as "Liang Sicheng's Collected Works", "Liang Sicheng's Architectural Paintings", "Liang Sicheng's Complete Works" and other books compiled by Lin Su, "Where has Lin Huiyin's credit gone?" ”
These manuscripts were investigated, archaeologized, and demonstrated by Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng together before his death, but Lin Su had erased the traces of Lin Huiyin and became the result of Liang Sicheng alone.
Lin Su also personally wrote the preface to these books, and after squeezing out Lin Huiyin's name, he finally tied his name to Liang Sicheng.
What is also amazing is that she selectively published some love letters written to her by Liang Sicheng:
"Ai Mei, as soon as you leave, it seems that the whole world has changed, it was like a honeymoon in the middle of spring, as soon as you left, the sky was cloudy, it was cold, and the flowers withered... I miss you so much that I want to go back to your arms at once, and if I really want to take the train, I will go crazy. ”
The sensational words in the love letters during the period of love not only subverted Liang Sicheng's consistent image of MuNe, but also gave people the illusion that Liang Sicheng loved her and loved Lin Huiyin better.
Probably really responded to that sentence: the more a person is missing something, the more he likes to dry something.
What is even more amazing is that she actually went to auction the academic manuscripts and collections of Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin before their deaths.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > not only publish books, but also engage in auctions</h1>
In those years, she personally auctioned off Qing Dynasty embroidery pieces collected by Lin Huiyin; the engagement text of Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng in 1927; and the painter Yu Shaosong gave Lin Huiyin a wedding gift: a set of paintings and fans.
There is also Lin Huiyin's dowry: a mahogany box. This box originally had a pair, and there was also a pair that was sent across the ocean to Lin Huiyin's friend Fei Weimei.
At the same time, there are also many paintings and hand-drawn paintings by Liang Sicheng, worth more than 10 million, and some of the prices are as follows:
Lin Huiyin collects Qing Dynasty embroidery pieces (a group of nine pieces), transaction price: 115,000 yuan
Liang Sicheng purchased the shares of Zhongyuan Company, the transaction price: 109,250 yuan;
Liang Sicheng St. Peter's Basilica (cross-sectional view), transaction price: 89,700 yuan;
Liang Sicheng St. Peter's Basilica (reconstruction map), transaction price: 92,000 yuan;
Liang Sicheng built 34 volumes of French style, with a transaction price of 2,180,000 yuan;
The most famous of these sold collections is the thirty-four volumes of the Construction of the French Style with an appendix to one volume.
This is a new wedding gift from Liang Qichao to Liang and Lin, and this is the heavenly book of ancient architecture, and the two regard it as a treasure.
There are many annotations by Liang Sicheng Lin Huiyin in the book, which are densely written, which shows that the two of them have devoted their lives to studying the annotations.
In other words, these things that have a temperature and a memory, is it not beautiful to keep the past by yourself? Valuable things are donated to the country for future generations to do archaeological research, and it is more beautiful to have a good reputation!
(Donated to the National Library)
Some people may say that for a 93-year-old woman, our attitude should be more compassionate, and our evaluation should be more tolerant, but the evaluation of a person is not only about character, not about age?
Now when it comes to the wife of the master builder Liang Sicheng, what we know, think, and say is still only Du Lin Huiyin alone.
Although Lin Su constantly brushes her sense of existence with books or appearances, everyone still regards her as a beam-jumping clown, and then seeks benefits after sensationalizing the public.
Even the CCTV documentary "Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin" only tells about the contributions and achievements of Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin, a scholar and a couple, and does not mention Lin Su at all, because she did not have any contributions originally.
Therefore, Lin Sugao married Liang Sicheng for 10 years, for most of his life as a widow, and has been questioned by people so far, what has he gained? In fact, everyone has a scale in their heart.
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