There is a sentence in "Les Miserables":
"I'd rather rely on my own strength to open up my future than seek the favor of the powerful."
A person's blessings are not sought from others, but are born from one's own heart.
正所谓:
Life is self-established, and blessings are self-accumulated.
Some people are born in wealthy families, but they live in pieces.
Some people are born in poor households, but they live a glamorous life.
Life is a long road, and you are the creator of happiness.
Middle-aged women, only by working hard inward, can they meet happiness unexpectedly.
Be kind and kind, God will bless you
In "Suolin Bag", Xue Xiangling was born with a golden key and was born into a wealthy family.
Although the family has a lot of money, it is as good as a stream.
On the day of the wedding, I met the poor girl Zhao Shouzhen on the way.
Zhao Shouzhen also got married on the same day.
Seeing Xue Xiangling wearing gold and silver, with a rich dowry, and then looking at himself, his family was poor and could not afford to buy a dowry.
I couldn't help but feel sad from my heart and cry.
After learning of the situation, Xue Xiangling took it upon himself to give the lock bag full of treasures to Zhao Shouzhen.
She never imagined that it was such a gesture that the wheels of good fortune had slowly turned.
A few years later, her family was separated by floods and left her in exile.
When I was hungry and thirsty, I saw a stall for refugees.
She hurried forward and queued up for a bowl of porridge.
However, he did not drink it himself, but gave it to others.
I was about to go to the bottom of my stomach, but I saw an old man who was about to faint from hunger.
So he went straight over and gave the porridge to the old man.
When the housekeeper of Lufu saw this scene, he invited her to be a nanny at home.
One day, I accidentally saw a lock pouch, which was what she gave to Zhao Shouzhen back then.
It turned out that Zhao Shouzhen was Mrs. Lu.
Zhao Shouzhen and his wife, because of this lock bag, began to do business.
Later, the business went smoothly and became rich.
Mrs. Lu was overjoyed to meet her benefactor, so she married Xue Xiangling as sisters and shared wealth.
Xue Xiangling never thought that the kindness of a thought would be exchanged for blessings in the future.
Some people say that horses are good at being ridden, and people are good at being bullied.
Driven by this mentality, kindness is hidden and kindness is buried.
Kindness dare not be released, and warmth does not dare to pay.
When people are in trouble, they are unwilling to help; Seeing that the road is uneven, he is unwilling to pull a knife to help.
Over time, the relationship faded, the favor was gone, and the blessings were shallow.
One day, you will understand that those who love love to return.
Every kindness paid is rewarded.
No matter how cold the heart is, you just have to pass on the warmth;
No matter how ruthless the world is, you only care about people's hearts and goodness.
As the saying goes: cultivate compassion, and good fortune will come naturally.
Sow kindness today, and he will be blessed in the future.
The best feng shui in a woman is kindness.
When you light the lamp of others, you are not only illuminating others, but also yourself.
Heaven will bless you, good man.
Unique vision, good fortune with you
Li Shuihua in "Mountains and Seas" has a unique vision and has created his own happiness.
At first, I was forced to marry, and I was sad in my heart.
But instead of sinking negatively, she embraced a new life steadily.
For life, there is always their own unique thinking.
When the village was relocated, many people were reluctant to move to Jintan Village, preferring to stick to the barren loess slope.
But she dragged her children and all her belongings, dragged her husband with a broken leg, walked more than 400 kilometers, and had to move.
When others complained, she had a unique eye and saw the broad prospects for the development of Jintan Village.
After moving, experts come to teach mushroom cultivation techniques.
When her husband heard that he was going to invest 1,200 yuan, he hid the money and objected to her investing in the money.
But she saw the cultivation of mushrooms, and the future prospects are limitless.
So, borrowing money from others, you also have to invest in mushroom cultivation.
As it turned out, she was right.
The mushrooms planted were sold out and the profits were huge.
Later, as more and more people grew mushrooms, mushrooms began to be unsalable.
While the others were still immersed in a noisy stalemate, she turned around in time to find another way out.
After a sober analysis, a grocery store was opened.
With her encouragement, her husband also overcame the psychological barrier and took care of the business with her.
Grocery stores are thriving.
With a unique vision, Li Shuihua lived the life she wanted.
In life, many of us are always staring at the one-third of an acre of land in front of us.
As a result, they are stuck in the same place, going back and forth in poverty.
As everyone knows, if you pay too much attention to immediate interests, you will lose a bright future.
What determines the success or loss of life is never to chase the small profits of the moment, but to look at problems from the perspective of development.
As the writer Feng Liangnu said, "The world will give way to those who have goals and visions." ”
Less short-sighted thinking, don't be limited to a small world, there are more possibilities in life.
With more long-term consideration, the broader the horizon, the more opportunities there will be, and life can turn around.
The world is rewarding those who are long-sighted.
Your vision determines the height of your life and the temperature of your life.
There is light in the heart, and there is a road under the feet
Hao Dongmei in "The World" is the daughter of the governor and originally lived a happy life.
But in the past special era, he was forced to be separated from his parents.
And he was arranged to cut the queue in a remote rural area.
The daughter of a rich family, but stopped in a poor rural area, which can be said to have endured a lot of hardship.
It's like falling from heaven to hell all at once.
The roof leak happened to be rainy.
As a result of an accident, the fertility was also lost.
This is a blow to a woman.
But she was not pressed to the ground by fate, but faced it positively.
In addition to work, I still don't forget to read to the fullest.
Here's the good news.
In the first year of the resumption of the college entrance examination, I was fortunate to be admitted to a prestigious university.
After graduating from university, he became an obstetrician and gynecologist.
He has been practicing medicine for more than ten years, with a sunny attitude and benevolence and optimism for every patient.
With optimism, the haze in the hearts of countless women has been swept away.
Even if there is a disturbance caused by the patient's family, he will treat it gently and never argue with him.
Her optimism and self-confidence won Zhou Bingyi's deep love, and the two tied the knot.
also let his life live a swaying life.
Undoubtedly, in the first half of her life, she was tricked by fate.
But she always has light in her heart and is optimistic.
Regardless of fate or misfortune, he does not complain, but accepts it calmly as a gift of time.
Bi Shumin once said:
"There is a certain proportion of good days and bad days, and a woman with a real big picture can look at the scenery from the high point of life by the railing,
It can also be used to regain strength when it is at a low point. ”
The boat of life does not know when it will encounter rapids and rapids.
But a woman with a good mentality, no matter what the circumstances, can live a flower.
The good can be enjoyed, and the bad can be endured, this is the most beautiful appearance of a woman.
Believe that there is a clear sky above the clouds.
After surviving the wind and rain, you can see the rainbow.
As the saying goes, "Life is built by itself, and blessings are accumulated by itself." ”
Peace of mind, no matter how difficult or hard it is, the road is under your feet.
The mentality is sunny, blessings come naturally, and dreams are ahead.
If you don't give up on yourself, fate won't slap you on the beach.
A woman, with a good attitude, is more important than anything else.
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Goethe said:
"The happiness of man lies in the happiness of the heart."
Middle-aged women, after the experience of life, know how to nourish blessings even more, all in themselves.
Be kind and kind, God will bless you, you are watching the sky, and God will not disappoint you;
Unique vision, good fortune accompanying, standing high and looking far away, what should come is on the way;
There is light in my heart, there is a road under my feet, and even if the wind is high and the waves are urgent, what can I do?
Middle-aged women are old and young, and you deserve the best life.
Author | Ziqiao Huang He Shui Qing, senior accountant. Turn words into lights and accompany you forward.
Picture | Submitted by Ziqiao photography enthusiasts