After the eighth issue of "Daughters in Love" was broadcast, Zhang Xuanrui and Selina were on the hot search again, and the entry was: Zhang Xuanrui came back to find Selina.
Open the comments again, and the comments are all cheers, celebrations, and calls for the two to hurry together.
And I, the "cp fan", looked at this one-sided sugar-inducing netizen, but suddenly withdrew.
First of all, to eat melon netizens science, "Daughters in Love" is an emotional observation program, and it can also be regarded as one of the hottest father-daughter emotional observation programs at present.
The format of the show is to invite celebrity fathers to sit in the studio and watch how their daughters fall in love.
Because it also covers topics such as "show love", "marriage promotion", "celebrity daily life", "intergenerational communication" and so on.
Therefore, the program has been a topic of conversation since the first day of launch, and Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao have circled a lot of CP fans with this program.
But as the show progressed, the popularity of another couple who was gradually getting better and twisting and turning began to surpass Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao.
They are: Selina and Zhang Xuanrui.
At the beginning of the show, Selina and Zhang Xuanrui were not optimistic about everyone, and there was not much spark between the two.
But with the advancement of the show, Zhang Xuanrui became more and more man's attitude, which suddenly made netizens feel high sweetness.
The little milk dog suddenly began to take the initiative and learned to protect everything he wanted with a strong attitude.
This kind of Mary Sue bridge section is really the most touching for netizens.
Besides, this little milk dog is still tall and handsome.
So the majority of netizens have entered the pit and began to pound the sugar.
But just when everyone was ready to meet this high-sweet love, the plot took a sharp turn, and Zhang Xuanrui Selina faced a breakup.
The reason was that on the last day of the date, Zhang Xuanrui received a call from his family and had to rush to the hospital to see his grandmother.
Not long after going to the hospital, Grandma died.
According to the original plan, after the end of the last day of dating, the two would have to decide whether to continue dating.
Or rather, it was Selina who decided whether to continue dating Zhang Xuanrui.
Because from the very beginning, Zhang Xuanrui made it clear that he participated in this show and came to Selina.
And at the beginning, because of the age problem (Zhang Xuanrui was 11 years old), Selina thought about ending the date.
It was under the man's constant struggle that the woman gave each other three days to make a decision.
But the audience who followed the show knew that in the short few dates, Selina's whole state was obviously getting better.
She and Zhang Xuanrui are also becoming more and more relaxed and happy.
Even across the screen, we can feel that this girl may be really moved.
So on the last day of the date, Selina has already made a decision before leaving, ready to ask the man if he wants to continue at the end of the day's date.
This time she wanted to take the initiative.
Selina, who had been withdrawing, afraid, and rejecting, suddenly became different this time.
She wanted to put aside the age and vegetarian issues she had been worried about before and boldly try it once.
I've always felt that there is a saying that is very correct: when true love comes, girls will become brave.
At this time, Selina reminded me of this sentence.
As a result, the accident happened.
It's almost like having a script that "climaxes", which makes people feel bad.
Therefore, after the last episode of the show, the entry "Selina cried" will occupy the hot search for a long time.
In the video Selina says:
Why is it that my life is always just a little bit worse, and when something beautiful happens, I miss it again? Why do I always have to be forced to accept a lot of things, as if my life has always been accepting?
A few simple words reveal the twists and turns of life and heartache, which makes people feel sad.
As Ren Dad said, Selina's life has always experienced ups and downs.
It seems that God is destined to make this sweet and lovely little girl in the former group of darlings become stronger.
So after the show aired, everyone was very upset with Selina.
But at the same time, I couldn't blame Zhang Xuanrui.
Because the death of his grandmother was a big event, and Ren's father also revealed the incident of Zhang Xuanrui cutting his liver to save his father, which showed his filial piety.
But the problem is that I thought things could end here, when it was not satisfactory but could end reasonably.
"Zhang Xuanrui came back to find Selina", on the hot search again.
And according to the preview of the next episode, he is indeed back to no doubt.
It scared me a little.
To tell you the truth, I think the plot has come here just right, even if it is not complete, but they have a good memory of each other, it is enough.
Take advantage of each other, or when Selina is not yet deep, quickly see the good and accept.
This is, in my opinion, the most happy ending to this date.
But here I must state that I do not want them to continue to develop, not because I deny Zhang Xuanrui as a person.
But in the process of chasing the show, I discovered Selina's simplicity and kindness.
To be honest, I'm not a fan of Selina, and I've given myself a "cautious cp" vaccination long before watching the show.
After all, the lessons of "bumping cp" failure, I don't know how many times I have tasted it, not to mention which reality show can be absolutely true.
Anyway, it is still that sentence, seriously lose.
So from the very beginning, I didn't come with a bumpy heart.
But who thought about this time, cp did not stumble, but really hurt Selina.
Selina's life experience is full of twists and turns, and everyone knows it, and it doesn't need to be said.
From a generation of days later, to burns, to divorce, to rebirth.
She has reaped achievements that ordinary people dare not expect, and she has also experienced pain that ordinary people cannot bear.
As a passerby, of course, I have always admired it.
Especially when I can still see her smile and optimism on the show from time to time.
I felt that this seemingly sweet and fragile girl was actually incredibly strong inside.
But after watching "Daughters in Love", I found that this kind of strength turned out to be false.
Or rather, she just had to be strong.
After watching the show, my impression of Selina returned to the original time: kind, simple, vulnerable, emotional, and vulnerable.
