We are now accustomed to giving special nicknames to those close to us, just like girlfriends and male girlfriends. We always like to treat others with our hearts and lungs, and when we are not hurt, we are always unable to distinguish whether the friends around us are good or bad, so we often suffer losses.
People always say that fire and theft are anti-girlfriends, but many people still don't understand why they should guard against girlfriends, shouldn't girlfriends be their closest friends? And no matter what happens, the girlfriend will always stand on her side and give advice for herself. But they don't understand that people's hearts are separated from their stomachs, and even the best friends have times to betray you.
And now more and more people are easily confused by some things, which will change their nature, even their parents may not even recognize, let alone you are just a girlfriend? So we can't be defenseless against our girlfriends, because they may give us a heavy blow that day.
Today we come to share the story of a netizen Wu Li to see what she has experienced.
Wu Li and her husband Hou Wei have been married for a year, the two people were originally free love, so the feelings have been very stable, there is no big quarrel, the husband and wife can also tolerate each other, is a model couple that everyone envies.
Something is wrong with the husband
But just in recent days, Wu Li found that her husband Hou Wei was a little wrong, and there was nothing very abnormal, but it was a lot of changes in some usual living habits.
In the past, Hou Wei was always sloppy and never cared about his own image, every time Wu Li let Hou Wei clean up after himself, Hou Wei would always tell Wu Li that he was a big man and did not go to participate in the beauty contest, why clean up? And isn't he more able to reassure Wu Li in this way?
But now Hou Wei has to clean up every day, sometimes even spray perfume, and his clothes are changed every day, which makes Wu Li feel like a changed person.
And before Hou Wei returned home, the first thing to do was definitely to see what Wu Li was doing, and then ask Wu Li if she was busy, if Wu Li was not busy, Hou Wei would always pull Wu Li to watch TV dramas together, Hou Wei said, this can enhance the feelings between husband and wife, Wu Li also once laughed at Hou Wei for being too clingy, like a girl.
Now after Hou Wei returned home, he held the mobile phone and began to play by himself, and would always smirk happily, sometimes, even at night, he did not sleep, and when Wu Li got up in the middle of the night to go to the toilet, he could still find Hou Wei playing with the mobile phone.
And the most different point is that Hou Wei's recent gatherings are more and more, there is very little time to eat at home, and every time the party comes back, Hou Wei is always very happy, Wu Li feels that Hou Wei has recently encountered some happy event. When Wu Li asked Hou Wei, Hou Wei would always tell Wu Li that there was nothing, that Wu Li was thinking too much.
Found out that the husband was cheating
Wu Li never thought that she would find out one day that her husband had cheated on her, and it didn't look like it was a day or two.
On this day, the husband held the mobile phone as always, and did not pay attention when eating, but while eating, he looked at the mobile phone, which made Wu Li feel very uncomfortable, and Wu Li felt that the distance between the couple was getting farther and farther.
So Wu Li couldn't help but ask Hou Wei, "What are you really looking at?" Every day when you come back, you know how to play with your mobile phone, do you still have my wife in your eyes now? ”
Hou Wei said perfunctorily to Wu Li: "This is my job need, don't you be suspicious all day long, is it okay to make unreasonable trouble?"
When Wu Li heard Hou Wei say that he was unreasonable, she asked a little angrily: "What work needs to be done in the middle of the night, and shouldn't the work be very rigorous?" You look at the flowers on your face, do you think I believe what you say? ”
Hou Wei said to Wu Li, "How did you become like this now?" I remember you used to be very understanding, and now it really impresses me a little. If you want to believe it, you can believe it, and if you don't want to believe it, I can't do it. After saying that, he turned around and went back to the bedroom, and also closed the door.
Wu Li sat quietly at the table alone, thinking that she didn't know how to make such a scene, she originally wanted to have a good talk with her husband, she didn't want to argue with him at all, but she didn't expect her husband to be so perfunctory to herself now, Wu Li didn't know what to do, she couldn't eat anymore, she could only get up and wash the dishes.
After Wu Li finished washing the dishes, she walked to the door of the bedroom, and was thinking about whether to go in and have a good chat with her husband, when she heard her husband laughing, laughing and saying: "Still dear you are gentle and considerate, everything depends on me, unlike the yellow-faced woman in my family, who knows all day to sweep my happiness, and even questions me today."
