I don't know how you understand the relationship between wife, lover and first love.
But for individuals, it feels like love is like love, lovers are like smoke and clouds, and wives are more like helpless.
If it is said which is the favorite of men, it will vary from person to person!
The human heart is flesh long, and true love is not a role play, but whose heart is more real.
Some people think it's a wife, some people think it's a lover, some people think it's their first love....
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In the relationship between men and women, according to normal reasoning, the wife should be the most loved in a man's life.
After all, after all the sails, he finally chose to marry this woman as the person who accompanied him for the rest of his life.
However, there are many men, and it is a helpless move.
Because I can't be with the person I love the most, I retreat to the second place and choose a woman at the age of marriage.
It can be said that this man is irresponsible, and it can also be said that this man has no pursuit of ning que and no abuse.
Not only did it harm herself, but it also ruined this woman's life.
In short, for such a man, the wife is not the favorite, more like helplessness.
There are also some unhappy men in marriage, this role for the wife.
Not only is there no love, but it can also be filled with disgust and hatred.
It's just that because of the child's entanglement, it is not good to live well, and it is inseparable from it.
In the face of such an emotional state, it is sad that not only men, but also women.
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Of the relationships between men and women, the lover's relationship is the least strong.
Whether it's because of interests coming together, or because of mutual attraction.
Once two people are based on the fact that they have a family with each other, then this relationship is doomed to be fruitless.
In fact, for such a lover relationship, there is an ideological tacit understanding.
That is, the feelings of two people are based on the premise of not destroying each other's families.
And this consensus is also doomed, and the weight of each other in each other's hearts cannot compete with the family.
Of course, some people will break such tacit understandings and rules because they are too emotionally invested, and even re-establish a family because they love each other.
It's more like a gambler of feelings, whether the bet is won or the bet is lost, the result will not be too good.
For the rest of your life, you may end up in a turbulent and displaced end.
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The beauty of first love will always be the most unforgettable feeling in a man's heart, and no one can replace the position of this role.
As we often say, there is a white moonlight in everyone's heart.
And first love often becomes such a beautiful existence in men's hearts.
It is precisely because of this kind of begging and not being able to get married, and there is no regret left behind when they get married,
Instead, it fulfills the most beautiful vision of love between two people.
In the man's heart, this woman, there is only love, no chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea life.
Like a fairy who does not eat fireworks in the world, she has never left any wounds and pains in her heart.
Even if there is, it is a kind of love beauty.
This kind of beauty that resides in the inner world will often become the favorite in men's hearts, white and flawless, and impeccable.
And this is also beyond the reach of the wife, realistic and cruel.