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Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

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Recently, a precious video shows that two months ago, Ms. Shen Danping, who was only 61 years old, attended a lavish social dinner, which attracted the enthusiastic attention and discussion of a wide range of netizens. Shen Danping in the video is still beautiful, as if time has not left any traces on her face, which undoubtedly proves the excellent skills of the stars in the entertainment industry in image building.

In this grand banquet, a man couldn't help himself and affectionately left a deep kiss on Shen Danping's cheek. This bold move was shocking in the social context of the time, and its potential risks are incalculable! However, at that moment, a moist feeling and a familiar smell quietly diffused, making the atmosphere of the scene instantly freeze.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

Ms. Shen Danping has an elegant posture, but her eyes reveal a firm sense of strength, so that everyone present can feel the unique charm in her heart. Even the man who kissed her was attracted by the calm and calm temperament in her eyes, and his face was full of admiration and love for her.

It turned out that before this high-profile public appearance, Shen Danping had been in the entertainment industry for many years and lived a life without contention. She rarely appears in the public eye, making the outside world full of endless curiosity and speculation about her future direction.

And this unexpected "appearance" has undoubtedly deepened people's understanding and awe of her legendary life experience. The man who kissed her was none other than her German husband, Uwe. The image of their passionate kiss once again evokes memories of the once sensational transnational couple.

Going back many years ago, Shen Danping, as a hot movie star at the time, bravely chose to go to Germany and became the first female star in modern China to marry a foreign man, which was undoubtedly an unprecedented challenge at that time.

To delve into Shen Danping's legendary life, we must start with her school experience. In the early 80s of the last century, two famous film schools, Beijing Film Academy and Central Academy of Drama, opened their enrollment to the public for the first time.

This news of passion and hope undoubtedly ignited the deep desire of the young girl, Shen Danping, and she did not hesitate to apply for the entrance tests of two top universities at the same time.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

However, as the long-awaited admission notice came as scheduled, she fell into deep thought. Over the years, she has devoted herself to academic research, whether it is a profound cultural literacy or self-taught and self-developed physical performance skills, which vividly demonstrate her outstanding and outstanding talents.

When faced with the invitation of the two admission letters in hand, she felt torn between the two offers and could not make a choice.

However, in the end, she still firmly chose Beijing Film Academy, and was fortunate to become a classmate and best friend of well-known actors such as Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Tielin. Since then, Shen Danping's film career has officially kicked off.

In 1980, as a freshman, she played the starring roles in the movies "Lilies", "The Corner Forgotten by Love" and "Night Shanghai", which won her warm praise and high popularity from the audience.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

On the road of seeking knowledge, Shen Danping successfully broke free from the shyness and ordinariness of the past, like a swan flying high, and gradually emerged. Soon after, she was in the limelight on campus, with a steady stream of suitors, including Zhang Tielin, who was already famous at the time.

The two are attracted to each other and spend an incomparably sweet but slightly youthful relationship together on campus. At that time, Shen Danping was full of vitality and high morale, and she was inseparable from Zhang Tielin, and no one expected that this love would end in nothing.

Faced with the end of this relationship, Shen Danping once revealed endless pain, and tears soaked her eyes. However, with heavy workloads taking up the vast majority of her life, she had to muster the courage to focus on her future career.

It is worth remembering that in 1994, with her wonderful performance in the movie "Stay in the Village", Shen Danping won the high honor of Best Actress at the Hundred Flowers Award, and her career reached its peak.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

However, what is unexpected is that just as her career was climbing to the peak, Shen Danping suddenly announced her retirement from the film industry and decided to marry a German man, which completely changed the course of her life.

The root of this decision is nothing more than a marriage that has gone through ups and downs.

Back then, when Shen Danping was faltering on the road to study, a German man named Wu Wei poured out his heart to her warmly and bravely. Wu Wei is undoubtedly a seeker who dares to express his true feelings, and he dares to be a maverick in front of everyone, under the soft light, and involuntarily leaves a deep imprint on Shen Danping's delicate face - a sweet kiss.

This courageous and outspoken action was undoubtedly challenging at the time, causing the atmosphere to freeze in an instant, and fall into a brief silence.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

However, although Shen Danping had a deep affection for Wu Wei, she was at the peak of her career at that time and was worried about her future prospects. She cautiously asked Wu Wei, "Do you have deep feelings for me?" This sentence seems to be prosaic, but it contains the ardent anticipation of this relationship in her heart.

Wu Wei immediately understood her intentions and nodded in agreement without hesitation.

Perhaps, this is the uniqueness of German romance, which can always bring endless surprises and touches to Shen Danping. Since then, they have embarked on a striking transnational romance.

Although in those days, almost no one would choose to associate with a foreigner, let alone such a shocking act as transnational marriage, and even considered it illegal at some legal levels.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

However, as a public figure, Shen Danping has far more complex trade-offs than ordinary people, not only to protect her reputation, but also to consider the long-term development of her career.

Fortunately, Wu Wei is a considerate man who is willing to wait patiently and fully respects Shen Danping's decision. In order to communicate with her without barriers, Wu Wei even deliberately learned Chinese.

However, even so, cultural differences are still difficult to completely eliminate.

