Since her 20s, Shirley has had 6 children

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Beginning in her 20s, Shirley began to become a surrogate mother and had 7 children.

Recently, a friend told me Shirley's story.

Shirley, her whole life, has been associated with children. Because I was impressed by the first, I also wanted to record it and share it into a story.

Shirley is now in her 40s, but most of the time, she either has children or carries them.

In her 20s, her family was a very ordinary family. At that time, there were several brothers and sisters in the family, and it was particularly easy for Mom and Dad to raise them.

When Shirley was in junior high school, her academic performance was not very good. Mom and Dad also hope that she can go out early to earn money, support herself, and supplement the family by the way, so that her parents' life will be a little better.

Following her parents' wishes, as the eldest sister in the family, Shirley has been out since graduation and has begun to earn money.

Shirley didn't make much money, but she met a man when she was working in the factory, and the two fell in love, and he became her first husband.

The relationship between the two is good. Soon after, he had his first son.

When her husband had to go out to earn money, Shirley took care of the children at home. After a long period of separation, the two have emotional problems. Soon after, the two divorced.

At the time of divorce, the son was awarded to her husband at the time of divorce.

After the divorce, Shirley began a single life in her mother's house.

The older she gets, her parents are still worried about the second half of Shirley's life, and it is not a matter of living alone.

So the trustee put out the whistle, and the eldest girl in the family, although divorced, still wanted to install a good person and entrust Shirley to the end of her life.

As soon as the news was released, several matchmakers came to the door to introduce it.

Shirley's favorite thing is a man with a very simple family.

Mom and Dad learned about the "future son-in-law" from the introduction letter of the matchmaker, and also deliberately went to the "son-in-law' home to understand the situation: the mother died of illness in the early years, and the father alone made money doing crops at home; the economic conditions of the family can be, the house is finely decorated, and there is no problem of the two couples earning money to decorate the house in the future, which is also a big economic saving.

The "son-in-law" is currently single, can accept Shirley's previous marriage, the former husband's children are raised by himself, and there is no financial dispute of any kind.

As soon as the two met, they felt very close, and judging from the family situation of the "son-in-law", all aspects were good. Shirley and her parents were also satisfied, and the two had a simple wedding and lived together.

Having lived together for 10 years, they have 4 children.

The son-in-law in the eyes of his father and mother listened to his wife's words, and all the money he earned from the outside every year was handed over to his wife for safekeeping.

But there are still more children, and their fourth child is a son. At the time of the full moon, he died of illness.

Since Shirley lost her son, she and her three daughters are dependent on each other, and the relationship between the two is declining, and in the year when her husband went out to make money, Shirley also had an external encounter, and another man she knew had a daughter for several months.

After the husband found out that Shirley had another strange "child", his heart was very angry, and the two of them quarreled every day when they met, and after each quarrel, they always washed their faces with tears at night.

"I've done this well, why are you doing this to me?" He was blaming Shirley for not sparing any blessings!

Later, on the days of "Double Eleven", they signed a divorce agreement and registered for divorce. The two eldest daughters were awarded to husbands, and the third youngest daughter was awarded to Shirley to raise.

The man and his father took their two daughters to school and grew up with the children.

Shirley is the archetype of the mother's housewife, and when the full-time housewife is influenced by his mother. Because the mother has to take care of the children, she can't earn money when she goes out, and the burden of family expenses falls on the shoulders of men.

So Shirley also had to repeat the role of a housewife like a mother.

In her first marriage, she was a full-time housewife; in her second marriage, she was also a housewife. Because of the role of housewife, her happiness in the family is not as strong as his man's, although she bore the man four children.

When a friend told me about how many children she had had, I was shocked. But when I think about that era, in addition to the shock, it feels like a normal thing.

Our previous generation, the ultimate meaning of their children is only to have a offspring, it is best to have a son, you can give them old age security, raise children and prevent old age.

A large part of the reason why Shirley lost her son and quarreled with men is that Shirley has a "son preference" in her bones. She has 3 daughters and only one son. Because sons are scarce, but after losing her son, all the emotions of her son in her heart "gain and lose" are all spit on her man.

In the end, Shirley was divorced, very crisp, because she felt that she could not get by. It's also unclear if she'll be with a man she knows and continue the "same mistakes" of her previous marriages.