I've been married to my third son for 5 years, and some of the episodes are beyond my comprehension

Today is Wu Wei's perspective, missIng Gu Yuan, that is, the younger brother's perspective in the previous story can be clicked here: My mother is the most well-behaved little three in Taiyuan, 20 years, and finally dare to say who has the greatest retribution

Then follow my words and look at today's story together.

01

I'm Wu Wei.

In 2012, when I saw Gu Yuan in the fitness center, my jaw almost dropped.

Gu Yuan and I had not seen each other for many years.

I couldn't believe that this big lump of fat on the elliptical machine in front of me was him.

I confessed for half a day. Wait for him to come down, before he dares to say, Hi, you are... Gu Yuan?

He nodded and said, you are...

Wu Wei, in junior high school, we both made the same table.

Gu Yuan looked at me confusedly and said, Were you quite fat before?

That's right, it seems he remembers me.

At that time, I was indeed very fat, fat to the point of inferiority. And he is a handsome and beautiful teenager who is famous in the whole school.

Unexpectedly, after not seeing each other for many years, our weights were actually reversed.

Back then, I also had a crush on him.

02

As soon as the junior high school started, Gu Yuan was quite eye-catching in the class.

One is handsome, and the other is rich.

The teacher assigned us both to make the same table, and I was full of small nervousness.

I have a handsome phobia.

So for a week, I didn't say a word to Gu Yuan.

However, the seemingly innocent aroma on Gu Yuan's body always stirred me.

Especially after changing to the window, a small wind blew in, faint, with a sweet fruity aroma, really smelled so good.

It's definitely not the scent of floral water or any skincare products.

One day in self-study class, I couldn't help but quietly ask him, what is on you, it smells good.

He was stunned, and I shook the string of wooden beads on my wrist and said, "This is it, agarwood."

I said, where to buy, how much, I also buy one.

Even if I don't see it, looking at that broken thing, it is worth five pieces and eight pieces, and there can be no more.

As a result, Gu Yuan said, my father gave it to me, I will help you ask if there is anything, it seems that there are more than 8,000.

The exaggerated numbers scared me so much that I almost slid under the table.

I was busy saying, no, no. Just smell yours.

03

It can be said that a bracelet has cut the distance between me and Gu Yuan.

I'm still self-aware.

Knowing this kind of boy, you can only look at it from a distance, and you can't play with it.

Two months later, the teacher changed seats again, and Gu Yuan and I separated. In the second year of junior high school, the school was divided into classes, and there was no more contact.

Soon, the news of Gu Yuan's family reached the school, and he no longer had a good time.

This is where the greatest harm of perfect human design lies.

How many people have held you, and then how many people have stepped on you.

By the second semester of the second semester of junior high school, Gu Yuan had been completely isolated. Between classes, he was often seen sitting alone on the edge of the playground, not talking to anyone.

Once, I also met him being beaten by a group of boys.

I'm quite pitiful gu yuan. Did he do something wrong, and he couldn't choose who would be his mother.

But the girlfriend said to me, you still pity yourself, people are pitiful, every day they take a big run home, you don't even have a moped.

Alas, what a loss.

At that time, I was grinding my mother to buy me an electric bicycle. Think of it, there is no right to pity people.

Gu Yuan's third semester will not come.

He is like the male protagonist in the novel, leaving a bright color in my ordinary youth, and then disappearing.

04

My family is pretty ordinary.

My dad was a little civil servant, and my mom worked at a public institution.

I went to college in Linfen.

At that time, the whole dormitory was about to lose weight together. Morning runs, aerobics, diet pills... After four years, only I succeeded.

But I didn't talk about being in love when I was thin.

Teacher, more meat and less wolf. There were more than 30 people in our class, and there were only 4 boys. We all raise pandas.

After graduation, he returned to Taiyuan and became a teacher.

My mom immediately arranged a blind date.

Girls of the same age generally resist, but I don't.

As a girl who starts solo from the mother's womb, I am also anxious.

Especially after becoming a teacher, the scope of contact with men is narrower, either respected old comrades, or famous flowers and masters.

Then, in 2012, I met... He Yangyang.

Yes, not Gu Yuan.

He Yangyang is the third boy to meet on a blind date.

At the time really thought he was my Mr. Right.

05

He Yangyang was introduced by my mother's colleague.

