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After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

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After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Xu Yajun is a well-known actor, his wife Zhang Shu is 12 years younger than him, and is also an actor.

Xu Yajun has starred in TV series such as "Finding the World Back", "Wind and Rain Beauty", "Empty Mirror", "Tangshan Earthquake", "The Burning Years of Youth", "Keeping Marriage Like Jade", "Long Live the Wife", "In the Name of the People", "Circuit Inspection Group" and so on.

He looks handsome, elegant, Yushu Linfeng, it can be said that from small handsome to old,

And his marriage is also very rich, has been married 4 times, known as "divorce professional household".

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

One of the most famous is his marriage to the great beauty He Qing,

But the first three times all ended in failure, and even a big beauty like He Qing could not contain his heart.

It was not until 2004 that he met his current wife, Zhang Shu, that he lived a happy life, and since then, there have been no scandals.

Zhang Shu is not beautiful and famous, how did she take the heart of a prodigal son?

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

01

Xu Yajun was born in 1964 in Handan, Hebei Province, but because his parents were both soldiers, he followed his parents to Beijing as soon as he was born, and grew up in the army compound.

There are 3 boys in the family, Xu Yajun is the youngest, but also the most favored, usually the parents are busy at work, the two brothers will "cover" him, no matter where they go, they are overbearing and mischievous.

Therefore, the first half of Xu Yajun's life really wanted to be windy and rainy.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

The first left is Xu Yajun

In elementary school, Xu Yajun studied in a key literary and art school, at first the acrobatic troupe went to recruit students, Xu Yajun wanted to go but was stopped by his mother, who felt that the training of the acrobatic troupe was too bitter and did not want him to suffer.

So I waited again, the CCTV children's performance team came to pick someone, Xu Yajun wanted to go very much, but the teacher did not recommend him,

Because the teacher felt that this child was too naughty, going there was also a disgrace to the school.

But I didn't expect that the teacher who went to the enrollment took a fancy to Xu Yajun, who was a long camera spirit, and had to recruit him into the regiment.

In the troupe, Xu Yajun participated in many drama program performances, coupled with acting talent, soon stood out,

In 1975, he starred in his first film "Youth Like Fire", and Qingxiu's face has taken shape.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

At the age of 12, the children's class of the Central Academy of Drama came to enroll again, and the teacher pulled several excellent children out.

Teacher Chang Li, who was in charge of enrollment, looked at it and asked, "Who is Xu Yajun?" "No one squeaked,

The teacher said: "That child is too naughty, may not be able to learn well", but Teacher Chang Li insisted on seeing him, but the teacher had to call him out.

In this way, Xu Yajun easily entered the Central Academy of Drama and became a classmate with Cai Guoqing.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

When I was in college, in the words of Cai Guoqing, "Xu Yajun turned over, and several beautiful girls in our class loved him", but Xu Yajun was still young at that time, and he was thinking about learning acting well.

At that time, Xu Yajun had a female classmate who rehearsed together, and in order to get her up early every morning to rehearse, he tied a red rope on the girl's thumb and little thumb.

When letting the female classmates sleep, put the red rope from the bed to the outside of the door, Xu Yajun got up at five o'clock in the morning, and after getting up, he went to drag the red line of the female classmates, until she woke her up, the girl was never angry, and she was always very cooperative with him.

Cai Guoqing named this behavior "Red Line Lead".

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

In 1980, after graduating at the age of 16, Xu Yajun entered the China Children's Art Theater, which is also a formal job, with a salary of 37 yuan per month.

Here he met his first wife, Huang Jianping, who was the age of the first love sinus, and rehearsed and ate together every day, which naturally produced feelings.

Two people love strongly, just reached the age of marriage, they got married at the fastest speed, and after marriage, the two people had a very sweet day,

After work, we went to buy vegetables together, and when we returned home, Xu Yajun washed vegetables and Cooked Huang Jianping, and her life was happy and harmonious.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

However, the weather is unpredictable, less than a year after marriage, the young Huang Jianping was diagnosed with cancer,

At that time, the level of treatment was limited, and she died soon after.

Xu Yajun was heartbroken, and he was less than 20 years old when he suffered the pain of losing his lover.

In 1986, he starred in the TV series "Finding the World Back" with Song Dandan, in which he played the bad boy "Count".

