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Mr. Xu Yajun was born in an ordinary family, and since he was a child, he has been ambitious and determined to become a dazzling actor. His two loving brothers knew that his brother loved movies and did not hesitate to accompany him to the open-air cinema to watch various films.
Whenever his younger brother expressed his desire to pursue a career as an actor, the two elder brothers always gave him unreserved support.
Under the encouragement and guidance of his brothers, Xu Yajun, who was only 8 years old, bravely stepped into the audition site of the TV series "Beacon Boy". Although he is still young and slightly thin, with his outstanding acting talent and handsome and dashing appearance, he has managed to attract the attention of many directors and win their love in one fell swoop.
However, due to his young age, he regretted that he missed this precious opportunity in the end, and he inevitably felt a little lost in his heart.
However, this did not extinguish Xu Yajun's ardent pursuit of acting career. When he was 12 years old, he was finally admitted to the children's actor class of the Central Academy of Drama as he wished, and became friends with Cai Guoqing, a famous singer who later became famous in the music scene.
At that time, Xu Yajun was in his prime, attracting much attention in the class, attracting the admiration of many female classmates, which made Cai Guoqing in the same class have a deep jealousy of him, and there is a girl who has a secret affection for Xu Yajun, but she is often late during the rehearsal process, and it was not until she was assigned to Xu Yajun's group that her tardiness disappeared.
After graduating, Xu Yajun devoted himself to the China Children's Art Theatre, where he met his first wife, Huang Jianping. Although Ms. Huang Jianping is beautiful, her constitution is weak and she needs to recuperate frequently.
Even so, Xu Yajun still took care of her wholeheartedly, and soon after, the two entered the palace of marriage and began a plain and warm life, however, this beautiful marriage only lasted for a short year, and Huang Jianping died of illness, which brought a heavy blow to the young Xu Yajun.
After a short period of low tide, Xu Yajun rekindled his enthusiasm for his career and received invitations to various film and television dramas one after another.
Among them, the TV series "The World Found" co-starring him and Song Dandan can be called an important milestone in his life.
His outstanding performance in the drama series "The Earl" made Xu Yajun's fame in one fell swoop, and his popularity soared to unprecedented heights. It is said that at that time, he would receive many letters from fans every day, and the number of them was so large that he had to use a sack for storage, which was enough to witness his super popularity!
Just as his career was booming, Xu Yajun met his second wife, Zhang Xi. When they first met, the two supported each other and had a deep relationship.
However, soon after marriage, Xu Yajun showed a strong tendency towards machismo, expecting Zhang Xi to give up his career and devote himself wholeheartedly to his husband and children at home.
However, Zhang Xi is not satisfied with this, she is eager to pursue self-worth and realize her personal ideals. Due to the huge difference in their concepts, the marriage eventually broke down.
Not long after, during the filming of the TV series "Wind and Lotus Resentment", Xu Yajun had a deep emotional entanglement with the heroine He Qing at the time, and the two quickly entered the palace of marriage and had a son.
At first, their lives were full of happiness and harmony, but soon some problems arose. As an actor couple, they often need to shoot some intimate scenes with others, which makes Xu Yajun feel troubled and jealous.
He was in a dilemma and had to endure the pain alone. Every time Xu Yajun went to visit He Qing on the set, he would feel extremely embarrassed to see her play an affectionate role in the play.
In addition, he often neglected to take care of his family, often neglecting his responsibilities as a husband and father in addition to his busy work. In the end, He Qing could no longer bear this situation and could only choose to divorce to end the marriage.
Zhang Shu is a full 12 years younger than Xu Yajun, although he is still young, he is an excellent actor who graduated from Chinese opera, not only outstanding appearance, but also superb acting skills, and has participated in many excellent film and television works, such as "Everyone Says I Love You", "Ma Mingfeng Xiao Xiao" and "Dark Flower" and so on.
Zhang Shu is both beautiful and talented, and when Xu Yajun first met her, he was deeply attracted and moved by her.
However, although Xu Yajun's admiration for Zhang Shu is deepening day by day, Zhang Shu will inevitably have concerns about this middle-aged man who has experienced four divorces and already has a child.
However, for Zhang Shu, Xu Yajun is so meticulous to protect her, and every action is a silent declaration of his sincere love. Every time there is a difference in the views of the two, no matter who is right and who is wrong, Xu Yajun will always bow his head and admit his mistake without hesitation, and use his endless patience and broad mind to appease Zhang Shu's irritability and anger, so that she will not be hurt again.
