At the end of the Qingming file, the movie "My Sister" is undoubtedly the most discussed work of the same period.
Douban 7.2, box office in three days more than 400 million, N hot search set off a variety of social topics, a ride to the dust.
"Hot" also means controversy.
Some people praise it as a rare female perspective work, delicate and warm with expression, and some people scold it as a "sister road" wrapped in a warm coat, deceiving the audience's feelings.
But whether it is praise or scolding, it does not affect countless female audiences to shed tears for it, and finally through the mouth of a movie to express their years of hidden tolerance, and the anger that cannot be declared.
These are the Chinese sisters who have lost their voices.
"My Sister" tells a story that seems absurd, but it is extremely suitable for the actual national situation.
Zhang Zifeng's heroine Enron's parents died in an accident, leaving only her in her 20s and her 6-year-old brother who was in kindergarten.
The sister is preparing for graduate school, has a boyfriend, and has a future, but the 6-year-old brother can't be taken care of without anyone.
The aunt had to take care of the vegetative uncle, the uncle was an unemployed gambler, and the younger brother said, "Sister, I only have you." ”
Does she want to pursue her own good life, or will she give up the best decade of her life to take care of her younger brother?
This is a very socially valuable issue.
The older sister in her 20s and the younger brother in her 6s, this combination seems to be exaggerated, but it is almost common in Chinese society after the opening of the second child, reflecting the deep-rooted "son preference" problem in Chinese society.
Against this backdrop, Enron's childhood was not at all happy.
In order to have a son, An's father even asked his daughter to pretend to be a cripple, so as to win the second child quota signed by the neighborhood committee, and because Enron did not cooperate, he picked up the feather duster and beat it.
The An family finally got a son, and sent their daughter to their aunt's house to raise, Ann was not loved at home, and then lived a life under the fence.
The most shocking sentence in the whole film is, "You are a good person, aunt, but I was still used by my cousin as a sandbag to practice boxing, and I was watched by my uncle to take a bath." ”
A medical department in Beijing, which filled in the Enron college entrance examination, is eager to leave this bad environment.
But in order for her to make money quickly and take care of her family nearby, her parents secretly changed her volunteer to the nursing department in the province, cutting off her dreams and wings.
Didn't love her, squeezed her, and now that they've died unexpectedly, they still want their son to continue to squeeze her? Why.
Every sister who has had a similar experience has a hard time not to empathize with Enron.
The story begins with her sister Enron, but in the whole story, there is not only one sister, Enron.
Enron's mother is an older sister, and the uncle (Xiao Yang) in the movie does not learn any tricks and gambles, she must pay more efforts to take on life, and also devote energy to taking care of her mother's family.
Aunt Enron (Zhu Yuanyuan) is an older sister, she was originally a high-achieving student who could be admitted to the Russian Department of the Western Normal School, but as a result, her parents naturally gave enron the opportunity to go to school on the grounds that the family could only support one person to go to school.
The aunt found the opportunity to go to the Russian border with her friends to do business, and because Anran's mother wanted to have a child, the second elder of the An family naturally called her aunt back to serve the confinement.
Twice at the most critical time to cut off the aunt's hopes in life, resulting in her can only marry her uncle such a rotten person, an family grandparents have any guilt?
The scene where the aunt wipes the nesting dolls one by one, and after decades, she can still casually say the daily Russian vocabulary, who can not cry.
She was once a beautiful and intelligent girl, who could have had a bright and brilliant life, but she was trapped in the hopeless chai rice oil and salt day after day by saying "You are a sister".
Enron's cousin (Sun Jialing) is also a sister, and perhaps only the cousin is the only relatively happy sister in the story.
Her sharp teeth, hot and cold, dare to say dare, is the only bright color in the whole movie that retains her assertive personality.
Perhaps because the aunt had suffered too much of her unnecessary pain when she was young, she did not want to transfer this pain to her daughter again, so that she did not make her cousin another safe.
Unfortunately, her aunt was not the head of the family, and she had a father who would peek at her niece's bath.
Although most of the time her brother listens to her, the preference for sons and daughters exists invisibly.
