Wen | Gu Ziyu
01.
In this life, people are scattered and impermanent, even if they are in love with each other, even if they have more reluctance, they always have to face a period of loneliness, because one person goes first, and the person who stays behind will inevitably be hurt.
Lovers have left, some people can adjust in a short period of time, a person will live well, the rest of the time, accompanied by full of memories, until the end of life; and some people can not face the lonely and old days, want to find someone to accompany the road after the end.
Some people say that the elderly are most afraid of loneliness, and in their old age, it is also a good thing to meet a person who is compatible in all aspects, two people chat and talk together, and the days are also very good.
Uncle Li is 70 years old this year, after the death of his wife, he lived for a period of time, sometimes go to the children's home for a few days, but the children have their own lives and careers, and there is no time to take care of the old father, a long time, he came up with the idea of finding a wife.
After the introduction of the red lady, Aunt Wu had good conditions in all aspects, so she arranged a blind date for two people, and as soon as they met, the two people had a good feeling for each other, and the more they talked, the more speculative they were.
Aunt Wu is 68 years old this year, there are three children have their own families, do not have to worry about themselves, they also feel lonely in life, want to find a wife to live together, she said that as long as the other party is a sincere person, the rest is not a problem.
02.
The first major problem of the elderly blind date is who controls the economic power of the two people, this problem is the key point that determines the success or failure of the two people's blind date, and many elderly people have no follow-up because of this problem.
Uncle Li said that he was an open person, if Aunt Wu was willing to give money, he would give her all the money, everything listened to her arrangements, did not expect That Aunt Wu's head shook like a rattle, and quickly said that he did not care about this matter.
Uncle Wu is also happy, he said that he can open more than 4,000 yuan a month, the cost of two people is enough, Aunt Wu's money is willing to spend, unwilling to spend it on his own savings, if Aunt Wu leaves first in the future, he will arrange everything for her.
Hearing these words, Aunt Wu was very moved, she said that she did not expect Uncle Li to be so cheerful, she said that her deceased wife was a very generous person, did not expect that Uncle Li was also such a person.
Uncle Li's home still retains the appearance of the original wife in the world, he said that when he wanted his wife, he came back to see, now that he has a new life, he also has to pick it up again, and the past will be left to the memories.
Aunt Wu made a request, saying that she did not want to live with her children, so that everyone was convenient, Uncle Li immediately said that he still had some savings, he could buy a small house of 4.50 square meters, and it was enough for two people to live.
Uncle Li has done this, has been very sincere, in the elderly blind date, can do so has been very good, it is estimated that this blind date ten to nine stable is a success, did not expect That Uncle Li's next move is more surprising.
03.
Uncle Li ridiculed whether Aunt Wu could give him the ring in her hand, Aunt Wu said that it was a birthday gift from her daughter, and could not be given to others, Uncle Li casually took out a bracelet and put it on Aunt Wu's hand, saying how do you see this, this is what he bought for his deceased wife before.
While putting a bracelet on Aunt Wu, Uncle Li said: Let's look everywhere, and if we do, we will go to get a marriage license in a few days.
The Red Lady was excited next to her, and asked Uncle Li if this was the meaning of the promise letter? Uncle Li responded that it was almost that.
It seems that the rhythm of the elderly blind date is also very fast, look at the conditions directly, many things are on the table, can accept the immediate finalization, just continue to the next step, not to pull to.
Just like Uncle Li, the ornaments of the deceased wife are given to the new wife, which is really rare, under normal circumstances, after the death of the old man, most of the jewelry is reserved for the children as a souvenir, and rarely to the next one.
If you want to show sincerity, you can buy new jewelry, so that everyone's heart is very comfortable, because some people are very taboo about what this kind of deceased person leaves behind, except for their own family.
I don't know how Uncle Li's daughter will feel when she sees her father give her mother's relics to her future stepmother, I think it will be very sad, this is the common sentiment of people, can understand.
There is a story around me: when the mother was alive, the son gave the mother a valuable jade bracelet, but this mother was a very diligent and thrifty person, and the son was afraid that the mother would not accept it, so he said that the bracelet was not worth a few dollars.
Later, after the death of the mother, the father married another woman, the woman was very knowledgeable, she put the jade bracelet on her hand, the son and the father proposed to buy a new one to exchange for the mother's one, the father said there was no need, the son was speechless.
The son is a rich man, not counting the money more money and less money, the key is to buy things for the mother, he wants to keep a thought, but he wears it on the hands of others, how can he not mind it?
Write at the end:
People are emotional animals, there is an old Chinese saying called seeing things and thinking about people, many things have gone beyond the meaning of things themselves, because of the reason for their owners, these things are already the continuation of emotions, can not be measured by money.
Many people who cherish righteousness will treasure and retain some things, perhaps in the eyes of others is a very ordinary object, in their eyes may be priceless, very precious.
Those who can regard what their beloved person leaves behind as a treasure must be a common person, and such a person will not disappoint as a friend and as a husband and wife.
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About the author: Gu Ziyu, a freelance writer, shares with you emotional stories with warmth.
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