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

This role seems to be tailor-made for him, long hair fluttering, melancholy eyes, especially the action of throwing hair, handsome,

The cold and arrogant beautiful teenager, carrying a heart of hatred and longing to be loved by the Count of Monte Cristo, also stabbed the hearts of countless girl audiences at that time

Even Song Dandan was crazy.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

After the TV series was broadcast, Xu Yajun caught fire and won the Best Actor Award at the Golden Eagle Awards of Popular Television.

He also became the first actor to appear on the cover of China's Popular Film magazine.

Girls across the country wrote to him, post offices filled mailboxes, and others claimed to marry him with a dowry of $60,000.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

But Xu Yajun, who had just lost his wife, had no time to read these letters, and he felt that he could no longer fall in love with anyone else.

At this time, Zhang Xi, who had always had a crush on him in the troupe, watched him grow emaciated and extremely distressed.

He often took the initiative to approach, in the name of caring for his colleagues, feeding him, washing clothes, etc., and taking care of him in every detail.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Under the care of Zhang Xi, Xu Yajun gradually walked out of grief,

He also found that Zhang Xi was indeed a good girl, with a good temper and a gentle personality, and the two families were in equal condition and the door was right.

So soon after they got married, Zhang Xi's heart was full of joy, thinking that he was married to the love of his life.

Xu Yajun, on the other hand, only regarded her as a "nanny", and such a marriage was destined to be a tragedy.

02

After marriage, Xu Yajun became more and more macho at home, and Zhang Xi had to give up his job and work as a full-time wife at home.

Xu Yajun continued to play, filming outside for many years, the two people gathered less and left more, and the originally unsolid emotional foundation was even weaker.

In 1995, Xu Yajun and "Jiangnan American" He Qing co-starred in the TV series "Wind and Lotus Grievances" and fell in love because of the drama.

In the play, the male protagonist played by Xu Yajun abandoned his green plum bamboo horse because he fell in love with the female protagonist.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Outside the play, Xu Yajun also directly took He Qing back to his home and showed his cards to Zhang Xi.

He said: "There was no love between us, now I am in love with He Qing, I must be with her, let's divorce",

But even with such a humiliating scene, Zhang Xi still did not want to give up Xu Yajun, and she pleaded bitterly with him: "Runner-up, you can't do this, we have been together for so many years without love and affection, how can you abandon me for a woman?" ”。

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Xu Yajun knew that he was wrong, silent, He Qing couldn't help but take the initiative to attack, and said to Zhang Xi: "Even if there is no I He Qing, there will be Li Qing, Wang Qing, there is no feeling between you, sooner or later there will be divorce",

With these words, she directly took Zhang Xiqi's heart attack and went to the hospital for rescue.

Because the rescue was timely, there was no major obstacle, and Zhang Xi, who had experienced life and death, also looked away, such a man was not worth her desperate efforts to protect, so she divorced and completed them.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

After Xu Yajun's divorce, He Qing also broke up with her boyfriend Liu Wei, who had lived together for 5 years, and the two quickly married.

In 2001, he gave birth to a son, named "Xu He", witnessing the love of the two people.

But slowly the contradiction between the two people became prominent, Xu Yajun was spoiled from childhood to adulthood, never thought about others, especially machismo,

He first did not allow He Qing to shoot intimate scenes, and sometimes when He Qing filmed, he often went to the scene to stalk, which made the whole crew very embarrassed.

However, He Qing often plays emotional dramas, physical touch is indispensable, and the two people often quarrel.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Later, Xu Yajun said directly: "I can't afford to raise you, you don't go out to shoot, take care of your son at home, or we will divorce".

He Qing did not expect Xu Yajun to be so arbitrary and selfish, she realized that her choice at that time was so stupid, when choosing a man, she only looked at the appearance of love brain attacks, and now she can only eat the consequences of herself.

But He Qing has also been pampered since childhood, so she will not give up her career because of Xu Yajun's scare.

So she said, "Leave, leave, since love is gone, then give us both freedom."

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

03

After the divorce, the son lived with Xu Yajun,

He Qing, on the other hand, has been single and has gradually faded out of the public's vision, and in 2015, he was exposed to a brain tumor by singer Huang Qishan.

At this time, Zhang Shu had just debuted, she was born in Heilongjiang, graduated from the Central Academy of Drama, tall and temperamental,

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Although the figure is very good, but how to look good, in the beautiful and cloudy showbiz circle can not show fists and feet, can only play some unknown supporting roles in some TV series,

Such as He Jiahui in "Everyone Will Say I Love You", he played the stand-in of the big sister Hua Mama in "Ten Faces Ambush", and so on.