The scene of the quarrel with her mother, she was alone at home to watch the store, and at the same time her brother was upstairs exercising and playing games, these details show that the cousin also suffered a lot of unfairness as a sister.
Therefore, the cousin would rather pay rent to Enron's father and his uncle than flee the family.
The cousin's role is not much, but it is the key line of the scene where she and Enron fight over the house reveal the story of the house.
It was the aunt who signed the renunciation agreement, and the house was given to Enron's father by an aunt and grandparents, and finally fell into enron's hands.
This explains why my cousin was so excited to take back the house safely, and she had to go back to her own house and face the suffocating situation.
This scene is crucial, showing that Enron is a victim of this generation of parents' preference for sons and daughters, and is also a beneficiary of the previous generation's parents' preference for sons and daughters, which leads to a more macro concept.
In most Chinese families, as long as you are a sister, it is almost impossible to avoid such a dilemma, and what is even more frightening is that some sisters are in it, but they do not know anything.
The cousin's sentence is equivalent to expressing the fate of two generations and three women.
This scene Sun Jialing finished very well, although she is spicy, but more for her mother to complain, if the mother did not give up the inheritance of property, is it not necessary to work so hard now?
Her words and practices actually convey a rising concept of female independence, telling your mother that you don't have to dedicate everything to them, you can also be yourself.
In those energetic arrogance, in fact, they are full of the delicate true feelings of the heartbroken mother.
The role of "cousin" and actor Sun Jialing are very close, although the role is not much, but many viewers have seen her shining.
This girl is indeed very stunning, she is originally a Chongqing girl, with the courage and pungency of the Sichuan girl in the film, from the appearance to the temperament are beautiful, sharp, cold, people give the nickname "Yudu Crazy Flower".
This sister I have been secretly concerned about for a long time, 171 cm tall, long legs, looks very distinctive, has a unique cold beauty.
Previously, everyone's understanding of Sun Jialing, more stayed in the TV series "Exclusive Memory" in the female number two, beautiful school flower Zhao Xiaotang, was praised by the audience as "especially the feeling of the goddess of Hong Kong wind".
She is from the orthodox Chinese opera acting department, and in 2014, she also participated in the Chow Sing Chi film "Mermaid" role screening competition, winning the top six, and has participated in many Chow Sing Chi movies since then.
In 2017, he also participated in the movie "Shanghai Fortress", playing the female number two Lu Yiyi.
Some actors are like that, the image and acting skills are very good, just lack a chance to be seen.
In addition to filming, Sun Jialing is a very life-like girl, loves art, loves fitness, has a good aesthetic, can take pictures, and often shares her makeup and skin care experience with her fans and sisters, which is a very interesting girl.
Good actors are more or less like this, accumulating colorful life experiences, and then feeding back into their roles to complete the next better work.
I look forward to more people seeing Sun Jialing after "My Sister", and I also look forward to my small wall head being able to perform more excellent works.
Speaking of the movie itself, this time some viewers also said that they could not accept the open-ended ending of "My Sister", believing that such an ending was equivalent to the sister finally deciding to resist the burden of "raising her brother" and did not escape the fate of "helping her brother" at all.
If the film just asks questions without giving any solutions, is the audience too upset?
Of course, the audience will expect the cool text plot, the parents are squeezed, the brother is naughty? That simply kicked away, the sister should be a big heroine who is not tied up.
But the actual operation is not so simple, even if the sister is aware of the injustice she has encountered, it is difficult to give up easily, love and affection will grind her heart in the constant tug-of-war.
And I think that many details such as selling the house and the lonely ball at the end show that the sister will definitely choose to go her own way, but the ending is relatively gentle.
The film "My Sister" has made rare progress, helping hundreds of millions of chinese sisters who have lost their voices in the social context to express their unwilling grievances.
He also told the younger siblings who had endured the favor of their sisters over the years what they had sacrificed in their life of ignorance and unconsciousness.
I hope that in the future, the phrase "I am a sister" can not represent the natural oppression and sacrifice.
I hope that every sister can have her own easy life.
Sister, come on, be yourself.