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Celebrities in the mainland music scene are quite chattering. The singer who has been a smash hit since ancient times is not only a musical genius, but also a teacher who has tasted all the flavors of life.
For example, this brother and sister of the Huo Zun family has a special taste in it. His mother, Zhong Xiaoping, had a rough life, and from a well-known smash hit singer, she actually turned into a good wife and mother.
His father Huofeng, although he has been divorced, still gets along with his ex-wife like a close friend. The three generations of the Huo family can be described as a good story, which is remarkable.
Mother Zhong Xiaoping had a rough life
Everyone said that Zhong Xiaoping is a legend, and it really deserves to be called such a comment. At first glance, it sounded like a smash hit girl in the 80s, and everyone was more or less familiar with the vague and ethereal tunes of "Dancing Flames" and "Wandering in the Rain".
When the reason was familiar, I woke up and realized that Zhong Xiaoping was actually the first person in the industry to sing Teresa Teng's songs, and I don't know if it was because I couldn't resist the worship of the almost crazy demon, which hurt my mind or had something else to hide.
Happily, although she is rumored to be a crazy witch, her singing voice is extremely sweet and recognizable. So even with her masterpieces "Your Tears", "Moonlight Disco" and other songs, they were also widely sung in that era.
"Just wait for you to marry me into the door, and my dream will come true..."
But what is even more exciting is that this leader of the mainland music scene left this career behind in a blink of an eye, and bravely retired to marry and have children. It is not an exaggeration to say that it is honey and oil, and the fire wind, who is also a hero in the music world, has always been in love, and he is full of joy to marry this singer as his wife. The two are very affectionate, who knows that before they have children, the fire wind will become someone else's son-in-law.
Zhong Xiaoping's marriage to her ex-husband Huofeng
People familiar with the matter said that Huofeng is a heavyweight existence, the acting path is eclectic, and he can sing, act and direct, and can be called an outstanding contemporary artist. Thinking about it, everyone is most familiar with the theme song of the same name that he sings in "Big Sedan Chair".
Tracing back the origin of this song, I get that in the 80s of the last century, he became popular with this song "Wife, Wife, I Love You" when he was just starting out.
Looking at such a prosperous background, it is a pity to have this marriage with Zhong Xiaoping. After a year of patting, he achieved a positive result, and divorced after only three years of marriage.
It turned out that they couldn't appreciate each other's personalities, especially Zhong Xiaoping, a former music star, how could she endure pampering. However, it was also thanks to her general knowledge that she took the initiative to give up the fight for property, just because she wanted to win the custody of her son Huo Zun.
Huo Zun's growth and current situation
So since then, Zhong Xiaoping has withdrawn from the music scene and single-mindedly pulled her son up. Don't look at the hard work of her single parents, Huo Zun has also grown into a good young man.
No, this son recently posted a warm photo of his mother's birthday celebration on social media, with a son and a mother side by side, laughing and laughing, and feeling intimate.
"Mom, Happy Birthday!"
In the photo, Huo Zun is wearing casual clothes and a baseball cap, and he seems to be at ease. Zhong Xiaoping was radiant, ruddy, holding the birthday cake with a smile on her face, and she was overjoyed. Huo Zun also politely thanked relatives and friends for their blessings on the Internet: "Thank you on behalf of my mother, thank you for your blessings."
There is no fire wind in the photo, but there is a bit of warmth for no reason. After all, many years later, the divorced couple still gets along like in-laws, which is really a precious good thing.
Not only that, even Huofeng's current wife Jiang Hua and their daughter Huo Miao can be reunited as a family, peaceful and harmonious, wouldn't it be better to see this Huo family?
Reasons for family harmony after divorce
Presumably reading this, many people naturally want to dig into the horns and ask why. What is the reason that even after many years of divorce, the former couple can still get along harmoniously and like a family?
The world will naturally give all kinds of conjectures, such as that the two sides have completely let go of hatred; or for the sake of children's growth; And maybe it's out of nostalgia for the past.
