It is best for a person to "eat sugar cane upside down" in his lifetime, and the more he mixes it, the better he will mix.
To put it tackily, the more comfortable the future life will be.
When my eldest daughter was in the fifth grade of elementary school, the whole school speech luckily won the first place, and the teacher wanted her to go to the county competition. Neither her mother nor I encouraged, but neither did she say badly. He said quietly, "Don't leave your homework behind." Then she didn't go.
Sometimes we win glory for the school, or even for the country, it should be the mission of a student or a citizen, and it is glorious. But that time is very short, and then there's the rest of your life, the remaining life.
Recently, I saw Liu Fei's report on the Internet, and I felt sad and abnormal.
Liu Fei, a Manchu, born in 1979 (one year younger than my eldest daughter), is a Chinese skill athlete. In 1998, he won the three-man event group at the World Championships in Minsk. After retiring from the army in 2000, he was plagued by injuries and difficulties. Her life was only brilliant for 3 years, but she had to face decades to come.
South Korean women's volleyball player Gao Yumin, at the peak of 2013-2014, can play the main attack, reception, and free man. After that, the state began to decline, always playing substitutes. In March this year, he suddenly voluntarily withdrew from the team. He committed suicide at home on July 31 at the age of 25. Her life was only two or three years of glory.
This summer, my daughter sent her son to the "National Taiwan University - Children's Math Team" for class. I also said humorously (in the V letter), "Our family doesn't need much mathematical genius, but it's best for our family to "pour sugar cane." She replied with the words "mm-hmm" because she could understand what I meant.