One graduated, 2 years older than me. A lawyer at a law firm on our side.

I have been in a relationship with him for three months, from the appearance of his character to the family conditions, it is a door-to-door relationship.

And at this time, my life finally started the first storm.

I remember that it was almost June 1, and He Yangyang suddenly asked me to meet and gave me a silk scarf.

I smiled happily and said, Children's Day gifts?

He said, I'm sorry, I don't think we're a good fit. Let's divide it early.

I was blindfolded.

Obviously, I was still happy to watch a movie last weekend, so how could it suddenly be inappropriate.

I had no experience in love, took the breakup gift, and went home confused.

Entering the door, my mother looked at me with a wrong face and asked me what was wrong? I just cried out.

It's not that the feelings are deep, but that I am wronged and inexplicable.

My mother was also very angry when she knew it, and called He Yangyang and the introducer to scold them all.

However, I often tell students that behind all unreasonable things, there must be a reasonable explanation.

Sure enough, a month later, the news of He Yangyang's marriage came.

I learned that he met several relatives at the same time, and finally chose the one with the best conditions.

All I can say is that the forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds.

His appearance was a foreshadowing for me and Gu Yuan.

06

I often think that if I hadn't experienced He Yangyang, I might not have the courage to accept Gu Yuan.

After all, we are not a class of people.

It was He Yangyang who made me want to understand one thing, anyway, ordinary men are not necessarily reliable, why not dream.

In fact, when I saw Gu Yuan again, I didn't think much of it, and my heart was more of a pity and sympathy.

How to say that it is also the male god of my girlhood, and suddenly it has become so bloated.

Just like Wu Yanzu, who suddenly saw a terrible hairline on the ins, who doesn't have heartache.

Took the initiative to add his WeChat and worked out together.

It was felt that he was particularly passive in everything. Ask him anything, he said yes, you look at it.

It is not that there is no opinion, but that it is resigned to fate.

During the break, he sat on a bench drinking protein powder, large black cups lining his fingers, each bald.

Mutilated nails, at first glance, are nibbled.

When I was in college, I studied psychology.

A child's nail gnawing is a sign of anxiety. Besides, he was an adult.

In an instant, the teacher's empathy and sense of responsibility all came.

Our principal said you can't give up on any of your children, right.

07

I didn't know what Gu Yuan had been through.

I just think his fat body is definitely not from good food.

I told him about my weight loss experience, and he said that too much stress leads to an increase in cortisol, which is the trigger for gaining weight. I suggested he talk to a psychiatrist.

Passive people are good at this, and whatever you say to him, he says good.

Gu Yuan began to change after meeting a psychologist. The weight was loosened, and the person regained some vitality.

It's April 2013.

He invited me to dinner and said that he had helped him so much in order to thank me.

I clearly felt that our feelings had warmed up and undergone a qualitative change.

I joked with him that I had a careful machine, but I actually wanted to chase the male god.

But Gu Yuan looked at me solemnly, and his eyes were full of small stars.

He said, be my girlfriend, I'm serious.

My heart beat wildly and blurted out, OK!

But after saying it, I realized that this is also too unpretentious.

In order to save face, I can only find a supplement and say that you have to reduce it to 150 pounds before I can marry you.

I said it casually.

He is one meter eight, big and big, 150 pounds, which is actually very difficult.

But Gu Yuan didn't think about it and said, Well, one word is certain!

08

Later, Gu Yuan told me that for the first time in many years, he felt that there was hope in life.

He originally felt that this life was like a, burying his head, eating and waiting for death. But I gave him a new vision.

It was I who made him think that he might have a chance to live like an ordinary person.

Fall in love, get married, and have an ordinary and warm home.

At the time I didn't understand the meaning of his words. Because about his background, he said it to the psychiatrist, not me.

I don't know what blow he's been hit.

In 2014, Gu Yuan opened a gym. He moved out of the house, anyway, more houses.

On May Day, I took him home to see his parents.

They knew I had a boyfriend at the time and asked me to take it back and have a look. As a result, when we met and talked, my father immediately knew who Gu Yuan was.

Gu Yuan's father-in-law, the father of Aunt Tang, was the old leader of my father's same system.

The matter about their family is the most powerful gossip in the unit.

After Gu Yuan left, my dad strongly objected to me being with him.

He probably told me about their family.

