Preface
A young and promising e-sports genius should have a bright future, but because of a crazy and twisted online relationship, he fell into the abyss of pain. How was he bewitched, and how did he degenerate step by step? A sad tragedy unfolds, let's find out!
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01.The 21-year-old national service genius player "Fat Cat" fell into tragedy
In the exciting esports arena, there are always some bright new stars and fallen heroes of yesteryear. And the 21-year-old national service genius player "Fat Cat" is destined to be the latter, because he fell into the quagmire of feelings and suffered a huge blow in his life before he was bright.
As a top master of the glory of kings, the "fat cat" who should have been crowned and had a bright future retreated, but because of a crazy and twisted online relationship, he paid a heavy price. The relationship lasted for two and a half long years, but all he gained was the pain of being unscrupulously demanded by his girlfriend, suffering from mind control, and betrayal and cheating.
At the beginning, his girlfriend's "spiritual PUA" to the "fat cat" may have been just some unintentional moves. But after being asked for money, this kind of control and manipulation completely changed. The originally sunny boy was soon distorted into paranoia and blindness by this relationship, and became a pathetic e-sports slave who only knew how to worship money and compromise.
In order to please his girlfriend and win her favor, he will do whatever it takes. Making money is just for her, and the living expenses all depend on moderation. To open a shop and rent a house, he will bear all the costs. Even the last 66,000 yuan of savings was turned into spare money in her hands in a "voluntary gift" remark.
What kind of blind obedience and pathology is this? Even former friends and comrades-in-arms sincerely regret it when they see it. An e-sports master who was born brave and good at fighting was completely crushed by a pursuit of illusory love, and fell to this point, which is really heart-wrenching.
But more brutal blows are yet to come. After paying an epoch-making huge sum of 510,000 yuan, the "fat cat" seems to be loyal and sincere, but it can only be exchanged for his girlfriend's derailment and betrayal. It was only at the last moment that it dawned on the poor boy that he had lost all his dignity and self-esteem.
In the face of such heavy mental trauma, what choice will "Fat Cat" make? Let's move on!
02. "Fat Cat" desperately plays games to make money
In order to maintain that destined miserable relationship, how did the young "fat cat" do his best and pay hardships?
As a young e-sports practitioner from other places, the residence is naturally very poor. A small and simple rental house is all the belongings of the "fat cat" in Chongqing. Day in and day out, he lives here alone, sweeping floors and tightening his belt to save money.
Most of the takeaway boxes that he had eaten were just a dozen yuan of snacks, which was enough for him to barely fill his hunger. In order to save the money for his girlfriend in this budget-conscious room, he would even wait in line for hours for the three-dollar discount.
Such a terrible living environment seems to be unbearable even for most ordinary people. But for "Fat Cat", it's just the supreme sacrifice he made for love. In order to make money to support his girlfriend, he had to play games as hard as he could, working more than 16 hours a day, constantly spinning.
According to the calculations of netizens, their half-eroded relationship in the past two years has consumed a total of 25,000 single play funds played by "Fat Cat". In other words, on average, every day, this young man has to stay up late to make 34 orders to maintain expenses.
Imagine being in front of a computer, facing the operation interface of the game, for 16 hours a day, with dry eyes and back pain, still insisting on this boring and narrow work, what kind of persistence is in your heart?
However, all these efforts and expectations failed to wait for his girlfriend's heart in the end. After building this tower of love with his own hands, the "fat cat" found that there was no one inside!
03. After being defrauded, the "fat cat" chose to commit suicide
For any 21-year-old, the road ahead is full of infinite possibilities and beautiful aspirations. As a rising star among the top teams in the national server, Fat Cat has a future that is the envy of countless people. As long as he continues to work hard, he will be able to gallop on the stage of e-sports and win honor and wealth.
However, fate often plays tricks on people's hearts like this. At this age, the fat cat, who should have been brave, buried everything because of a crazy and ridiculous relationship. For the sake of a true heart, he did not hesitate to abandon his future, family, and friends, and completely ignored them.
That true heart may have been pure and flawless at first. But after being cheated and defrauded, it turned into a rusty poisonous nail that pierced deep into the fat cat's heart, crying out for endless pain and despair. How can a person be so blind and paranoid that he even turns a blind eye to the dissuasion of relatives and friends? This is probably the magic of love, which makes people lose their minds and take risks.
