1. A dazzling and complex woman's emotional journey
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He Qing, whose honor covers the national stage, is known as "the first classical beauty in the mainland", and her unique classical charm is intoxicating. Her beautiful face and elegant figure seem to be a beautiful woman who has come out of the masterpieces of ancient literature, which has fascinated countless audiences.
In her life, she has created many classic images that are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and can be called the spokesperson of the four famous novels.
However, her personal emotional life is not as brilliant as on the screen, but full of twists and turns. She bravely pursues the love of her heart, but is ruthlessly abandoned by the other party after five years of cohabitation.
Subsequently, despite the doubts of the outside world, she resolutely intervened in the family of a married man, which caused widespread controversy in society.
Although he finally succeeded in entering a wealthy family, the marriage lasted only two years before it broke down. Her emotional journey is like an intricate drama, with love and hate, and it is difficult to let go.
In the first half of her life, He Qing always seemed to be wrestling on the emotional road.
Until the age of 51, fate played a cruel joke on her, and she unfortunately suffered from a fatal disease, and her life fell into a dark trough. The doctor informed her that her condition was serious and that the mortality rate was extremely high. He Qing was mentally prepared for the worst and decided to spend the rest of her time well.
However, at this critical juncture, her husband Liao Jingsheng showed unprecedented firmness and determination. He inspired He Qing not to give up lightly and to live strongly. He guarded her bedside day and night, taking care of her daily life.
He Qing was moved by her husband's sincerity and rekindled her desire for life. After a hard struggle, she finally overcame the disease, was reborn, and returned to the world again.
This test of life and death made He Qing suddenly realize the true meaning of love. She realized that love is not just a short-term heartbeat, but also a long-term companionship and mutual support.
Therefore, He Qing made up her mind to cherish the happiness in front of her, spend the rest of her life with her husband, and enjoy a quiet and happy old age.
Second, He Qing's road to true love in the second half of his life
There is no doubt that 2015 was the darkest moment in her life for He Qing, who has turned 51 years old - she was unfortunately diagnosed with an intracranial tumor. Faced with the threat of approaching death, she was in pain, and even had the idea of giving up treatment and living the rest of her life peacefully. However, her husband Liao Jingsheng has always been steadfast in his hope, he painstakingly persuaded He Qing to face the disease bravely, actively treat, and resolutely embarked on a long and arduous road of companionship.
Whether day or night, Liao Jingsheng always waited by his wife's sickbed, taking care of her daily life meticulously. He communicated frequently with the doctor to discuss He Qing's condition, and gave her endless encouragement and support with his actions and words. Seeing her husband guarding herself so wholeheartedly, the long-sealed ice in He Qing's heart was finally melted by this selfless love.
Looking back on their marriage journey, although He Qing never really responded to her husband's deep affection, the door has always been closed in her heart. However, at the time of life and death, Liao Jingsheng's firm belief and sincere dedication finally touched her deeply, and she unloaded her guard and accepted her husband's love with an open mind. She deeply understands that love is not just a short-term heartbeat, but mutual support and companionship after the baptism of time.
With this realization, He Qing rekindled her desire for life and began to fight fiercely against the disease. She made up her mind that she must live strongly, feel the beauty of life with her heart, and spend the rest of her life hand in hand with her husband until her gray hair grows. After unremitting efforts, He Qing finally overcame the disease, ushered in a new chapter of life, and began to enjoy that quiet and happy life.
3. The splendor of girlhood
He Qing has shown extraordinary artistic talent since she was a child, and she is like a beautiful flower blooming in the water town in the south of the Yangtze River, attracting the attention of countless people. At the age of five, she was able to sing and dance, and became the center of attention at school. Whenever there is a literary and artistic event, she will definitely become the focus of everyone's attention, either as the protagonist or as the host, and every appearance is the most dazzling existence.
At the age of 13, He Qing's talent was finally released. She was admitted to the Beijing Theater Academy, Zhejiang Art School and Kunqu Opera Troupe at the same time with excellent grades, and can be described as a leader in the place where there are many talents. In the end, He Qing chose to join the Kunqu Opera Troupe and embarked on her own opera path, and it was this valuable experience that made her add a unique bookish temperament to her future costume dramas.
At the age of 19, a well-known Hong Kong director had a discerning eye and decided to boldly use He Qing to unveil the mystery of her film and television career. Although the first film fails to allow her to share her last moments with her dear father, the hand of fate always seems so unexpected.
