This life of a person is a life of continuous pursuit.
But throughout our lives, we walk in this world, what do we want? nutshell.
It's just going where you want to go, doing what you like, and being with the people you like.
It seems simple, but it is not simple.
But if we do the following three things well, everything you want will come.
1. Take good care of your body
As the saying goes, the body is the capital of the revolution. Having a good body is the basis for having everything.
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Premier Zhou Enlai said: Only by being in good health can we study well, work well, and develop in a balanced manner.
Xu Teli said: A person's body is by no means an individual' body, and it must be regarded as a precious wealth of society, and all young people who are determined to contribute to society and achieve great things for the country must cherish their physical health very much.
Yes, only a healthy body can do what you want to do, go where you want to go, and meet the people you want to meet.
In recent years, with the development of the network, short video platforms have become more and more popular, such as the "eat broadcast" economy, in order to attract eyeballs, increase powder and attract traffic, eating broadcasters are also novel, eating food is not only amazing, but also has its own characteristics, spicy, super spicy, raw food, big fish, big meat, roast chicken roast goose big elbow have become their commonplace.
Some people have earned a lot of wealth in their lives by eating, but some people have eaten to the end of their lives through eating.
Mr. Wang, a 30-year-old in Shenyang, is a "eat broadcaster", which has been broadcast for more than half a year, and has gained many fans and tips through eating, but his weight has also risen from 200 pounds to 280 pounds. Due to the continuous crazy eating for more than half a year, not only the weight continues to rise, but the blood pressure and blood lipids have also soared.
Once, before the live broadcast, Mr. Wang suddenly appeared with symptoms such as body numbness, dizziness, etc., and after head CT, head blood vessels and other tests, it was found that he had blood in his brain stem, and the situation was very critical. After 7 consecutive days of rescue in the hospital, it is very regrettable that he still cannot save his life.
Mr. Wang earned wealth by eating, but also lost his precious life.
A healthy body is the living room of the soul, and a sick body is the confinement room of the soul. - Bacon
The greatest wealth in life is not how much wealth we have, but having a healthy body is our greatest capital and wealth.
2. Do what you like well
There is a difference between doing what you like and doing what you like. Doing it is just like and hobby; doing it well is professionalism and specialization.
When we do what we like from doing it well, and make our hobbies professional, then you are not far from success.
I know a writing blogger named Annie, whose parents divorced when she was three years old, her family was not well-off, and she lived in the countryside with her grandparents since she was a child. After entering junior high school, my father remarried, bought a house in the county town, and followed him to the city to study.
But after living in the countryside for more than ten years, it is more or less impossible to adapt to the county town at once, the playground has not been, the KFC has not eaten, even the twenty-six letters are not read smoothly, and the inferiority and gap have been secretly breeding in the heart since then.
Maybe it was because of her family and the environment, many things, she could not change or cry, she could only write that pile of careful things into the diary.
Slowly, Anne fell in love with reading and writing, a habit she kept.
Because he likes to write, after graduation, he also successfully entered the work of an editor of a magazine, and in addition to writing at work, he also insisted on writing the rest of the time.
Work time is often not enough, she uses the theme framework of the article on the way to work, collects information on the way to work, and often because she is too focused on sitting at the station, returning home from work at night, she writes an article, often writes until one or two o'clock in the morning, and then drags the tired body to sleep deeply after the platform is finished.
Day after day, although it was very tiring, Anne also insisted. After so many years of unremitting writing, her writing is getting better and better, and the articles she writes have been continuously recognized by major platform media.
In addition to the salary, the usual writing has also received a certain remuneration, and life has also been improved to a certain extent.
Anne grew up, but the grandparents who brought her up were also old, and when people got older, their bodies inevitably had problems with this and that. Anne thought about it later and decided to quit her job and go back to her hometown to take care of her grandparents while doing full-time writing.
Full-time writing relies more on self-discipline and persistence, and there are countless moments of confusion, but Anne has persevered. Three years after her resignation, she bought a house through writing, which she probably never imagined.
This is the leap from quantitative change to qualitative change in doing the things you like well.
Such cases are not uncommon, we know the inventor Edison, is a typical example, when he was a child, the family was poor, Edison only went to school for 3 months, he began to sell newspapers at the age of eleven or twelve, but he loved science, and often used the money from selling newspapers to buy science newspapers and chemicals and experimental instruments.
In the process of doing experiments, no matter how many failures and setbacks he encountered, he did not give up. He almost blinded his eyes, but Edison stubbornly insisted on his love of science.
It is because of his unremitting efforts, the ability to do the things he likes well, and the spirit of doing the ultimate has created his life.
3. Treat important people well
In our lifetime, in addition to our parents and relatives, we will meet many different people, and most of them are just passers-by in our lives, while some people have become important people in our lives.
As the saying goes, filial piety comes first, and our parents and family are our dearest and most important people. And man is often a strange animal, and what is easy to get will always be easily ignored. Many people should realize that we often give good tempers to strangers, and bad tempers are left to our dearest family.
Fingers crossed, how long have you not called your parents? How long has it been since I went back to see them?
Or, think about it, have you ever lost your temper with your family in recent times?
Life is short, and the family is the person who accompanies us for the longest time in our lives, time is fleeting, treat your family well! Don't wait for the time when the son wants to raise and doesn't wait, and then regret not being in the beginning!
In addition to our parents and family, we also meet other important people, such as: the teacher who went to school to give us an enlightenment education, the brother who pulled us together when we were in difficulty, and the colleague or leader who helped and guided us at work.
As long as you pay attention, you will find that these important people have a key role to play in our lives, some may be the courage to help you move forward, and some are the turning points that change your life.
As the saying goes, the draught does not forget to dig a well, and the grace of dripping water is repaid by the spring.
For these important people, we should cherish them and treat them well.
Because they are our nobles.
When you do these three things well, everything you want will come as promised.
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