Once upon a time, Zhang Shu mistakenly thought that Xu Yajun's relationship with a young makeup artist was ambiguous and complicated, and his heart couldn't help but be full of jealousy. In the face of Zhang Shu's questioning, Xu Yajun was not furious, on the contrary, he took the initiative to apologize to her, and explained to her with great sincerity that the seemingly young makeup artist was actually a mother, and showed their group photo on the spot to dispel Zhang Shu's doubts.
Seeing Xu Yajun's sincere and considerate performance, Zhang Shu's heart was instantly deeply shocked, and she made up her mind to marry Xu Yajun, and began a new and beautiful married life.
After marriage, Xu Yajun treated Zhang Shu like a baby, and he showed his extreme cherishment of this marriage with practical actions. He unreservedly handed over all the income from his work to Zhang Shu without reservation, and let her use it at her discretion, never caring about gains and losses.
Once, Zhang Shu seemed to be interested in testing Xu Yajun's sincerity, and she deliberately bought an expensive luxury bracelet. In the face of Zhang Shu's "challenge", Xu Yajun not only had no complaints, but told her ecstatically: "As long as you like it, I am willing to buy it for you no matter what."
In his opinion, all the wealth he has belongs to Zhang Shu, and she doesn't need to worry about anything.
It can be seen how Xu Yajun wholeheartedly devoted himself to his deep feelings for Zhang Shu. Although there is an age gap of 12 years between them, Xu Yajun has never had any reservations because of this, he just wants to give everything to care for and love this lover who is 12 years younger than himself.
Soon after, the news of Zhang Shu's pregnancy came. However, at the critical period when Zhang Shu needed love and care the most, Xu Yajun could not always be by her side due to work.
In order to return to Zhang Shu as soon as possible, Xu Yajun even took the initiative to ask to end his shooting task early.
However, Zhang Shu knew Xu Yajun's hard work, and she comforted: "Don't worry, I will take good care of myself." ”
Although Zhang Shu firmly expressed her position, how can Xu Yajun feel at ease? After all, it was their flesh and blood! If he makes any small mistake, he will not know how to make up for the mistakes he may have made.
Therefore, after careful consideration, Xu Yajun resolutely made a resolute decision - completely terminated the ongoing filming work, quickly returned home and devoted himself to Zhang Shu's company, dutifully fulfilling the daily chores of taking care of his lover.
Time flies, Xu Yajun carefully cared for Zhang Shu during pregnancy with patience and care, until finally she gave birth to a lovely boy safely.
Witnessing the hardships experienced in order to give birth to this child's wife, Xu Yajun felt deeply ashamed, and his love for Zhang Shu became stronger and stronger.
Since then, no matter how brilliant Xu Yajun's achievements in his career have been and how much wealth he has won, he has dedicated all of this to Zhang Shu without sparing.
Even the remuneration he received in the hit TV series "Li Spring's Spring" co-starred with Song Dandan was handed over to Zhang Shu without hesitation.
Xu Yajun firmly believes that Zhang Shu is the most precious gift from God, and she deserves all his dedication and care.
After the tempering of the first three marriages, Xu Yajun finally deeply understood the importance of family. This time, he regarded Zhang Shu as a treasure, guarded her wholeheartedly, and gave her meticulous care and pampering.
Not only that, Xu Yajun was even more happy to accept Zhang Shu's thoughtful little actions. Zhang Shu not only loves Xu He, the son born to Xu Yajun and his ex-wife, as his own; She also warmly brought Xu Yajun's elderly mother to live with her, and did her best to honor the elderly, bringing endless warmth and harmony to the family.
Seeing his wife Zhang Shu so virtuous and kind, Xu Yajun's heart was full of relief. With the assistance and care of Zhang Shu's right-hand man, Xu Yajun can devote all his energy to the pursuit of his career without any worries.
Now, time flies, time flies, but the couple who are over half a hundred years old still maintain a happy and sweet life, their love story is warm and moving, and there has never been any scandal or negative news to spoil this beauty.
When people talk about Xu Yajun's unpleasant experience of "divorce four times" again, he always admits with sincerity and awe that being able to meet Zhang Shu in the long journey of life is indeed an endless favor given to him by God.
