Recently, I watched Kotaro Isaka's "Serenade", which has a small story that is particularly moving.
A warm collection of short stories, highly recommended
Fujima has a loose personality and is usually very busy at work, so he is very concerned about some small things in life. Agreed to clean up the storage room and dragged it out for a year; made an appointment to work overtime and came home late to call, never kept the promise; promised to throw away the garbage, and often forgot. His meticulous wife has always been very unhappy with him, saying that he has "one less tendon" to do things, that he can't do anything in the end, and most importantly, he has been "breaking the contract" and paying no attention to the promises he made to her.
He confessed his mistake and apologized every time, but there was no substantive change.
Finally, one day, the wife left a note with the words "Goodbye" and ran away from home with her daughter.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > quietly collapses in patience</h1>
Adult life is too difficult, get up very early in the morning to cook, rush to send children to school, a day's work is exhausting, after work to exhaust the last patience in the crowds and traffic, it is difficult to get home, there is a lot of housework waiting for themselves, the weekend is not overtime or accompany the child to the interest class.
No dreams No dreams last night
The stranger in the mirror no longer dreams
The class clock becomes a punch clock
One-way street life is lost in the car lineup
March The mediocrity of the regularity
Living is like a slogan that rhymes and obeys
- Mayday, "Survive Above Life Below"
There is no easy word in the dictionary of adults, but it does not delay us from living with courage. We may not be like the teenagers in secondary two, squatting down and crying while walking on the road, patience and running are the daily routines of adults.
However, we also have times when we are tired.
In "Please Answer 1988", Donglong's mother has been a strong woman and the king of insurance for a lifetime, and after retirement, she has a grandson at home, perhaps unable to accept her role change, and suddenly collapsed one day.
Minister Zhao, a strong woman, also had a time of collapse
A calm day, taking care of my grandson like a daily routine, suddenly chest tightness, thinking, what are you doing here... She said, "My life has always been called Dalong Mother, Donglong Mother, I am not happy about this, my name is Zhao Xiuxiang." So he ran away from home and went to his sister's house.
Everyday details are like the last straw that overwhelms the camel, leaving adults to break down silently.
Just like Fujima's wife, maybe she found that the garbage that should have been thrown away last night was still in the doorway, maybe she went to the storage room to find something for a long time because it was too messy and couldn't find it, maybe she made dinner again and Fujima didn't come back- at some point, she was suddenly bored, tired, and felt tired like never before, and the details of the past patience overflowed out, making her unable to breathe, she couldn't control her chest tightness, thinking, "What am I doing here", only fleeing was her only option, so she left, Like a person who is about to drown desperately swim across the sea.
< h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > reluctantly turn back in warmth</h1>
His wife was gone, and Fujima was sad. It wasn't that he didn't love his wife, it wasn't that he didn't care about his daughter, he just didn't expect such serious consequences. It was just a few small things, and I didn't expect her to care so much. He finally understood how heavy the little things in his eyes, cumulative, were for his wife.
In frustration, he went to the Vehicle Authority to renew his driver's license, and met a woman who had a relationship with him five years ago and ten years ago. The woman was very much like his personality, thrown around, and her husband was always dissatisfied with her because she forgot to keep a note of her savings. Five years ago, she had a big fight with her husband, who was so disappointed in her that he was ready for divorce.
Today, she actually finished the driver's license update and came to wait for Fujima. She told Fujima that she had reconciled with her husband. Originally going to divorce, one day she finally remembered, went to the bank to do deposit bookkeeping, found that her husband had remitted several small sums of money, and the name of the remitter was written "I am also wrong." She immediately called her husband to apologize when she saw it. Later, the husband said that he was gambling, and if she could really reflect on herself to keep accounts and see the information he left behind, then he would come back.
Apologizing is to give love a chance
After Fujima listened, Daigo was empowered, and he decided that no matter what, he would express his apologies and express how important his wife and daughter were to him.
As for whether his wife will turn back, the story does not say. But we can think that she has actually been waiting, waiting for the person she once loved, and perhaps has always loved, to give herself a reason to turn back.
Zhao Xiuxiang's husband, Donglong's father, gave Zhao Xiuxiang a reason. After he learned that his wife had gone to his sister's house, he took a long vacation at once, taking his grandchildren at home and taking care of everything. The sister-in-law asked him if he wanted to talk to his sister, and he said, "No, let your sister rest more."
He knew she was just tired, not out of love.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks</h1>
Adult love is actually the mutual support of busy life. It's just that the incomprehension between each other will put a heavy burden on love. Chai rice oil and salt is the source of warmth, but also can become a contradiction in conflict.
A little more understanding, a little more warmth.
Author: @ Sheep every day upwards, the world is very big, there I am not afraid, share new knowledge, talk about whispers.