Liu Yongfu - the promise of rural sunset romance

Liu Yongfu, the first contact is because of the year to go to the village to go to the poor households, began to send rice and masks and other materials, he was not at home, the door was not locked, and then sent medicines, are Feng Sister to make a call, told him that things put on the kang, he only came back, the New Year we also helped paste the couplet together, to send dumplings.

In the past, during the New Year, every year Sister Feng and the doctor would receive the family to celebrate the New Year together, take care of them as relatives, and listen to everyone tell a lot of stories one after another. The village cadre told me that Mr. Liu Yongfu was also more than 50 years old in the party, and he gave a party lesson in the village that day, saw that his hair had grown, and helped him cut his hair. At noon, after we went to visit the agricultural demonstration park, after eating, everyone said that the leftovers let him pack and take them back, and the hot can eat two meals, because the weather is hot, the dishes can not be put for a long time, and it is easy to spoil after a long time.

Back and forth we are all in The car of Brother Huang, and the doctor on the road introduced me to me and said that this old man is benevolent. Before doing an old partner, the other party has no children and no daughters, together for three months, one day the old lady was cooking in the outhouse, suddenly felt uncomfortable, said to go back to the house to rest, the result did not wake up. Although they have not been together for a long time, the old man burns the anniversary every year. I said, that's not easy. The old man said, I don't give the whole thing, she has no one to take care of it, so it's a pot with a spoon in it, and it's a time. It is not easy to say rough words in the countryside, not to mention March, even if you have a lifetime to fight for a lifetime, there are not a few. You wash my clothes, cook a meal, I will give you a pension to send you to the end, this is the promise of many sunset romances in the countryside, simple and unpretentious, but sincere and touching.

Later, I asked the old man why he joined the party? Everyone introduced to me that I used to be a militia company commander, in the production team to manage the collection of dung, at that time it was not like now cow dung are poured into the ditch, no one wants, but also the brigade to supervise the cleaning, help clean up, in the past cow dung is a treasure, not only can be used as fertilizer, but also can burn fire. In the past, the saying circulating in the cultivation of land was that the crops were a flower, all relying on manure to be the home, and the manure here was not the current fertilizer, but basically cow dung and sheep dung. At that time, the production team also earned work by picking up manure. Many rural people in their fifties have the experience of picking up dung when they are young.

Rural widows and widows, including empty nesters, are gradually increasing, and if the children develop well, they can adapt to the city life with their children early. If you have been living in the countryside, cold to go to the city, it is not suitable for children to transfer from the village primary school to the city to study, life likes, food and living, neighbors and villagers, which is not the same, and rural life is a single home, free and accustomed, to the city, not to mention the old rural elderly, that is, young people have to learn to adapt for a long time. Therefore, some rural elderly people will get sick when they get to the city, which is not alarmist.

When the rural elderly are in good health, they are relatively better when they have the ability, but as they grow older and their bodies deteriorate, they need to have a companion who helps each other, such as nagging when they are bored, in fact, for these rural elderly people, their hearts are lonely, some children are hindered by face and do not let the elderly find it again, we realistically say that we should encourage the rural widows and widows to "pair up and help each other", which can also be regarded as a new type of pension. I had heard before that there were two old people who had not been licensed together for decades, and then both of them were not in good health, and the children of both sides discussed their own parents, which was not bad. Don't always stand on the moral level and make accusations with a secular eye. Some rural love is too simple to understand, but it also interprets the true meaning of love - to stay together and spend the rest of your life together.