Wu Li was a little unable to believe that her husband was actually calling others dear, and said that he was a yellow-faced woman, and things had become very clear, and her husband already had someone outside.
At this time, the husband said, "Dear you, make up your own night today, and I will accompany you tomorrow."
Wu Li couldn't listen to it, so she pushed the door in, and then saw her husband hang up the phone in a panic, Wu Li wanted to grab the phone and see who the woman who destroyed her family really was, but unexpectedly, Hou Wei pushed Wu Li away and asked Wu Li: "What are you crazy about?"
Wu Li looked at her husband's dislike for herself and scolded Hou Wei: "Do you still want a face?" A mouthful of a dear, I said why are you so wrong these days? It turned out that there was someone outside, and I wanted to see who this fox spirit was? After saying that, he reached out again to grab Hou Wei's mobile phone. Hou Wei gave Wu Li a slap at this time, saying that Wu Li was really a crazy woman, and went out after saying it.
Wu Li looked at the empty house, her heart was very sad, and she desperately wanted others to comfort her, so she turned around and went to find her girlfriend.
Learn the truth
After arriving at her girlfriend's house, Wu Li began to drink wine, and told her girlfriend that Hou Wei had cheated on her, and she didn't know what to do, so she wanted her girlfriend to give herself a way.
After the girlfriend heard Wu Li's words, she said to Wu Li: "You shouldn't put up with such a man anymore, leave it sooner."
At this time, Wu Li also felt that her girlfriend's words were very reasonable, and Hou Wei did not apologize to herself, so she was completely disappointed in Hou Wei.
The girlfriend told Wu Li that the man cheated on him, once you forgive him, he will definitely become more intense in the future, and he will not realize his mistake at all, so he has been advising Wu Li and Hou Wei to divorce.
After a while, the girlfriend saw that Wu Li was no longer crying, so she said that she was going to go to the toilet. Wu Li was drunk at this time, and felt that she couldn't swallow this breath, so she wanted to ask Hou Wei why she was doing this to herself, just when her girlfriend's mobile phone was on the table, Wu Li picked it up and called Hou Wei.
After Wu Li dialed the phone, before Wu Li could question Hou Wei, Hou Wei said, "Honey, I will divorce tomorrow." When Wu Li heard her husband's words, she instantly woke up and understood that the woman outside Hou Wei was a girlfriend. I didn't even know when the two of them got together behind their backs.
Wu Li also hung up the phone decisively, feeling that she could not be so cheap for her girlfriend and husband, and she should collect evidence of her husband and girlfriend cheating, so that her husband would be discredited and realize his mistake.
After the girlfriend came out, Wu Li acted as if nothing had happened. When he returned the next day, Hou Wei proposed to divorce Wu Li, and Wu Li decisively refused Hou Wei. At this time, Hou Wei had no way but to drag on. But he began to wantonly not go home.
Wu Li collected a lot of evidence as she wished, and sent all this evidence to Hou Wei's relatives, friends, and the company. At this time, everyone knew about Hou Wei's bad behavior, and Hou Wei was also dismissed by the company. In the end, Wu Li chose to divorce, but Hou Wei did not get a penny, and he was really expelled from the house, and he was also discredited.
The most important thing in marriage is fidelity, and a relationship without fidelity will certainly not go far. Even if you do not choose betrayal for a short time, after a long time, there will always be some ill-intentioned thoughts in your heart, so people who are unfaithful to their feelings are not worthy of forgiveness from others.
Hou Wei was found to be cheating by Wu Li after marrying Wu Li for a year, and also asked for a divorce in a dignified manner, Wu Li found out by chance that it was actually her girlfriend and husband who betrayed her, so she finally chose to resist and let her husband pay the price and know his mistake.
So girls must understand that sometimes it is not your fuss or too sensitive, what you find is very small, may be the evidence of the derailment of the people around you, so we should pay more attention to the people around us, so that we can be less hurt and stop the loss in time as soon as possible.
Today's Topic:
Have you ever met a husband like Hou Wei?
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