The rich and the noble do not forget the friends of the poor and the lowly, but many friends, who have survived the common hardships, cannot be unable to share the rich with the rich. When two people have a certain gap in status and identity, they are estranged from each other. But in fact, friends have a way to get along, and knowing how to divide and measure can make the friendship between two people long and deep.
But in the entertainment industry, there is such a pair of good friends, Huang Bo and Liu Hua, and their friendship has not been diluted by the years and gaps. Liu Hua is a person who knows how to make friends, but also a very measured person, so that Huang Bo will not forget to remember his good friend at any time, but really so?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > have outstanding personal abilities and attract each other</h1>
We become friends with someone, mostly by chance, and feel that the other person can get along. We have some similarities with each other, and our values coincide. But if you want to make a friendship last, you must be able to bring something to the other person.
In fact, the essence of friends is people who can help each other, and only we ourselves have a certain ability to bring help to friends. And this ability you have allows the other party to see your future possibilities, so you will not dare to underestimate it.
Liu Hua and Huang Bo met when filming "Crazy Stone", and everyone who has seen this movie knows that the acting skills of the two people are very superb. The underworld boss played by Liu Hua is so realistic that people think that he is acting in his true colors, and Huang Bo, who has been playing with Liu Hua, has more clearly seen Liu Ye's talent.
There are too many things in common between Liu Hua and Huang Bo, the same is not good-looking, the road is bumpy, life is full of frustration and bumps, but their acting skills make them recognize each other, and then both people have achieved certain achievements because of this movie, Liu Hua has been seen by more people and received more plays.
People who have multiple friends and many roads, have no ability, and have achieved nothing, it is difficult to have true friends. Even if you have friends, you may only be polite on the surface. Only ability and talent can be respected by others, and respect and recognition from the heart can make this friendship last longer.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > speaks brightly and darkly, and is very measured</h1>
When Liu Hua and Huang Bo were on the same stage, they often ridiculed Huang Bo, and some words even sounded very offensive, but in fact, speaking is an art, and the seemingly fierce "Dao Brother" in the movie is actually very delicate, and he knows how to talk and speak well.
In a variety show, two people on the same stage together, Liu Hua mercilessly "broke the news" Huang Bo.
Liu Hua complained that when filming, the two people obviously did not look very good, why Huang Bo was so liked by girls, and, looking carefully, he was more gentle than Huang Bo.
A short sentence is enough to see Liu Hua's emotional intelligence, the surface is to ridicule the two people are not good looking, to please the audience's ridicule, in fact, will make the audience feel that Huang Bo's character is very good, good popularity, this good quality completely covers up the defects of his appearance, not to mention, Huang Bo's temperament is so good, and Liu Hua is better than Huang Bo, Huang Bo is obviously better-looking.
And the birthday gift he gave to Huang Bo surprised everyone, it was actually a sheepskin knee pad, Huang Boke has always had the title of "strict wife management", superficial ridicule, but in fact, willing to be good to his wife, a man who listens to his wife, although others will superficially say that he is afraid of his wife, weak, in fact, he will absolutely think that this is a good man, a good husband.
Praising people is also an art, bluntly saying that this person is good, will only make people feel hypocritical, and in this kind of open and derogatory and secret praise of the ridicule of bending and praising people, it is really frank and true, Huang Bo always has a bright smile on his face when Liu Hua speaks.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > often praise and maintain feelings behind it</h1>
Huang Bo's popularity has soared all the way, while Liu Hua has not paid much attention to it, and rarely sees any works in film and television, but he will also appear in some variety shows, and the feelings of the two people have not faded.
Although the two people rarely have the opportunity to cooperate, plus Huang Bo is busy at work, so there are fewer meetings, but in private, the two people often have dinner, even if someone interviews behind the scenes, Liu Hua will not say any bad things about Huang Bo, and often mention how good Huang Bo is to his friends.
Liu Hua is very good at being a person, Huang Bo often thinks about his friend, Huang Bo in the Arctic filming, the environment is particularly harsh, but still think that Liu Hua likes to drink tea, tirelessly transport the arctic deep ice back to Liu Hua to make tea. Liu Hua was particularly touched by this, and put the water on the bedside table and was reluctant to drink it, but one night he was drunk and thirsty, and he drank the water with his hand.
Later, when Huang Bo asked about it, Liu Hua said that the tea was not brewed, the water let himself drink, Huang Bo in order to comfort Liu Hua, specially went to Taiwan to get liu Hua top oolong tea, and then went to Yunnan to make tea, the two people are really brotherly.
Liu Hua often talks about Huang Bo's goodness, even if the relationship between the two people has reached a particularly deep point. Over time, the relationship between the two people will fade without maintaining, but Liu Hua's good evaluation of Huang Bo will always let Huang Bo think of his good friend, and the friendship will not fade.
In the variety show, although Liu Hua said that Huang Bo was on fire and could not come, but in fact, the relationship between the two people was very good, otherwise he would not be so bold and ridiculed, wanted to meet with Huang Bo, let Huang Bo pick a suitable role for him, Huang Bo said no, Liu Hua directly said let Huang Bo write him one.
Huang Bo is not shirking, but Liu Hua's play path is really narrow, after starring in "Crazy Stone", it is indeed a fire, but for this reason it is difficult to have a suitable role, Huang Bo is not angry about this, because Liu Hua is only a little more opportunity to get along with himself, but it is such a phone call that makes the relationship between the two people better.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > written at the end</h1>
Although it is said that friends must be sincere in getting along with each other, there must also be a certain distance and principles. The way friends get along is not to calculate the friends, but to make the two people get along more long-term. Sometimes we treat each other sincerely, but this friendship does not have a good result, because it is not appropriate in the process of getting along.
Liu Hua is a very good friend, so he can and Huang Bo has always maintained a good friendship, even if the two people later have a certain gap, this relationship has not faded, Liu Hua is very skilled in making friends, can not say that his friendship with Huang Bo is not sincere, on the contrary, he is a person who is very attentive to friends, so he will be more careful when making friends, more cherished.
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