In the end, when all the bubbles were ruthlessly revealed, the fat cat chose to end his life after realizing that he had paid everything wrong. This bad news spread in the e-sports circle, and even people who didn't know anything about him couldn't help but regret and regret it. It is a sad thing that a young and promising genius died so young.
If it continues to develop step by step, maybe Fat Cat has already won countless glory on the e-sports stage, or may have become a well-known top player. Now, however, all these bright futures have become a flash in the pan. His only home was a cramped bed in that humble rental house.
04. Online dating needs to be judged carefully
With the development of the Internet, online dating has become more and more common. However, just as tragedies like fat cats happen frequently, we must also maintain a high degree of vigilance against online dating.
After all, the Internet is a kind of virtual world, and what the other party shows in front of you may not be the real side. He/she may be trying to disguise the image you want for some purpose, and then show your true colors after you have genuinely entrusted them. Just like the case of the fat cat, the girlfriend may have been a little mental manipulation at first, but then it completely changed its taste.
Therefore, in the process of online dating, you must always keep a clear head, carefully evaluate the other party's personality, three views and values, and see if it is worth entrusting your sincerity. Once you find that the other party has unreasonable behavior or style, such as the kind of "asking for money" behavior encountered by the fat cat, you should immediately pay attention to it and think twice.
After all, for an adult, everyone knows that money is earned by their own hard work, not by this shortcut. If the other person's purpose is to accumulate money, then the emotional basis between you is false and unhealthy, and it will end in nothing.
What's more serious is that once you are really deceived and pay money or other costs, the other party is likely to ruthlessly abandon you after obtaining benefits. At that time, you will suffer a huge financial and mental double blow, just like the end of the fat cat. Isn't it worth warning a young and promising being to suffer such a tragedy without warning?
Therefore, young friends, in the process of online dating, we must maintain a high degree of rationality, always be cautious of the other party's bottom line, and especially maintain a high degree of vigilance against those unreasonable demands and behaviors. Once you notice something abnormal, it is the best policy to stay away and withdraw decisively, and you must not make mistakes again and again like a fat cat, and eventually bury your precious life.
After all, there is only one life, and we should use it to pursue something more beautiful and righteous, rather than burying everything for the sake of getting carried away for a moment. Such a price is too heavy!
05. Young people should learn self-love
What kind of life drama does the unfortunate experience of the fat cat give us? It not only shows the various traps and hazards that may lurk in online dating, but also allows us to see the tragedy of a young and promising talent falling like this.
21 years old should be the age when a person is full of ambition. But at this stage, the fat cat made a series of distressing choices for the so-called love. He was like a gambler who lost his mind, pressed everything on his own, and finally lost everything.
The pain of this lesson makes people beat their chests. Of course, we are not trying to completely deny the existence of love, but we are calling on young people to learn to love themselves first. How can a person who doesn't even love himself expect others to love him? A large part of the reason why the fat cat will embark on this road of no return is that he lacks the awareness of self-worth and blindly sees himself as an existence that can be claimed and squandered.
In a relationship, both parties must be based on mutual equality and mutual respect. You should treat each other with a peaceful mind and never be in a state of groveling like a fat cat. At the same time, you should also give the other person enough respect, rather than being condescending and pointing fingers. Such a mode of getting along is destined to be distorted and unhealthy.
Most importantly, we should not sacrifice everything we have for a so-called love. Life, ideals, and future are priceless treasures, and they are bargaining chips that we should not risk and consume. And the fat cat gave up his most precious thing again and again in order to maintain the ethereal relationship, which eventually led to such a tragedy.
This is a painful and poignant lesson. It reminds us once again that in the online world, we must be extra cautious and remember not to trust strangers with sincerity. Because once deceived, the price will be huge and heavy, just like a fat cat, and life may end.
So friends, let us learn from this tragedy, always have a rational and sober mind, and cherish and care for ourselves. Only when we learn to love ourselves can we gain the love of others, and we will not repeat the mistakes of fat cats. Life will eventually show its best side, without falling into the quagmire of pain and self-attack!
epilogue
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