However, I see that the mystery here is actually hidden in these three words: "the hearts of parents in the world". It can be seen that the greatest origin and purpose of being a human being is filial piety and kindness, the former out of love for children, and the latter out of respect for parents.
Even though Huofeng and Zhong Xiaoping were divorced due to personality differences, in the final analysis, their most fundamental motive and pursuit is the happiness of their children.
So now it seems that the Huo family of three, and even the later Jiang Hua and Huo Miao, can love each other like a big family, which is really gratifying.
Even on Zhong Xiaoping's birthday this time, the family of six was also by her side, and they were happy. It can be seen that even if divorce is a suffocating experience, as long as you have the right mentality, you will eventually usher in the sunshine.
Explore the impact of divorce on the next generation
I believe that many people will be sincerely relieved to see the harmony of the above family. But when you think about it, it's a wake-up call. That is, what kind of impact will divorce have on the children of the next generation?
Leaving aside the pros and cons of the dissolution of the marriage itself, there is something to be said about the mental health of the children alone. Thinking about it carefully, although Huo Zun's parents are divorced, he has grown up all the way, at least the environment around him is not bad.
For example, Zhong Xiaoping's mother is a very outstanding person, not only raising her with heart, but also giving her son the happiness of a complete family as much as possible. In addition, now the Huofeng family can reunite occasionally, which ensures that Huo Zun can have a normal family experience in his heart.
However, it is a pity that not all children of divorced families have such a special situation. Think about it, if children grow up in a tense environment with their parents from an early age, or suffer all kinds of injustices from single parenting, won't it leave a shadow on their psychology and drag down their future life development?
Therefore, we can also see from this case that the impact of divorce on children should not be underestimated. This requires parents to pay more patience and love, and sincerely consider the growth of their children.
Looking forward to a more harmonious married life
Following this line of thought, let's talk about how to make married life more harmonious and avoid the harm of divorce.
In this regard, I would like to have the following simple opinions: first of all, be sincere, don't have too many cover-ups, and marriage must be frank and open in order to know and love each other; Secondly, be considerate of each other, forbearance is also a kind of happiness, and it is better to be less stubborn when encountering contradictions.
There is also more communication, after all, is it also the key to a long-term marriage? As long as both parties have a sincerity and wisdom, I believe that they will be able to walk out of a happy marriage.
Of course, I am personally very fortunate to witness such a family, although there were complicated confusions, but they have finally dissolved the knot and established a new way of life.
Especially like Huo Zun, it is really gratifying to be able to enjoy the thoughtfulness of his parents in the process of growing up. Therefore, in the future, I am afraid that we must be as warm as ever, so as to live up to the blessings of the house.
I wish everyone a happy end in life after all the hardships. Born in the world, its way is narrow, and it is at home without forgetting the principles of heaven, where is there any good luck and bad luck?
Some netizens believe that although Huo Zun's family has experienced such a setback as divorce, they can deal with it with a healthy and positive attitude, not dwelling on the past, but working hard to establish a warm and harmonious family environment for their children, which is worth learning.
Some netizens also believe that although marriage is important, it is only a stage of life after all, and it is more important to respect each other and maintain feelings with tolerance and understanding. Some netizens believe that the impact of divorce on children is obvious, so parents must deal with conflicts in married life and give their children a complete family.
However, some netizens said that not all divorced families are suitable for this model, and sometimes for the healthy growth of the children, it may be better to be completely separated. In general, every family's situation is different, and it is important for both parties to genuinely think about their children and care for their growth with love.
After the above analysis and discussion, we should have a deeper thinking about marriage and family issues. Married life is indeed full of difficulties and requires mutual understanding and tolerance from both parties.
But in any case, the interests of the child should always come first, and it is the duty of parents to do so. Only in this way can the next generation grow up healthily and happily and bring positive energy to society.
So finally, let's think about a question: how should parents better deal with conflicts in married life to avoid affecting the growth of their children? All netizens are welcome to speak freely and share their insights and suggestions. Let's work together to build a society full of sunshine.