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January 14, 2022
Year of the Tiger
Love is enduring patience and kindness
Time is like a white colt passing through the gap. In the blink of an eye, you have ushered in the first year of your life. Here Dad wishes you a happy birthday.
Ten years of trees, a hundred years of tree people. And the seedlings have to grow into big trees, and it is not possible to leave the irrigation of the rainwater. And the tree and the shu are only one water word. "Kindergarten Qionglin" Yun: [Gan lin, Gan Shu, all refer to the rain of time]. When you come to my house, there is no doubt that angels have descended into mortal dust and descended into ganlin. However, it is my natural obligation to make you a material, and to make you a material, you must pour out my love and hard work and continue to pour out. Fang is expected to make you a pillar of material. As a new father, there are still many places to practice and improve.
Looking back at the past year, between you and my father and son, the time spent together was short, and the time of separation was long. The responsibility of raising you is mainly entrusted to your mother, and even to your grandparents. Mother's sweet milk soaks the body and mind of your little sapling. Time passes day by day, and you thrive day by day. In the blink of an eye, the one-year period has expired. This year, we learn from each other and make progress together. Traditional family ethics always overemphasize the instilled love of parents for their children, and simply pay attention to the great grace of parents to their children, which will inevitably eventually harm the birth of grace. And unencumbered is greater grace. It is the right way for parents and children to get along.
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In the "Reciprocation of Parental Grace and Hardship", parents have ten graces for their children. They are: "The grace of maternal protection, the grace of suffering in childbirth, the grace of forgetting worries in childbirth, the grace of swallowing bitterness and vomiting, the grace of wetness when it is dry, the grace of breastfeeding and nurturing, the grace of washing impurities, the grace of remembrance of long journeys, the grace of deep compassion, and the grace of ultimate compassion.] 】
And I think that children have ten graces for their parents. The first grace, the birth of a son, forgets the grace of sorrow. Do you remember the origin of your name, before you were born, I prayed the Pumen Pin every day for the Father. One day to read: "Shu Ganlu French, extinguish the flame of defilement" there is a province. So I named you with the shu character, and your birth did extinguish a lot of ignorance for us, adding a lot of joy. The second grace, continue the leading grace. So-called: "Love is not heavy, not born of a wife, love is not deep and does not fall into reincarnation." If it were not for the deep frontier, how would they meet in this life to become close relatives. The rest of our lives are long, let's spend it together.
The third grace, the regeneration of wisdom. Grandma often said that a woman's life has twice, once given by her parents and once by her lover. According to me, men's lives are also twice. One time it is given by the parents, and the other time it is the mutual fulfillment of the child and the father. Men without a family are always giant babies who do not grow up, and with the arrival of new life, children will transform into adults. Welcome the new life.
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The fourth grace is to promote the grace of perseverance. We, the only children, grew up under the protection of our grandparents. So that after having children, it is also jokingly called children raising children. However, with the bond of love, our children will eventually educate the next generation of children.
The fifth grace, the long journey to remember the grace. In the past, long-distance memories were all parents' wandering children, but now there are more and more left-behind children. Even last year, you and my father and son also gathered less and left more. The journey of life is destined to be full of twists and turns. Cherish every minute and every second of your gathering. In order to know how to cherish each other more. The sixth grace, remembering the grace of both parents, the so-called adopted child knows the grace of parents. Only by raising children by yourself can you understand the difficulties of your parents at the beginning.
The seventh grace, the gentle heart. Before there was a baby, everyone who was not yet a baby. It is inevitable that pride and indulgence will be indulged. After having a baby, there is a bond in my heart. Temperament changed from strong to soft. We witness your growth and you promote our maturity.
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The eighth grace, the harmonious family grace. A family word, a small piglet under the eaves. And your little piglet was born in our family, the whole family is happy and harmonious, less contradictory. Because of you, the world becomes so beautiful. The ninth grace, set the goal of the grace. The so-called first start a family and then establish a career. Most people have lofty ideals when they are young, but these ideals are often big and inappropriate. Only by returning to the family can we stand in the present and truly forge ahead.
The tenth grace, mutual progress grace. Traditional education is often a simple indoctrination of parents to their children, but in fact, parents and children grow into complete people. The road is long and the road is long, and we have made progress with each other on the road to becoming a material.
Tiger and cow are in the spring, and my family's shuffle has added new shoots. Finally, I wish the children of Shucai to grow up in the new year.