"I want to be like a white-collar worker who buys coffee every day, works in the best office building, wears nice clothes, takes a plane to travel all over the world, stays in various hotels, and meets all kinds of high-level people..." - Yuan Yuan, "The Golden Years"
In the drama version of "Flowing Golden Years", He Hongshan, a Chongqing girl born in 1987, plays a "heart machine girl" Yuan Yuan who came from a small city to Shanghai to work hard and realize her dreams.
He Hongshan
Yuan Yuan from a small city, to the greater Shanghai such a strange first-tier city, always with a small place full of rustic atmosphere, in her cognitive world, to Shanghai for help is a foothold of the ex-boyfriend Zhang Anren, the first meeting is her most elaborate dress, put on what should be her most beautiful clothes, comb her self-thought to be the most innocent hairstyle, sprayed a lot of Gucci perfume she thought was the most advanced.
Girls who have never seen the world, in front of the three generations of Shanghai's rich nansun who were born with superior conditions, always have a kind of humility and unpleasantness, but with the "stubbornness" of the low-level people who have dreams and dare to break through.
The role of Yuan Yuan is not pleasing, full of a "tacky" and "snobbish", as well as "hypocrisy" and "heart", at first glance I hate this persona, but when I see the end, I feel the helplessness of the low-level people's struggle and desperately climb up, and the countless "civilian" girls like Yuan Yuan who want to change their lives have the greatest "stubbornness" and "means" in their bones.
<h1>To break through the limitations of cognition, the only way to stand at a high starting point</h1>
Yuan Yuan, in fact, represents countless ordinary people who have no innate conditions and can only rely on themselves to work out a future they want. The limitations of all conditions make everyone's cognition limited, and before they are exposed to new things, they can only live in their own cognition, until one day, they are broken by people or things that actively or passively impact, and in that instant, all your previous cognitions begin to collapse and disintegrate, gradually establishing new cognitions, and then perfecting and adapting.
Yuan Yuan from a small city to a big Shanghai, although the initial heart was not pure, but when all the conditions were not friendly to her, in addition to the ex-boyfriend Zhang Anren, who had made a new girlfriend in Shanghai, she also "surrendered" in the name of "surrender", somewhat with humility and helplessness.
Meeting Nansun and being able to become a springboard in her life, Yuan Yuan is interesting and sober. If there is no condition for Nansun to quietly squeeze out Yuan Yuan and let her enroll in classes, with her own "nothing" to complete the dream in her heart, I don't know how many detours she will have to take.
Yuan Yuan seized this "opportunity" and clearly had her own life plan and goals, which can also be regarded as the best "heart machine". She chose business English, and tried her best to "package" her "bottom card" after completing her studies, whether it was a rich family lineage, or returning to China after studying real estate from Australia just to rely on her own independent female design, all of Yuan Yuan's "well-intentioned" was just to get a "pass" for the Shanghai elite.
Although these false "packagings" make people feel very uncomfortable and very clever, but based on setting up people like herself, Yuan Yuan has used her own efforts to prove that she is not worse than others, and the qualifications of "dancing on the same stage" with the elites, those "packagings" give her the confidence to support all this, which is a "means" implied by her self-psychology.
<h1>Have a dream in your heart, insist on action, and climb up is the ultimate goal in life</h1>
All of Yuan Yuan's "efforts" are proving her dream of coming to Shanghai, and climbing upwards is her ultimate goal in life. Although many behaviors are not so bright and honest, and they live with masks, when a person feels empathy, you will understand her suffering, her insincerity, and all her "disguises".
It's as if she can then sit in Jingyan's project office, work with the elites such as Wang Yongzheng, Li Ang, and Lilian, eat and drink together, and talk about her dreams:
Others see only a cut version of your life and make all kinds of criticisms of you, only you know all, how difficult it is.
From a small city to Shanghai, first go to work in a coffee shop near the CBD, just to see the lifestyle, speech, and dress of these elites;
From baking, accounting, beauty salons, cooking, etc. many training course materials to select the most unlikely business English, but more able to improve themselves, close to the dream of the move began to go, until she walked into the sales department of Jingyan, and then through the recruitment of the company's main project department, she finally had the confidence to sit with the elites to drink coffee and meet the qualifications of senior leaders;
Although every step of this way, Yuan Yuan is through the ex-boyfriend Zhang Anren, the "cornerstone", nansun this "bridge" to stand in Shanghai, but every step in the future, through her own "stubbornness" and "dream" support step by step to today.
Although she is still going around in Shanghai, Yuan Yuan has always completed the first jump of her life, and each jump after that will gradually increase in height, getting closer and closer to what she wants.
Although her initial dream was nothing more than the dream of the little girl who belonged to the small city, wearing high-end clothes, contacting high-class people, sitting in a high-class place, and becoming the more advanced strong woman in her heart. However, behind this pursuit of all the "advanced", it is Yuan Yuan's clear life goal, looking for high places and climbing peaks, how many people do not want this? But how many people can really persevere and practice what they preach?
<h1>The hardest part of life is that all my efforts are taken for granted in front of you</h1>
We don't like Yuan Yuan because she is always ignorant of the "pretend" of current affairs, and this kind of mentality makes people feel that her motives are not pure, and the humility that she wants to fight and cannot fight.
In fact, if you think about most people, how many people have not done this or become that kind of person to varying degrees and backgrounds?
In front of local Girls in Shanghai like Nansun and Suosuo, Yuan Yuan always seems uncomfortable, because whether it is an ordinary family or the last disappointment, this innate sense of superiority is something that a girl like Yuan Yuan has never had, and all the gains will be regarded as "heart tricks".
Try to sit with you for a cup of coffee, ask you to drink a glass of wine after work, sit with you for a late-night snack, work hard, talk about projects, talk about planning, talk about plans, although all of them want to adapt themselves naturally to all this, but it always seems awkward and deliberate, it turns out that all her efforts in these people who have a sense of geographical superiority are taken for granted, and the "pride" in their bones is revealed.
Yuan Yuan's final ending was only said through Nansun's mouth: "Zhang Anren and Yuan Yuan are still going around in circles, hoping for a better life."
Probably this is the fate of their "foreigners" who want to fight hard in the big city, where there is the word easy, there will be a city government in the struggle middle school, and there will be a "heart machine" struggle in the search for the middle school, maybe in this way, they can have the ability to take root, have the hope to chase their dreams, and let themselves truly integrate into the city for which they have struggled for youth.
End looks at the world from a philosophical perspective and talks about life from the perspective of sinology