If you can do this well, everything you want will be given to you

Everyone who comes to this world and wants to survive has to deal with people, and to deal with people, they have to establish good relationships.

If you can't build good relationships with people, then sometimes survival is a problem.

Man is a gregarious species, independently living man, can become very powerful, and I confess that I have also experienced being alone for a long time.

However, man is a product of the environment. A person who has been lonely for a long time, a person who has not communicated for a long time, his heart is empty and lonely.

Don't believe the poisonous chicken soup on the Internet that makes people powerful by loneliness, those that only fit some great people. If you are an ordinary person, you still have to fit in.

Only when you are gregarious, live in harmony with everyone, and have verbal communication, will you experience the warmth and cold of the world, the good and evil of people's hearts.

Only then can we make achievements, temper ourselves, improve ourselves, and realize something.

A person is accustomed to life, his heart, thoughts are easy to go to extremes, narrow thinking, prejudice, self-awareness is too strong, can not listen to anyone's words, a road to the black.

Appropriate solitude is conducive to personal growth, and being alone for a long time is easy to lose yourself, go astray, and go to destruction.

I know many people because they grew up in their original families and lacked love. Eventually form an inferiority complex.

But, as you get older, you have to learn to change yourself because no one likes to be with someone with low self-esteem.

No matter what, you must learn to find your own strengths and make yourself confident, which will be of great help to your future development and future.

The world is a network of relationships, no one exists independently, out of the embrace of the collective, and your lofty ambitions are difficult to achieve.

A barren slope, because of the large number of trees and vegetation planted, it appears vigorous, majestic and solemn.

And people are also such a person walking on the street, will feel lost, a group of people walking on the street will appear imposing, majestic.

No matter how talented you are, no one appreciates you. Also a wasted one. A person just doesn't have talent and ability. Will be a person, can do things, will also have a great future and a good future.

Carnegie once said that 80% of a person's success comes from good relationships, and only 20% comes from personal ability.

Great men say this, you don't act yet, you don't do it. So failure is not an easy task?

Many people say that now is the era of self-media, is the Internet era, there is no need to be a person, a mobile phone can make a lot of money.

I ask you, are you like a machine that makes money at home every day, does not go out, does not go out to eat, does not go out on weekends, and stays at home for a long time?

So even if there is no use in making more money, you do not serve the public, benefit the society, do something meaningful to the society, no matter how much money, it is just a pile of waste paper.

The money is written very clearly on it, it is rmb, RMB, trouble you to look at it. That money is the people's, not yours, you only have the right to use and not the right to occupy.

When you want to take your money for yourself, disaster comes.

So in the end, people are still social animals, no one can be separated, only if everyone likes you, respects you, you have value to others, contribute to society, and help others, then you can be regarded as a really useful, a wise person. It will be a hundred years before anyone remembers you.

In the end, you will be a person, everything will be, you will not be a person, you will fall on your head when you walk. Don't believe it, you are in social practice, try it.

Come back, brother, stop being alone and defeated. Wouldn't you make friends? Whether at home or outside, making more friends and making more friends is still good for yourself, don't you think?