Looking back on the past, Xu Yajun may have been deeply confused in marriage at that time, but now he has completely stepped out of that shadow, closely relied on Zhang Shu, and found the direction of life that truly belongs to them.
By the side of Zhang Shu, an intellectual and elegant wife, Xu Yajun finally deeply understood what true happiness and satisfaction are, and every time he recalled that difficult years, he would feel that the ups and downs on the road of life were inevitable, but it was those twists and turns, and the magnificent experience made him cherish the happiness he had today, and he was deeply grateful to God for his generous gift, and Zhang Shu's appearance was undoubtedly the best blessing and grace for him.
In actor Xu Yajun's acting career, there is a work that can be called a key turning point in his career development, that is, the TV series "The World Found" co-starring with well-known actor Song Dandan.
With his superb acting skills in the play, especially the in-depth portrayal of the role of "Earl", Xu Yajun became famous in one fell swoop, and his reputation was greatly boosted Once the play was broadcast, it immediately aroused enthusiastic responses from all walks of life, Xu Yajun as the leading actor, naturally gained a high degree of attention At that time, he could receive hundreds or even thousands of fan letters every day, and his fans were so large that they needed to be loaded with sacks, which shows his popularity.
In this way, through just one work, Xu Yajun's popularity quickly climbed to an unprecedented peak. He has gone from an unknown newcomer to a household name.
It is no exaggeration to say that "The World Found" opened the door to success for Xu Yajun, in addition, he and Song Dandan co-starred again in the TV series "Li Spring's Spring", which pushed his fame to a new peak.
Time flies like a white horse, and in an instant, the well-known actor Xu Yajun has entered the ranks of the sixty spring and autumn seasons. Today, he has become a highly regarded artist in the industry, and his outstanding performance has won praise from many audiences.
Xu Yajun is deeply grateful for his long and colorful artistic journey, and the selfless support and help of many people have enabled him to move forward firmly, including the guidance and care of outstanding predecessors such as Song Dandan.
However, looking back on the past, what he is most proud of is undoubtedly the solid and deep acting foundation and the spirit of unremitting struggle since he has been in the industry.
After several degrees of cold and summer, Xu Yajun has reaped fruitful results in the field of performing arts with his tenacity and perseverance. From that young novice who first entered the workplace to today's respected veteran actor, he has paid for half a century of hard work.
In the process, no matter how many hardships and obstacles, he could only choose to bear it alone, but it was these setbacks and perseverance that showed us the glory of today.
Xu Yajun's life course is full of twists and turns of four marriages, although he has been named the indecent title of "divorce professional", but he always has the yearning and expectation for a better family in his heart.
When he was young, he thought that if he had a beautiful wife, he could build a happy married life. Therefore, he successively married Huang Jianping, Zhang Xi and He Qing, three women who are peerless.
However, the cruel reality ruthlessly shattered this beautiful dream of his.
Huang Jianping died young due to illness; Zhang Xi had serious conceptual differences with him; And He Qing couldn't stand his neglect and neglect of his family.
In this way, one marriage after another is like a precarious seesaw, and it is impossible to escape the fate of being broken in the end.
Whenever he recalls the scars of this marriage, Xu Yajun feels deep guilt and pain. He knows that the source of all tragedies stems from his neglect of his family and the misconception of machismo.
However, just when he was completely disappointed in his happy marriage, fate opened a new door of hope for him in another way.
That is when he met Zhang Shu, an intellectual woman who was 12 years younger than him. Zhang Shu not only has outstanding appearance and talent, but more importantly, she is gentle, virtuous and reasonable.
She gave Xu Yajun a profound revelation that shows the true definition of happiness - that is, deep understanding, tolerance and absolute respect for each other, and no longer limited to superficial perceptions of external images!
With the sudden arrival of Zhang Shu, Xu Yajun seems to have rediscovered the main line and positioning of life. He devoted himself to this marriage, poured all his wealth and energy into Zhang Shu without reservation, and tried his best to make up for his regrets and debts with practical actions.
Now, Xu Yajun, who has entered middle age, has completely gotten rid of the shadow of the past, and is closely dependent on Zhang Shu to explore and find the true meaning of their life together.
Looking back on the ups and downs and magnificent waves along the way, he is deeply grateful, all of which are undoubtedly God's grace and tempering for him.