What about my friendship: My best friend had to lie between me and my husband after getting drunk

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As a woman, it's normal not to drink, at least that's what I think. However, I have an alcoholic girlfriend who often calls me in the middle of the night and asks me to drive her home. To be honest, my girlfriend often calls me in the middle of the night, which does bother me sometimes, but because she is loyal to me when she is awake, it is also a reward for her within my ability.

My girlfriend has done the following things for me over the years: my mom spent $200,000 when she was sick, and my girlfriend gave me $100,000 during this period saying, don't pay it back; every time I come back from a trip, I bring me a gift; every time you ask me to go shopping with her, you'll at least give me a designer dress; once I was knocked down on the street by a young man who didn't even apologize. So I got into a fight with the guy, and the guy slapped me twice. In the end, my best friend discovered the young man's message in various ways and found someone in front of me to catch him.

I really feel lucky to have such a good friend. However, the other day, my best friend was drunk again, so I went to pick her up. This time she shouted for coming to my house. How dare I refuse? Around two o'clock in the morning, my girlfriend still showed no signs of leaving, so I went to the 'second bedroom' to help her lay the quilt, sincerely hoping that she could spend the night at my house, but she insisted on sleeping between me and my husband.

The monopoly of love prevailed at that moment, and it was the first time I had lost my temper with my best friend. Who knows, my best friend wasn't happy, so she slammed the door and left. I chased him downstairs and she pushed me away. She also said that I would leave her alone in the future, and that she was going to break up with me.

Although I apologized to my best friend on the phone when she woke up the next day, she said on the other end of the phone that it was first and foremost her fault. However, after this happened, I clearly felt that my best friend was unfamiliar with me. I don't want to lose such a good friend. How can we fix the estrangement or misunderstanding between us?

Reply to bloggers:

1) Do you love your best friend's money or cherish your friendship?

2) Your best friend is trying to sleep between you and your husband. Your rejection is instinctive and a reasonable request. Why should she blame you? After your husband goes to bed, will you say "thank you" to her?

3) She did give you a lot of help in life, but you also did a lot for her. Or what your best friend does for you sounds energetic in you, but within her reach, it's easy.

4) There is really no need to "bully" between friends. No matter how good she is to you, she can't replace your husband's place in your heart. Because of this, after this incident, the correct treatment result: instead of calling to apologize, your best friend should call you to apologize.

5) Such a strong and unreasonable friend is not a real friend, don't worry.