It's just that compared to Selina in her teenage years, Ren Jiaxuan now has more of a calmness about these injuries she has suffered.
It also has a little more self-protection.
But with all due respect, this protection is too fragile.
It is like a piece of cloth, if the bread is stone, it can be incomparably hard; if the bread is water, it is still of little use, it can still be trampled on.
Under Selina's armor, there is a heart as weak as water.
It seems that self-protection is very good, but in fact, it is only the difference between giving one sugar and giving two sugars. Give one can still refuse, give two more, like a child open your heart.
Just like at the beginning, although Zhang Xuanrui repeatedly said that he had come to the show for her. And frequently said that he is partial to sister-brother love.
But Selina has been holding back.
She didn't want to get close, not because she didn't like the boy, but because she was afraid of getting hurt.
An 11-year-old boy who is 11 years younger, still tall and handsome, with a bright future, how can he like himself.
That's what Selina had in mind.
And no matter in any way, Zhang Xuanrui, who has unlimited possibilities, will not be the most rational choice for Selina, whose life has entered a stable period.
So she resisted.
But this resistance was too weak, and it didn't take long for it to begin, and it became a temptation.
She began to constantly ask questions about ordinary people, constantly testing the other person's age, constantly worrying about something that had not yet happened.
And at the same time, Zhang Xuanrui is still in a state of basically no moves.
So this is also the reason why Selina was able to quickly "enter the state" after Zhang Xuanrui made a move later.
She was actually expectant and afraid, resistant and entangled, and had long hoped that God would hurry up and give her a definite answer.
At this time, the man's strong and determined attitude has undoubtedly become her best reassuring agent.
So in the end, Selina will accept Zhang Xuanrui, who is 11 years younger than herself, and even decide to take the initiative on the last day, which is almost expected.
But the problem is that she is too serious, but people worry that she is too deep!
This is just my perspective on being a girl.
Reality TV doesn't have to be real every moment, but people's small actions and small expressions can't be performed.
I'm sure a lot of people watch reality TV, and it's not necessarily because they believe everything in it.
Instead, I just believe that I can extract the "truth" that I believe from some small details that others can't pay attention to.
And the truth I extracted was Selina's simplicity and kindness. Her heart can actually be seen in many places.
For example, as mentioned earlier, girls will become brave when they encounter true love. So timid, like Selina, will choose to take the initiative on the last day.
Even after learning that the man had the idea of "quitting", he chose to personally keep the other party.
Resist, accept, enjoy, be brave, give, humble. Isn't this exactly the "confession" process for most girls?
And by far the most impressive point for me is that in the latest episode of the show, Zhang Xuanrui said that he would quit.
When Selina left alone, she said in a confused and sad tone, "The clouds are gone, and the night view is super beautiful."
The tears that had been stretched for a whole period could finally flow down with peace of mind.
At that moment, I believe everyone was in tears.
How do you distinguish between true and false feelings on reality TV?
The feelings from the performance are "extroverted", and the parties will deliberately show them; while the real feelings are "adducted", and the parties want to cover up, but it is difficult to hide.
And Selina's whole period is trying to restrain herself. We don't see her tears, but we see her sadness.
That back to Zhang Xuanrui.
The death of a loved one is a big deal, and it is indeed understandable that a bad mood will affect the mood of love.
But on closer examination, did he really like Selina as much as Selina liked him?
At the beginning, except for the faint sentence "It is because of you that I came to this show", in action, Zhang Xuanrui did not show anything else to express his liking.
Of course, you can say that he is shy and timid, and he does not dare to come close to idols and predecessors.
But then again.
In the whole process of getting along, compared to Selina's laughter one after another, Zhang Xuanrui's subtle and shallow smile is obviously much lighter than the other party.
And the most impressive one was when he took Selina to put the Kong Ming lantern, and he wanted to write a wish on the Kong Ming lamp.
Selina wrote Zhang Xuanrui next to her family, wishing him health and so on.
And Zhang Xuanrui wrote a sentence: I hope Selina will find the person who hurt her.
This sentence sounds quite good.
But if you think about it, what boy would say to the girl he likes and wants to have, wish she finds someone who hurts her?
And whether Zhang Xuanrui came because he liked Selina, or because he preferred the ingredient of sister-brother love to be a little more?
Second, Zhang Xuanrui was also pulled out of many lace news by netizens.
For example, in May last year, he was photographed with Lim Ming Zhen, a Malaysian girl who had filmed "The Wolf Prince" together, in the park. Strangely, after being photographed, Zhang Xuanrui also immediately admitted to the relationship on the Internet.
But the funny thing is that Lin Mingzhen faced Zhang Xuanrui's sudden "high-profile confession of love", but said that the other party had not discussed with himself before going public.
And that park date was the first and last date between the two of them. Because after the public relationship, he encountered the cold violence of the man and never contacted him again.
And Zhang Xuanrui himself also responded quickly a month later that he had broken up.
And most importantly, while Zhang Xuanrui confessed his love in a high profile, his ex-girlfriend also posted in the air that "the courage to make people scornful call excuses" is suspected that he has a problem with his feelings.
Of course, these are the private lives of artists, and we outsiders understand it very one-sidedly.
I can only say that in the whole process of chasing the show, I can't fully understand Zhang Xuanrui's ideas.
But I could fully feel Selina's joy and sadness.
Of course, selina may be stronger than we thought, but we can't bear to see her hurt again.
This article is written | Shiva