1. Stay positive
Whether your relationship can go to the end or not, every girl must remember that a relationship must be able to make you positive, must encourage you to continue to improve, become a better person, must make you feel happy. If your current feelings make you decadent and degenerate, make you lose yourself, lose your direction, make you suffer from gains and losses, and even doubt your own worth. Then, please stop the loss in time to terminate the relationship.
In a person's life, he must live for himself, and he must not be wronged for his whole life.
2. Only with people with good character
There are many criteria for finding a boyfriend, looking at the appearance, looking at the economic conditions, looking at the future, this is all a matter of personal choice, can not be from the beginning. However, good character must be chosen.
A person with good character, even if he is not experienced in love, will try to learn how to be a good partner and learn to take care of you hard. It's not just because of your charm, but also because it's his responsibility. The ability to be responsible makes people feel trustworthy in every way. Be a good colleague at work, a good leader in the eyes of friends, a good child in the eyes of parents, and a good partner for you. He has his own bottom line, has his own persistence, he is there, you feel that life has hope, the future has companionship.
If your lover is very rude to others but spoils you alone, in the eyes of others are unreliable but only you regard him as a treasure, please pause your girlfriend filter, this kind of person, must not be worthy of trust.
3. Remain independent
Don't forget why you're together just because you like it, a lot of people have the idea of "because I like you, so I want to be like you, or you become like me" and "because you like me, so you have to think about me". But recalling the beginning of a love, you just want to extend the respective life trajectories of two people together, and when your needs are not met and you do not get a good response, you will have the idea of "you don't understand me, do you not love me".
Stop this self-hatred and self-pity, cherish the Internet red lady believes that love is a matter of two people, but also need to remain independent, stay sober, and maintain the integrity of the self, which is the secret of 1+ 1 greater than 2. It's hard, but it doesn't mean it's not needed. When there are differences, of course, we need some concessions, but seeking common ground while reserving differences does not mean compromise and surrender.
4, do not be raw and rigid chicken soup love
On WeChat, Weibo, and Douyin, we will all see a variety of chicken soup love guidance, such as "Boyfriends who can't do these ten things, waiting for the New Year?" "Men who can't even distinguish between lipstick numbers can't ask for it" "A real boyfriend should spoil you", if you see similar content, please do not hesitate to take it or cross it out.
How to judge a man? There is no reasonable standard for this. The boyfriend in this kind of chicken soup emotional marketing text is not a universal standard concept. If you can't make a next evaluation of what your pillow person is, but you have to rely on foreign standards to measure his behavior rigidly, this must be a great failure. Love is to be experienced by yourself, so remember, don't take those chicken soup love!
5. Confirm the need to fall in love again
Never start a relationship because you are lonely and lonely. This kind of feeling that has no future at all will only make love lower and lower in your heart, and this frivolous and casual love will only make you reduce your ability to truly invest in a love.
True sound personality, love is just the icing on the cake. Having love will make you better and happier, but without love you shouldn't be empty and lonely. When you are single, it is inevitable that you will long for someone to be around when you encounter difficulties and loneliness. But even if you have love, your lover can't be on call when it's windy and rainy, after all, you need a lover, but not a bodyguard, a maid, isn't it? So, cherish the Internet celebrity lady recommends looking at your own heart and asking yourself, are you really in love because you long for a love?
6, easy not to say break up
Breaking up is a very lethal word. Remember, don't say those two words lightly, unless you really think the relationship is irretrievably, and it's time to end. Breaking up is not a means of threatening the other person and demanding that the other person make a change. If you always say these two words, it will only make the other party feel that you are not serious about this feeling, and it will create a rift in the other person's heart. Maybe you think that you will get the other party's retention when you break up, but this is not a long-term solution. Always saying that breaking up will definitely make the other party physically and mentally exhausted, so that this relationship cannot be saved.
7, can afford to take, put down
Love is real, so are the days together, the sweetness of the past is also true, and your separation is also true.
If a relationship is not properly managed, creating a rift that causes you to separate, please face it. People must have certain diseases in their lives, and a broken relationship is like a disease on the road of life. Cherish the Internet celebrity lady thinks that breaking up is no big deal. You have to admit that something is wrong with your relationship, not to complain about yourself or to guess whether the other person did something that betrayed you. Don't get caught up in it, it's no big deal. Looking up, the sky is still clear ahead.
Author:(Text/BD)