Lead:
Now there are many drinking parties, classmates party to drink, colleagues to eat and drink, friends call to play and drink together, talk about business and drink, sign contracts to drink, and even go to drink when they are happy. Some women are also so bad wine, but many women who take care of the family do not want to drink, even if the leader raises a toast. But men are different, a family is all on their own, the leader must drink to toast, if the business is good, invite people to drink, friends call one by one to play and go out to drink.
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Alcohol has become a consumer product for men, Ms. Hao has known her husband in college, and has experienced many things from classmates to lovers to husband and wife. Ms. Hao said that her husband had never gone out to drink before when she was in college, and she did not smoke if she smoked, but now she does not leave her body. The husband is for money, for the sake of Ms. Hao's family, so he has to drink the boss on the wine table, after all, the husband's own future is in the hands of the leader
After drinking happily with the leader, maybe you will promote yourself at work. The husband has always thought so, so colleagues gather, basically drink with the rich, and friends who are not very financially good will selectively interact. Some people say that the husband is realistic, and Ms. Hao says that reality is not realistic, it is not important, he is good. From love to marriage, her husband is very protective of Ms. Hao, very good to Ms. Hao, and even feels that his economy cannot give Ms. Hao a rich life, so he works overtime and works hard.
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But it is also like this, Ms. Hao feels that her husband has changed after getting married, before Ms. Hao wanted to go out to play, a message husband rushed back immediately, even if he did not come back, her husband would call Ms. Hao and say that he would let himself go out and play, and if there was not enough money, he would ask him. Before marriage, all kinds of excuses are inseparable, love is sweet, and after marriage, it is for various economic needs. When she first got married, Ms. Hao knew that after marriage, it must be different, so the changes at the beginning were not in her heart, she and her husband were always in love, and she needed a loving hug when she went out, and she needed to kiss other spoken words on the phone.
Ms. Hao lived a happy married life for two years, and from the third year onwards, her husband gradually took various reasons for overtime travel, basically leaving Ms. Hao at home. Ms. Hao, who has not yet had children, is very insecure at home alone, and when she goes to her girlfriend's house to know how to play, she sees the sweetness of her girlfriend and her girlfriend's husband, and Ms. Hao misses the good life with her husband before. Ms. Hao, who envied her girlfriend, returned home and thought about the house where a person lived for a long time, and finally made a decision.
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Ms. Hao felt that the child must be there anyway, sooner rather than later, when she returned home, she immediately called her husband not to work overtime during this time, and to prepare for pregnancy. The husband promised sloppily, in fact, now he is still with the customer, and it is already good to answer the phone. Where else did I hear what Ms. Hao said. In this way, since Ms. Hao called her husband to ask for children, but her husband has been out on business, even if her husband comes home, he will not be in bed. I had traveled or drunk before, and had slept apart so long ago that I hadn't seen my husband for a week.
Her husband went to work at 7:30 and Ms. Hao went to work at 8:30, so Ms. Hao basically couldn't get up with her husband. Her husband can now give Ms. Hao money every month, and her husband's salary and performance are forty or fifty thousand per month, but Ms. Hao feels that even if the economic troubles are gone, she does not feel much happiness. Only then did I understand that happiness was not only economic, but also had to have the laughter in the house. Now Ms. Hao has made it clear to her husband that her husband will drink when he comes home, otherwise he will go on a business trip and leave him alone.
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This kind of life Ms. Hao began to complain a little in the fourth year, as soon as her husband came home, he would scold him for drinking and drinking all day, and his body was ruined, and Ms. Hao thought that she was more and more angry when she thought of her childless self. In the past two years, Ms. Hao has also picked up her husband who has been drunk in the past, even if the husband says that the next time will definitely be appropriate, but this guarantee is less than a few days. Ms. Hao felt that such a husband had changed, and then Ms. Hao asked her husband to quit the job and live a safe and stable life.
But the husband loudly rebuked Ms. Hao: I am easy in this company, why should I give up because I can't accompany you every day? If you go back to your mother's house and spend time with your mother, you can be together every day. The husband said that the next day he regretted a little, and then he thought of his wife's words after drinking with the leader, thinking of giving his wife a gift to apologize, and then called his wife at three o'clock in the morning to ask his wife to pick himself up, so Ms. Hao said on the phone: I will not endure such a life anymore, there is no difference between having a husband and nothing, just one more money out of it. I have my own salary, I am not realistic, so let's get a divorce! I'm already home. After hanging up the phone, the husband immediately rushed home, looking at the empty home, the husband actually shed tears.
Conclusion:
Women don't all like money, and living with their husbands focuses on the care and pampering of men. Romance is indispensable, perhaps hand in hand to go shopping on the street is the happiest, but I have not seen each other several times a month to chat several days, no matter how deep the love is, how dry and rotten, in the end can not stand the test of time, contact is not, how to maintain feelings.