Just as she was bidding farewell to Beijing and embarking on her way home, He Qing met the crew of "Journey to the West" and was unexpectedly invited to challenge the role of "Lingji Bodhisattva", which was undoubtedly a key turning point in her life.
Since then, she has galloped among many unforgettable classic roles, such as Qin Keqing in "Dream of Red Mansions", Xiao Qiao in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Li Shishi in "Water Margin" and so on.
It is no exaggeration to say that He Qing has successfully interpreted many roles in the four famous novels with her superb acting skills, and has become a veritable spokesperson for classical beauty.
Fourth, the emotional journey of the first half of his life is full of confusion and confusion
He Qing's emotional road can be described as tortuous and bumpy. In 1989, during the filming of "Women's Rangers", she bravely expressed her love to actor Liu Wei. Liu Wei's sunny smile and handsome and chic appearance deeply touched He Qing's heart, and she mustered up the courage to confess her heart to Liu Wei.
So, they came together as a matter of course.
Liu Wei, who is in love, cares for He Qing and takes care of her meticulously. Even in the cold winter, as long as He Qing wants to taste ice cream on a whim, he will not hesitate to ride his bicycle and shuttle through the streets and alleys to find it for her.
He also often brought all kinds of small surprises to He Qing to make her happy. Their love story is as beautiful as a fairy tale.
However, this beautiful relationship did not come to fruition and came to an end after five years of cohabitation. When the media asked Liu Wei why he had not entered the marriage hall with He Qing for a long time, he replied with resentment: "You should ask He Qing himself this question."
Sure enough, in 1995, He Qing resolutely left Liu Wei and chose to spend the rest of her life with the married man Xu Yajun.
At that time, He Qing, who was filming "Wind and Lotus Resentment", and Xu Yajun, who played the male lead, fell in love because of the play. Although Xu Yajun already had two wives, the first one unfortunately passed away, and the second Zhang Xi respected him like a guest, but in the face of He Qing, a beautiful and moving woman, he couldn't resist the temptation after all.
In order to be able to stay with He Qing for a long time, Xu Yajun did not hesitate to turn his face with his wife, and strongly asked Zhang Xi to divorce him, and finally got his wish and married He Qing as his wife. In 2001, He Qing gave birth to a son for him, named Xu He, and the seemingly happy family life was about to kick off.
However, life after marriage is not as good as He Qing expected, she needs to be busy between housework and child-rearing education, and she can't achieve the ideal life she yearns for. Coupled with the huge difference in the personalities of the two, quarrels have become commonplace. In 2003, He Qing reluctantly chose to leave and handed over her beloved son Xu He to Xu Yajun to take care of and raise him.
It can be seen here that the emotional road in the first half of his life can be described as turbulent, and love is erratic, which makes everyone feel sorry for it.
5. Intermezzo: Looking back on the changes of love in the past
After the divorce, He Qing's exes have started a new chapter in their lives.
Liu Wei and Yang Ruoxi, who is 23 years younger, spent seven years together, but parted ways due to personality differences. After that, he entered the marriage hall again, married a makeup artist who was 12 years younger than him, and now lives a happy family life.
Xu Yajun's side has finally settled. He and his fourth wife Zhang Shu have walked hand in hand for 15 years, and their relationship is as stable as ever, and there has been no turmoil.
As for Xu He, the son of He Qing and Xu Yajun, he has successfully completed his university studies and successfully graduated from the Central Academy of Drama. It is worth mentioning that Xu He and his mother He Qing do not have much resemblance in appearance, but they are more similar to their stepmother Zhang Shu.
According to rumors, the family is harmonious and warm, and Xu He gets along well with his half-brother.
6. Finale: Only at the right time can you meet true love, and wait patiently for love to come
Life is not perfect, and everyone needs to go through twists and turns and confusion to find their true self. He Qing's life is full of ups and downs, her beauty has brought her a lot of troubles, and at the same time, she has repeatedly wrestled on the emotional road.
However, it is precisely because of these setbacks that she suddenly realized the true meaning of love in the second half of her life - wait patiently, meet the right person at the right time, and love will naturally come quietly.
He Qing perfectly interprets this truth with her own experience.
The so-called wonderful life is actually to discover the extraordinary in the ordinary years, to seek a sense of transcendence in the secular world, and to feel the bits and pieces of life with your heart.