In the past, we have seen dapeng, it is like this,
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Or something like this.
A man who is either massage or massage, wandering all year round on the edge of soft pornography, vulgar jokes, edge balls and indecency.
But this time, because of the movie at the beginning of the year, everyone changed their minds about him. Many famous directors have said that the film is surprisingly good, which is quite surprising, saying that he is a real director. This movie is Tencent's "Auspicious Ruyi" with a high score of 8.8 points.
It's not so much a movie as it's more of a documentary, but Dapeng doesn't want to make a documentary, so he adds an actor, but it still looks like a documentary. Yes, there is only one actor Liu Lu in the whole film, she plays the daughter of the third uncle Lili in the play, and the others are real people. In the process of filming, the real Li Li also rushed over to stand aside.
The pictures here are all dapeng's relatives, because Dapeng's grandmother is seriously ill, and the old man's five children, that is, Dapeng's mother and uncle, have gathered back to their grandmother. Originally, Dapeng wanted to record his grandmother's last days, but because of the special third uncle, Dapeng set his eyes on him.
In grandma and uncle, we see a microcosm of the rural elderly, which is why a simple short documentary in the parents can touch so many people.
At the beginning of the film, this old man who shouts "Wenwu Xianggui" while smoking a cigarette in the snow is Dapeng's third uncle Wang Jixiang. In 1995, the third uncle had a serious illness that burned out his brain and has suffered from intellectual disability ever since. He no longer remembers things, only a little simple self-care ability, but still remembers his most important family, Wen Wu Xianggui.
These are his four siblings, the eldest Wang Jiwen, the second wang Jiwu, the fourth wang Jixiang (that is, Dapeng's mother), and the fifth king Jigui. And he himself was once the pillar of this family, and several brothers and sisters have more or less received his favor. Unfortunately, the illness broke his brain, and his wife also left the family with her daughter Lili and never returned, while he himself was expelled from the house and lived with his mother in the home of the second brother Wang Jiwu.
Perhaps it is doomed in the dark, Dapeng's filial piety just happened to record grandma's last journey, and it is also a very special memory.
When Grandma Dapeng died, the family members were all sad and crying, and we saw that outside the door, Zhen Lili and Dapeng stood dazed outside the door, more overwhelmed and guilty.
What makes people move is that the demented third uncle seems to be able to understand the pain of eternal separation on this day, and also stands on the side and weeps sadly.
This time, people came so together, even Li Li, the daughter of the third uncle who had not been here for more than ten years, also came, not only to discuss the matter of the grandmother's death, but more importantly, to discuss the raising of the third uncle. For so many years, grandma and third uncle were raised by the second uncle's family, and the second uncle's family was already overwhelmed, and proposed to let the other sisters share it with Li Li.
We see that the second uncle has already had all white hair and looks even older among the sisters, which shows that he has indeed endured a lot of pressure over the years.
(Second uncle: front row, second from left)
When the second uncle mentioned the issue of raising the third elder, the original warm family quarreled again, and this scene is exactly the problem encountered by many rural Chinese families, which makes people feel particularly real.
At this time, we see that the fake Lili played by actor Liu Lu has completely put herself into the role, crying and kneeling to apologize to her second uncle and second aunt.
In fact, when filming, Zhen Lili stood on the side and used her mobile phone to escape, turning a blind eye. I don't want to criticize anything here, after all, she has followed her mother for so many years, and evasion is also her own self-protection behavior.
This scene truly reproduces what is called life like a drama, and drama is like life.
It is worth mentioning that when the actor Liu Lu asked Zhen Lili why she did not go home for so many years, Li Li opened her heart and said to Liu Lu: "I don't seem to have felt love since I was a child, I don't have the ability to love, and I don't know how to love others." The first time I felt love was because dapeng wanted to make a movie this time, I had the opportunity to face my family's complaints about me, try to rearrange everything in the past, and get out of the influence of my original family on me. ”
Liu Lu was sad after hearing this, and even more sad after in-depth communication with Li Li. Later, she said: "Like many people, I don't know what others have experienced, and it is impossible to empathize, so I will question the unknown and hurt others." 」
So, I often think that the only thing we can do is try to understand inclusion, which is the way the film hopes that people can learn to love others. ”
When someone asked Dapeng why he made such a short film as a director of a commercial film, Dapeng was speechless and could not speak for a long time. And I know that he can't give up this family affection in his heart.
Dapeng Mama said a paragraph at the time, which made people sad, but it also truly exposed the reality. She said this: "The trees are scattered, and when the old man is gone, there is no cohesion." ”
This is also the case in many families, and without the bond of parents, sibling affection has become less important and has become the most familiar stranger.
Perhaps after a long time, only the third uncle will continue to chant "Wen Wu Xiang Gui, Wen Wu Xiang Gui".
Why aren't we outside the play?
Busy with this and that all year round, busy for most of my life, but ignoring those who are closest and closest.
We ran away for half a lifetime, and let us feel that the return is still a teenager is a mouthful of a milk name from a relative in the hometown;
We ran away for half a lifetime, and what makes us feel that we are still teenagers is the familiar and kind hometown sound of our hometown;
We ran away for half a lifetime, and what makes us feel that we are still teenagers is the brick and tile, mountain and water, person and thing in our hometown...
In many Chinese families, the issue of old-age care is often a big problem. Such news is not uncommon. There are 85-year-old wives who sue 5 children for support, 90-year-old women who have been blown away in front of their sons' homes, and family members with disabilities or mental disabilities who have been abandoned...
It is precisely because "Auspicious Ruyi" has filmed so many real emotions and real reality that it will make it so easy for the audience to substitute for the role and win everyone's praise.
I am a post-90s, maybe because of the economic development, maybe because of those years of family planning policy, I have obviously felt that our generation has been far less close than the parents, grandparents at that time, they were so closely related, I don't know if you read this article do you also have this feeling?