Her appearance is very similar to singer Mei Yanfang, so she is also known as "Little Mei Yanfang".

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

But Zhang Shu's personality is very good, although she is in the show business circle, she does not have much heart, simple and straightforward, and does not understand the "unspoken rules",

Xu Yajun is also a non-bending character, the two know each other through playing golf, and their impression of Zhang Shu is very good.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

And after experiencing 3 marriages, Xu Yajun understands that to get married and live a life, it is still necessary to find a good personality, and a beautiful appearance cannot be eaten as a meal.

Since then, he has often asked her to play golf with her, and he has practiced her skills.

After Xu Yajun experienced 3 marriages, the precipitated masculinity also fascinated Zhang Shu, and the two finally got married in 2008 after several years of love.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Their personalities are just complementary, Xu Yajun is type A blood, especially competitive, while Zhang Shu is AB type, especially easygoing,

Xu Yajun is a perfectionist and often criticizes her, but Zhang Shu is not angry, but says: "I am already quite good", Xu Yajun laughed and did not say anything when he heard it.

When she was pregnant, Xu Yajun was filming in other places, and she had always gone to the obstetric examination by herself, and she had never complained.

She said to Xu Yajun: "You are working hard to make money outside filming, I have no problem, I can arrange everything very well, when I give birth, you can come back, it doesn't matter if you can't come back."

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

When giving birth to a son, it is very thrilling, Tuantuan has 7 pounds and 6 pairs, and Zhang Shu is very thin and difficult to give birth naturally, but for the sake of the child's good, she insists on giving birth herself,

During childbirth, she used all her strength, her face was red, and after giving birth, Xu Yajun found that her face was densely covered with bleeding spots.

It is because the capillaries are ruptured with too much force, and the whole face is rotten, Xu Yajun admires his wife very much, and she is also touched by her wholehearted dedication to this family.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Xu Yajun has always believed: "Only when a man's family is stable can he carry out his career outside with confidence".

After 3 marriages, he finally found the person he was looking for.

After the birth of his son, Xu Yajun once again cooperated with Song Dandan after a gap of 24 years, starring in "The Spring of Li Spring", and turned popular again.

Xu Yajun said that this is all the good luck brought to him by the happy family.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Zhang Shu not only took good care of his life, but also treated his stepson as if he were his own son.

The eldest son always calls him "Shu Ma", and the relationship with his brother is also very good,

Every time he came back from school, he had to wrestle with his brother for a while, and his brother was more important in his heart than his life.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Xu Yajun's father died when he was 30 years old, and after getting married, Zhang Shu took it upon himself to take his mother-in-law to live with him.

The mother-in-law is grateful, Zhang Shu is informal, and the two people are the same as the mother and daughter,

This was the first time in Xu Yajun's four marriages that someone had proposed to take care of his mother-in-law, and he was very touched and worked harder.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

Zhang Shu and his mother-in-law and two sons

In 2017, Xu Yajun starred in Qi Tongwei in "The Name of the People" and once again gained attention.

The 54-year-old Xu Yajun pushed away the pitiful, sophisticated, humble, cold, arrogant, and rich layers of Qi Tongwei's body.

For the second time in his life, he set off the audience's uneven mood on the screen and became another role beyond "Count".

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

And Zhang Shu also actively returned to filming after the children grew up, and in 2021, she starred in Maria in "Ideal City",

Ji Zong in "I Really Love You", Wu Xiujuan in "Ebola Frontline",

Her noble, elegant and charming temperament is deeply loved by the audience.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

On the 10th anniversary of marriage, Xu Yajun, who has never understood romance, and his eldest son arranged a surprise for Zhang Shu.

Xu Yajun choked and said: "I don't think I am a qualified husband, so many years, thank you for your tolerance for me, I can know you in this life, it is God's gift and grace to me, thank you."

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

From youthful madness to maturity and stability, it was the family and children who changed Xu Yajun, and it was Zhang Shu who touched him with understanding and tolerance.

Give him the strength to resist the cruelty of the last days,

Let him have a home in this uneasy world,

Feel the happiness from the ordinary days, see the clear distance,

Zhang Shu did not have any outstanding skills, she just gave Xu Yajun the most prosaic and rare stability.

After 19 years, looking at Xu Yajun again, I understood why he left He Qing to marry Zhang Shu

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