He said that it was a pit of dung, and it would not be clean if it was stained. We ordinary people, can't afford it.

09

I thought that Gu Yuan could not be unilaterally sentenced to death.

I asked him to meet to hear if he had any explanation.

Gu Yuan told me everything about his family.

Gu Yuan's father started out in a self-employed coal mine, and the industry did not make money at the beginning.

Later, when his father ran the business, he met Aunt Tang's father. The two became friends at the wine table.

At that time, Aunt Tang's father's position was not too high, but he had a certain amount of real power in his hands.

His position allowed him to see the tendency of the policy and guided Gu Yuan and his father to engage in real estate.

In the mid-nineties, some land was approved for tens of thousands of pieces per acre. It can be imagined that the speed at which Gu Yuan's father's assets expanded.

In the face of great wealth, the so-called friendship is not so reliable.

Aunt Tang's father had two sons and a daughter. He immediately made a decision and married Aunt Tang to Gu Yuan's father.

Whether there is a relationship in this marriage or not, it is difficult for outsiders to say.

Let me just say a few gaps.

Aunt Tang is a college student, and Gu Yuan's father is highly Chinese.

Aunt Tang works in a foreign company, and Gu Yuan's father is a coal boss.

In fact, Gu Yuan's father knew what the Tang family meant, but he couldn't refuse.

The career is just getting started, and you can't mess it up.

It is said that Aunt Tang also had a boyfriend at that time. Unfortunately, in the face of her father's strength and her mother's tears, she only had to compromise.

After marriage, she gave birth to two daughters, even if she seized the family property.

Therefore, when Gu Yuan's father later found out that he had a son who had nothing to do with the Tang family, he was really happy.

Of course, there was another reason why he liked Gu Yuan so much.

10

Gu Yuan came to Taiyuan in 2000.

It wasn't long before the above rumors about the new thermal coal policy came out.

In 2002, the state officially canceled the thermal coal guidance price, and the price of coal soared instantly.

Gu Yuan's father never gave up on his small mine.

From 2002 to 2008, the coal restructuring and reorganization, all private coal mines were nationalized.

In the past 6 years, the outlet has directly blown Gu Yuan's father into a billionaire.

Looking back at the news of the coal boss at that time, I know what level his father is.

People who do business are superstitious, and his father feels that Gu Yuan is his lucky star, so he likes to take him with him wherever he goes.

In those years, Gu Yuan's father was more and more dissatisfied with the Tang family.

In the eyes of outsiders, he is a door-to-door son-in-law who climbs the relationship.

However, in his heart, he felt that he had done it by ability, and even without the Tang Family, he would have to soar sooner or later.

The Tang family tied him up with a daughter, and the divorce would have to divide half of the property.

Gu Yuan told me that his father was not a good man emotionally. But the business is sober-minded, and there is a bottom line.

He was so rich that he hadn't touched two things.

The first is to get involved in black. Even if someone bought Gu Yuan's life behind his back, he did not lose his head and swim in the muddy waters of the underworld.

Second, I didn't do business that hurt nature.

There was once a very cheap piece of land given to his father, but he did not pick it up.

Just because the land used to be a chemical plant, the purification treatment was not up to standard. His father said that he could not build a house with poison to harm people.

This also became the reason why his father would rather give up some of his interests and gradually cut off the Tang family.

His father felt that he could make money by relationship, but he could not make black money.

11

After listening to Gu Yuan's life, I was quite shocked.

Especially for a child like me, who is an ordinary parent, some plots have exceeded my understanding.

Gu Yuan was not alone in being pressed in the pool.

He didn't grow crooked in the environment, and he was lucky.

I suddenly understood why Gu Yuan gave up on himself in his 20s.

I always thought he was inferior because his mother was a junior, resulting in inferiority.

In fact, in a sense, the more he behaves as unambitious, the more he looks like a scumbag, and the safer he is.

Gu Yuan said, I can say, I have said, are you still willing to be with me? I can take you somewhere else if you want. Wherever you pick.

I said, I'd love to be with you, but I can't leave my parents behind.

In the days that followed, we turned to underground affairs.

In March 2015, Gu Yuan's mother was admitted to the hospital for acute appendicitis. When Gu Yuan was accompanying me, I followed.

That was the first time I saw my mother.

What I heard in Gu Yuan's mouth before, I thought it would be a beautiful and cold woman.

