What deeply disturbs the mother is the boy's dual identity of "opposite sex" and "toddler"
When a mother faces a boy, she often feels incomprehensible. In the mother's view, boys have the dual identity of the opposite sex and young children, so many times not only will the degree of "incomprehension" deepen, but also the uneasiness will also arise.
I want moms to get along with boys on the premise that "the other person is a completely different animal than me, so I can't understand it at all" and "he can't share the joys and sorrows of women with me."
If mothers use the feminine theory and women's perceptual discipline that have been cultivated for many years, they often inadvertently hurt their children because they do not pay attention to their words. In this way, the boy tends to become dejected and unmotivated, and the end result is that both mother and child are in an embarrassing situation. Such examples are also not uncommon.
Women are not afraid of being difficult by nature, and the slightest unhappiness will be revealed.
But in this way, the boy is easily injured, because for the boy, the mother is the closest person to him, if the mother says in front of his younger siblings, "You will really rub it!" The boy would feel very hurt and think, "That's how my mother saw me."
In fact, the boy is not very good at dealing with his mother when he shows his displeasure and reprimands him. Therefore, it is hoped that mothers will pay attention to the wording when talking to boys.
However, it is gratifying that almost all mothers will think "boys are so cute" when they say children.
And no matter how much the boy is blamed by his mother, he still feels that he loves his mother the most.
Therefore, you don't have to be too nervous.
In short, mothers should realize that they are facing boys with the dual identity of heterosexual and young children, and should use their rich imagination to understand boys.