The daughter was bullied and appealed to no avail, and the angry parents were detained for revenge, and the experts advised: the right way should be chosen to seek justice

Three soil mothers

2024-05-11 16:39Published in Chongqing

Those who have followed me know that recently, I have talked a lot about school bullying for two reasons: first, this kind of incident has emerged in an endless stream; The second is that both parties to the school bullying incident are minors, and the handling of the bullying incident is not enough, which makes people feel a sense of powerlessness.

So, what should parents do in the face of school bullying, I recently saw an expert guest in the live broadcast room of the legal column and gave a professional response.

First of all, experts say that according to the Law on the Protection of Minors, bullying incidents occur on campus, and schools cannot hide it.

Many bullying incidents occur again and again, in fact, there are factors of inaction by schools and teachers. For example, some netizens said that they once told the teacher after being bullied, but the teacher thought that it was just a joke between students and didn't care at all. When a teacher turns a blind eye and is seen by the bully, it can be a driving force for bad habits.

In addition, some netizens mentioned that many bullied people do not have excellent grades, which also makes the bullied person have no sense of existence in the eyes of teachers, so they will not be taken seriously.

Then, the expert mentioned that when parents find out that their children are being bullied, they must find justice through the right channels and in the right way.

Parents must not turn a blind eye to their children's bullying, if parents themselves and mud, then the child will only be hurt more.

This time, the expert was a guest in the live broadcast room and talked about the need for parents to seek justice in the right way, which directly refers to the bullying story that happened in a primary school in Xinxiang, Henan Province not long ago.

A 9-year-old boy was violently beaten by a male parent at the school gate after school, and this incident caused many applause. The reason is that the boy has been bullying his female classmates for a long time, beating, verbally abusing and even extorting money.

The girl couldn't bear it anymore and told her parents about it, so her parents immediately found the school and the neighborhood committee, and also called the police. After adjustment, the boy wrote an apology to the girl and promised not to commit it again.

Unexpectedly, the boy said one thing and did another. Immediately after returning to school, he came to insult and threaten the girl: "If you dare to sue again, see how I clean you up." ”

The girl was frightened and went home to tell her parents again. Parents contacted the school again, but there was no response.

Next, the boy repeatedly warned and threatened the girl, and after the girl's parents contacted the school several times in a row, the girl's father was completely angry, so he stopped the boy after school and beat him violently.

When recounting this incident, experts said that they can understand the reasons why parents took action, after all, many school bullying incidents bring children damage that they cannot heal in their lifetime, and even when they grow up, they will feel scarred when they recall these things.

After reading the news about the bullying incident, many netizens will be indignant to condemn the bully and the parents of the bully.

Netizens are right, since the bully is a minor, then when a minor makes a mistake, the first person who should be condemned is of course their parents.

Many parents actually care about whether their children are bullied at school, but they don't care whether their children will bully others. This is a typical double-standard problem in family education, when parents uphold the concept of double-standard parenting, children will naturally follow the right and wrong, and it is inevitable to do wrong things and hurt others.

However, just condemnation always makes everyone feel powerless, "so many people scold you, but you can't get a lesson". As a result, everyone is also seeking whether there is any right way to help the bullied get justice, instead of constantly seeing parents have to take action themselves after being helpless, although they are angry for a while, they will also be punished.

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