Do you have "best friends"? How did he "break through" from your many friends and become your "best friend"?
"Do you believe in fate?"
I believe in the saying of fate, and I have a fate with Xing'er. The first time we met, she suddenly came to my house, walked up the stairs, and called me names in the hallway. I ran out, and she reported to herself that I was Lu Xing'er. I took her by the hand and pulled her into the room, ignoring my mother, who was sitting on the side, and muttered to herself.
In me, I was never an affinity person, and later I heard others talk about the first meeting with Xing'er, and it was not always like me, at first sight. It seems that only I meet her.
The first time we met, we kept talking and talking, what was it talking about? It's writing. Starting from the first "Yiwen Friends", as the exchanges deepened and became longer, our topics also radiated out, covering each other's lives for more than twenty years... She is particularly energetic and full of vitality, and her sensual tentacles grow freely and freely, even arbitrarily occupying space. We have serious disagreements over many things, but I'm still amazed at how differently she feels.
Text/Excerpt from Wang Anyi's "Tonight's Starry Night"
"All I know is that there is a lovely person in front of me"
Dishan is my best friend.
When I first saw him, I felt "this is a friend" and didn't need to ask him anything; even if he turned out to be a robber, I only saw him cute; I only knew that there was a lovely person in front of me, and I didn't know his history at all, and it didn't matter!
With his inquisitive attitude toward all kinds of learning, with his interest in all aspects of life, with his enthusiasm for the promotion and counseling of friends, and with his meagre interests in money, he is by no means like a short-lived person. Whenever I see his smiling face, hold his soft hand with a jade ring, or hear him talking about learning or stories incessantly, I always feel that he will live to be eighty or ninety years old, and I believe that if he lives to be eighty or ninety years old, he will still be able to talk and laugh as he did when he was young, and he can do whatever he wants, never rejecting the request of his friend, or embarrassing his friend a little.
Text/Excerpt from Lao She's "Tribute to Mr. Xu Dishan" with slight adjustments
"I was born to greet you."
We become particularly good because of depression.
In her third year of high school, an exam, I watched her hunch her head and be taken out of the classroom by the teacher, stunned. I can't believe that a person who has been giggling with you all day will suddenly collapse one day to the point where he can't even write a scroll. I also believe that the original good-looking eyes can be hollow like a button.
I went to her, "I just don't believe you get depression all the time you play with me?" So, in the suffocating sea of questions, she became the reason for me to surface and spit bubbles for breath. In a pile of jars of medicine, I saved a handful of sugar for her.
A year later, she got better and re-read. Later, she told me, "It turns out that I was born to welcome you." ”
We just stumbled on depression with a friendship.
"Sunset returns to the mountains and seas, accompanied by confessions"
My best friend is the friend who has been with me the most over the past decade. No matter how other people sing about "spiritual fit" and "soul mate", for me, real companionship is the most important thing.
In the days of North Drift, we rely on each other, witness each other's growth together, fight with the monster of "life" together, experience and deal with "accidents" such as the subway crowding the morning rush hour, the water heater is broken, the sudden water and power outage, being knocked on by strangers, and the landlord's temporary notice to move. Emotional connection, crying and laughing in unison.
It is because of her company that the foreign land of Beijing shows its tender side. Because of this, when she gets married and wants to move out, I will feel broken, "seriously like a couple talking about breaking up".
But after the crash, she still had all my blessings. I wish my best friend, who has been singing and making beautiful gestures on the path of life she wants.
"Those who are lucky enough"
The ideal friendship has many kinds of appearances:
For example, when they know each other in a small way, they do not carry utilitarianism; for example, they will put themselves in each other's shoes and are willing to listen to each other, but they do not point out at will; for example, each other is willing to present weaknesses to each other without having to work hard to show a very powerful appearance in front of each other; for example, even if the other party "sees through", but still likes; for example, even if the mouth spits and nags, if something really happens, it will be the first to come forward...
How hard it is to understand each other, and how lucky it is to have a true friend. So, envy those who are lucky enough, please, also cherish those who make you lucky.
When your friends pour out their chests to you,
Don't be afraid to say "no" in your heart,
Don't hide the "can" in your heart.
When he is silent, your heart will still listen to his heart,
Because in friendship, there are no words,
All thoughts, all desires, all hopes,
They all happened and shared in silent joy.
Gibran's "On Friendship"
To you who are lucky to have true friends
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