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70-year-old Peter Li filmed and raised a 30-year-old son, the father-son relationship is estranged, optimistic to face the life of loneliness and widowhood

author:Tree baby

Earlier, TVB senior green leaf Qin Huang accidentally fell and was admitted to the hospital, which made many people pay special attention to the older generation of artists who lost care, in fact, there are not many green leaves such as Qin Huang in TVB. The so-called green leaves such as Qin Huang not only refer to their older age and deep seniority, but also refer to the lack of family warmth and care in their lives, lonely and alone, so they need to work to pass the time, and after getting sick, they may only rely on friends to help each other, Qin Huang's current life situation is like this, and the 70-year-old Li Peter and Qin Huang's situation is similar, the difference is that Li Peter is obviously more well-known than Qin Huang, more accomplished, although now in TVB is just a low-key green leaf.

70-year-old Peter Li filmed and raised a 30-year-old son, the father-son relationship is estranged, optimistic to face the life of loneliness and widowhood

Peter Lai's original name was Lai Chengcheng, in addition to his identity as an actor in Hong Kong, he is also a well-known lyricist, to a certain extent, Peter Lai's identity as a lyricist seems to be more famous than his identity as an actor. The name Peter Lai is no stranger to friends who are obsessed with Hong Kong music, especially those who are in the 70s and 80s, he and Huang Xia, Zheng Guojiang, Lu Guozhan all belong to the first generation of Hong Kong lyricists, in the past, they have cooperated with Xu Guanjie, "Pear Vortex Shallow Smile", "The Voice of the Prodigal Son", "The God of Wealth" and so on. Peter Li's penmanship is more popular, simple and easy to understand, in the early days there were more vernacular texts, but not tacky, which is easier to narrow the distance between the listener and the listener, known as "ghost filler". The works handed over after the 1980s are closer to modern works, and Zhang Guorong's "Monica" and Mei Yanfang's "Splitting the Iceberg" have become classics in the classics.

70-year-old Peter Li filmed and raised a 30-year-old son, the father-son relationship is estranged, optimistic to face the life of loneliness and widowhood

However, Peter Lai faded out of the lyric circle in the 90s and began to be active on TVB as an actor in the 90s. Different from his identity as a big man in the Hong Kong word world, in the television circle, Peter Lai is a small green leaf, most of them play idle roles or small character roles, so far there is no representative work, but he is intoxicated with this, from the early 90s to the front of the stage, it has been 40 years, he has not quit, once left TVB to develop hong Kong TV, and then Hong Kong TV can not continue, he turned back to TVB to continue acting, these years are more in the "happy express love home" to play the role of uncle leopard is well known, In the play, he and Luo Lelin, Liu Dan formed the big four joy group once became famous, so Uncle Leopard unexpectedly became the most classic masterpiece of his acting career.

70-year-old Peter Li filmed and raised a 30-year-old son, the father-son relationship is estranged, optimistic to face the life of loneliness and widowhood

Peter Li is famous, can be regarded as a very accomplished person, once because of the identity of a well-known lyricist admired, and now drunk on the identity of the actor and insist on acting, in the case of Peter Li, it can also be regarded as a successful career, life is perfect, but Peter Li's private life is still a bit bleak. Peter Li rarely opened up about his private life, in the past because he was a filler, he was a behind-the-scenes worker, there was no precedent for interviews, and later became a green leaf, there was no fame, and he would not become an interviewee, until these years senior green leaf became more and more concerned by the outside world, he began to have media interviews one after another, and recently he became the subject of interviews, generously telling past life experiences, including family life and feelings.

70-year-old Peter Li filmed and raised a 30-year-old son, the father-son relationship is estranged, optimistic to face the life of loneliness and widowhood

Li Peter once did not believe in marriage this matter, 39 years old because of a serious liver disease, helpless to stop work, at this time he only thought of getting married, at that time just met a suitable lady, interested in coming to marry each other, after marriage also gave birth to a son, unfortunately this kind of marriage without emotional basis is difficult to maintain for a long time, only three years the other party disliked him, poor health, unstable work and divorced, Peter Li held an indifferent attitude to this, let the other party leave, Since then, the ex-wife has never had any contact with him or her son. In this regard, Peter Li has repeatedly said that it does not matter, clutch, life is normal, not to delay and not to owe.

70-year-old Peter Li filmed and raised a 30-year-old son, the father-son relationship is estranged, optimistic to face the life of loneliness and widowhood

For Peter Li's attitude towards life, the interviewer was stunned, I am afraid that he did not expect That Peter Li to see things so thoroughly and think so open-mindedly. Peter Li also realized the other party's shock, but comforted the interviewer, bluntly saying that life is not to be happy to come, happy to leave, where there are so many thoughts. Of course, others may not think so, especially when Peter Li discloses the current situation of his personal life, but he will feel desolate. Peter Li began to bring his eldest son alone at the age of 42, but his relationship with his son was very strange, he described the relationship between father and son as a lonely son, because after the divorce to start work, day and night upside down, so that the father and son feelings are estranged, many times it is the Filipino maid to take care of the son's living.

70-year-old Peter Li filmed and raised a 30-year-old son, the father-son relationship is estranged, optimistic to face the life of loneliness and widowhood

Now that the son is in his thirties, he still has no communication with each other, although he lives under the same roof, like parallel time and space, maintaining a superficial father-son relationship, and there is no intention of taking care of each other at all. In fact, Peter Li's 30-year-old son has not yet worked, has never earned a penny to go home, continues to study in the mainland, and lives more in the mainland on weekdays. The relationship with the son is so weak, there is no difference with the widowed old man, the outsiders naturally seem desolate, but Peter Li feels that this is the retribution he deserves, in the past because of the work neglected to take care of the son, this is the so-called causal relationship, resentment can not be, only himself bear, so he never resents the son, does not mind that he has to support his son at the age of 70, and even if the son is 40 years old, he has no complaints and no regrets, which is one of the reasons why he has insisted on filming so far.

70-year-old Peter Li filmed and raised a 30-year-old son, the father-son relationship is estranged, optimistic to face the life of loneliness and widowhood

In the interview, Peter Li revealed a gesture of indifference to life, especially for family life and the coldness of relatives' feelings. And this is more or less related to his childhood, Peter Li lost his mother at a young age, and then he lived alone, including the New Year's Festival, there was no concept and feeling of family for a long time, and even later married and had children, not to mention now, such a widowed life is accustomed to him. Therefore, Peter Li bluntly said that he never took on the role of tragedy, because he would not cry, and there was no sadness to speak of in his world, and his life was self-enjoyment. I just don't know if his indifference is really strong, or pretend to be strong, he said it doesn't matter, but he always shows helpless heartache, he said that he is thin,but his wallet still has a photo with his son.

PS: The pictures are all from the Internet

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