I saw it and realized that I was wrong.

His mother was very gentle and delicate, and her voice was soft and soft.

It is also a 50-year-old person, but it looks like a porcelain doll at most 40 years old, and the skin is white and tender, so it looks like a porcelain doll.

When Gu Yuan went to buy food, his mother gently took my hand and said, thank you, Xiao Yuan, if it is not good, you blame me, don't blame him, I did not teach well.

I suddenly didn't know what to say.

On the way back, I couldn't help but say to Gu Yuan, your mother is so beautiful, so gentle, not at all as ruthless as you said.

Gu Yuan said coldly, don't believe her, it's all pretend, she doesn't take an Oscar and loses.

I couldn't take on any more.

12

In 2016, Gu Yuan and I had a turnaround.

The Tang family fell. Gu Yuan's father was not affected in the legal sense.

My dad took care of the source, his dad was invited to drink tea, turned around and came out, and he thought that his family had passed the pass and was OK.

Of course, the main thing is that I would rather die than be close. He couldn't do anything about it.

In December, Gu Yuan and I returned to our hometown in Jincheng for the wedding, avoiding all aspects of embarrassment.

That was Gu Yuan's mother, that is, my mother-in-law, who appeared in the Gu family for the first time.

The girlfriend who attended the wedding said that I was so rustic, it was not like marrying a rich man.

What am I going to say?

From the wedding room, to the wedding, to life, Gu Yuan and I have maintained the standards of ordinary people as much as possible.

Because that is the lifestyle that Gu Yuan expects, low-key and safe, warm and loving.

But on our honeymoon we took a cruise.

For 28 days, a little exaggeration satisfies my dream of watching idol dramas since I was a child.

The girlfriend said that she was finally like the daughter-in-law of a rich family.

When I came back from my honeymoon, I was pregnant with my son.

Later, it was the married life of chai rice oil and salt. Plain, but with real happiness.

In the words of your girlfriend, you two are really the most low-key rich people. Even if you marry a male god, you are still a rich male god who cares for the family, and you have earned a lot.

It seems to be true.

Gu Yuan is very concerned about the family, loves children very much, and loves me very much.

In 2018, Gu Yuan's grandmother passed away.

I accompanied him back to see him for the last time.

After returning, he adjusted for a long time. He became even more cold to his parents.

There is little contact except for the necessary festivals.

It was also this year that my father-in-law was diagnosed with alcoholic liver.

At that time, the father-in-law engaged in a family trust, and everyone who could withdraw from the outside was withdrawn.

Playing with incense at home every day, it can be taken up and put down.

My dad commented that he was able to retreat in a hurry and was also a personal character.

How many people are in that position, and the shattered bones cannot be broken.

13

In 2020, I had a daughter.

The mother-in-law, like the last time, offered to serve the confinement, but Gu Yuan refused again.

He asked his sister-in-law, asked for a nanny, troubled my mother, and did not let her mother-in-law come to help.

I could see the disappointment in my mother-in-law's eyes.

This year's Mid-Autumn Festival, my mother-in-law told us to go to dinner.

The father-in-law originally came, but in the end only the video came.

The mother-in-law took the mobile phone and said with a smile, it's okay, you are busy, remember to talk to me, there is a heart.

Gu Yuan was next to him, snorting, just about to say something ugly, he was stepped on by me.

The mother-in-law waited for the father-in-law to get off the line first, and then put away the mobile phone.

She asked us, is it not good to eat mooncakes? I'll get it for you.

After saying that, without waiting for us to answer, he stood up and left.

The moment I turned around, I seemed to see tears in her eyes.

Gu Yuan tilted his head and quietly looked out the window, silently.

Suddenly, I had a sense of trance.

It is said that the years are undefeated beauty, but unfortunately there are always beautiful people who do not hesitate to spend years.

The world is full of obstacles, and the shortcuts are rugged.

She was still beautiful, just too much wind and frost.

Gu Yuan always said to me, thank you for giving him a home.

It's the kind of home that justifiably has a dad, a mom, a kid.

When I heard him say this, all that was left was my heart.

So apart from doubling down on the warmth of his ordinary family, I can't think of a better way to love him.

The mountains are high and the water is long, let's take it slowly.

PS Asa said: . Yes, today is the Wu Wei you want. Bless them.