Just when the relationship between the two was in full swing, Wu Wei thought it was time to enter the palace of marriage. So on a quiet night, he knelt down on one knee and proposed to Shen Danping affectionately.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

Faced with Wu Wei's proposal, Shen Danping was shocked, and she resolutely refused: "I can't wait another two years, my visa is about to expire, and if we miss this opportunity, we may never be able to be together." With these words, she turned and walked away.

Faced with this sudden predicament, Shen Danping spent a long and torturous night, crying silently in the room alone, repeatedly weighing various possible consequences. In the end, she chose to bravely follow her truest feelings, and hurried to find Wu Wei before he was about to leave to tell this complex and changeable story. In this way, they held hands and walked through the unforgettable two years together.

However, the road to the marriage hall is not so easy to cross, especially in such a world love that crosses borders, the affirmation and blessing of both parents is even more important. In the face of this difficult choice between family and love, although her heart was full of pain and struggle, Shen Danping still firmly chose that fiery love, because she knew that as long as she was given enough time and patience, her family would eventually understand and accept this relationship.

She wrote a multi-page letter to her parents with deep affection, and the words were full of endless longing for her parents, and even tears had soaked the letter paper, leaving deep traces. As Shen Danping expected, her parents finally reluctantly accepted this seemingly unreasonable marriage. At a moment of joy for the two newlyweds, they quickly went to the Civil Affairs Bureau and officially concluded this much-talked-about marriage contract.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

In this way, Shen Danping became the first entertainment star in modern Chinese history to marry a foreign man. After marriage, Shen Danping did not hesitate to give up her acting career, moved to Germany with her husband Wu Wei, and gave birth to two lively and lovely children. At the beginning of their newlywed life, they lived a life as sweet as honey. Wu Wei cared for his wife and was considerate, which made Shen Danping feel unprecedented happiness. In order to be able to better communicate with his wife, Wu Wei even studied Chinese so that they could communicate with each other without hindrance.

However, as a German, Wu Wei's lifestyle and concepts are significantly different from Shen Danping's. In his opinion, due to the superior family conditions, hiring a nanny to handle household chores is undoubtedly the wisest choice. He firmly believes that as a happy couple, they should enjoy the good times that this marriage brings, and they should wake up every morning to pour out their love and say "I love you", even before going to sleep.

Once, Shen Danping was engrossed in tidying up the housework, and suddenly found that Wu Wei was snoring like thunder beside him! A flame of indignation ignited in her heart, and she couldn't help but lash out angrily: "Please get out of here!" Don't interfere with my ability to concentrate on the business at hand! Wu Wei was stunned by this sudden roar, and his face was full of shock and helplessness.

He had never seen his wife so agitated, and it made him realize that his understanding of Chinese women was too superficial.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

Amazingly, Uwei showed extraordinary patience and tolerance. No matter how fiercely Shen Danping accused him, he always remained calm, but always calmed his wife's emotions with gentle words, which can be called a model of a good husband in the twenty-four filial piety.

It is this kind of lenient attitude towards life that makes Shen Danping more confident, and her style of acting has become fearless.

In Germany, there are only a handful of Chinese restaurants, and Shen Danping has not been able to taste the delicacies of her hometown for a long time, so she began to make noise about returning to China. Wu Wei tried to comfort her with sweet words, but no matter how she persuaded her, Shen Danping was stubborn.

These four short words, like a bombshell, smashed heavily into Wu Wei's heart. He immediately felt that his heart was like a knife, and he was deeply afraid that he would lose this marriage, so he agreed to Shen Danping's request without hesitation and hurriedly led the whole family back to China.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

Since the word "divorce" was a complete success, these two words have become Shen Danping's ultimate "killer feature" in her married life. Even for trivial matters, she will throw this bombshell mercilessly.

Shen Danping, who looks arrogant and unreasonable on the surface and has a rather weird personality, is actually just out of deep love for her husband. In this firm and lasting relationship, she found a unique way to get along, and regarded the word "divorce" as the last expedient measure, which is the key to maintaining the longevity of their marriage.

Time is like an arrow, time is like a shuttle, and in a blink of an eye, thirty springs, summers, autumns and winters have passed. Looking back on the past, Shen Danping, who was shy and immature at the beginning of love, has now grown into an independent and resolute woman.

As a woman, she had the opportunity to choose such a comfortable and comfortable life path, however, she did not hesitate to give up her brilliant career and resolutely decided to cross the ocean with her beloved husband to a new country. And the man who once passionately pursued her, and even boldly proposed to her, Wu Dafu, has now grown into a considerate, gentle, and personable gentleman.

Shen Danping: The first female star to marry a foreigner, she says "divorce" to her foreign husband every day

In the face of Ms. Shen Danping's blurted out the word "divorce" from time to time, Mr. Wu Wei always responded with a patient and tolerant attitude, fully demonstrating his broad-minded personality. Because of this, the relationship between the two of them has always maintained the sweetness and romance of first love for a long time.

Today, the legendary couple have been together for three decades. They have experienced the earth-shaking changes in Chinese society, and they have also experienced the shock brought by the fierce collision of Eastern and Western cultures. However, with their wisdom and courage, they managed to find balance in their lives.

Their stories vividly illustrate an eternal transnational love, and we sincerely wish them a happy and happy life in the future!

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