"Knowing Wu Wei is the most precious asset in my life."
After saying this, Shen Danping blushed rarely.
As the first Chinese female star to marry a foreigner, the love between Shen Danping and Wu Wei has always attracted everyone's attention, and although the door of the country was opened at that time, everyone was still not optimistic about such a rare love as exotic love.
Wu Wei, Shen Danping
In fact, shen danping and Wu Wei's love has indeed experienced too many tribulations...
Shen Danping and Wu Wei met because of the movie
Since China's policy of opening up to the outside world, there have been more "foreigners" on the street, and Shen Danping began her happiness in this context.
One winter in 1983, Wu Wei invited several friends to watch a movie together at the Friendship Hotel where he was staying, and Shen Danping came together at the invitation of Wu Wei's friends, and everyone watched a West German film together, which was very lively.
This was also the first time That Shen Danping and Wu Wei had met.
At that time, although Wu Wei was more than ten years older than Shen Danping, Shen Danping could not see Wu Wei's age at all, and Wu Wei was very happy after knowing it, and greeted Shen Danping in a not-so-pure Beijing dialect, and the two of them knew each other.
Shen Danping
The next night, Wu Wei continued to invite friends to watch the movie, or a West German film, Shen Danping also came, that night, Shen Danping's arm inadvertently touched Wu Wei, Wu Wei immediately shrank back, the two were also shy.
It wasn't until 2 years later, when the two got married, that Shen Danping asked Wu Wei why he was so resistant to contacting her at that time, and Wu Wei replied with a smile:
"I want you to know that Uwei is not a frivolous man."
Later, Wu Wei began to invite Shen Danping alone to watch the movie, and then slowly, Wu Wei often went out with Shen Danping on weekends, and the two spent a lot of happy weekends, and their hearts slowly came together.
Shen Danping, Wu Wei
December 25th, Christmas came, this day Wu Wei took Shen Danping to a friend's house for the holiday, the hostess was very hospitable, pulling Shen Danping to dance and sing together, when Shen Danping sang wrong, Wu Wei will also correct her accent, the two understand that they like each other.
In the middle of the night, everyone was tired and fell asleep, and Shen Danping also slept soundly in the next room, in the hazy room, Shen Danping felt that someone had walked in, this person covered Shen Danping with a coat, and then went out again, Shen Danping knew that this must be Wu Wei covering her.
A few days later, Wu Wei and Shen Danping went to a friend's party again, and at the dance, Shen Danping was tired of dancing, and ran to the next room to be lazy, and Wu Wei walked in and woke Shen Danping up:
"Lazy little girl, go dance."
Wu Wei, Shen Danping
Then, Wu Wei took Shen Danping's hand and walked towards the door, looking at the man in front of her, Shen Danping suddenly felt that there was no ability to resist, Wu Wei's blue eyes, let her fall into it, Wu Wei's humorous and honest character, let her like.
Suddenly, the two looked at each other, and without a moment's hesitation, the two kissed softly, and soon let go, followed by a long gaze....
Soon, a piece of rock music broke the stare of the two, Wu Wei turned back and pulled Shen Danping towards the living room, and Shen Danping was still blind at this time, did it just happen like this?
No, Wu Wei is not an irresponsible man, because the love affair between the two soon fades away.
Shen Danping had a big fight with her parents for love
One kiss, enough to make love.
Shen Danping
However, at that time, it was still difficult for everyone to accept foreign love, especially Shen Danping was already a well-known "goddess" at that time, playing the "golden voice" of the thirties, who did not know ah?
Therefore, Shen Danping and Wu Wei could not meet often, otherwise if they were recognized, it would cause an uproar.
Can't meet? The two of them can only talk on the phone, but they can't have fun talking on the phone, and they must also ensure that the content of the call is normal, otherwise they don't know who listened to it.
Such a difficult love, but let the two more loving, the two mentality is good, but feel that this is a romantic atmosphere, meet? Then it can only be in Wu Wei's hotel or Shen Danping's dormitory, and don't think about it on the street.
Shen Danping
Suddenly one day, Shen Danping's mother came to Shen Danping's unit Beijing Film Studio Actors Troupe, this morning, Shen Danping did not get up yet, her mother came, Shen Danping hurriedly got up and dressed, afraid that something big had happened.
It turned out that the mother did not know when she knew about Shen Danping and Wu Wei's love affair, so she came to a showdown and let Shen Danping immediately break off her relationship with Wu Wei.
Of course, Shen Danping was unwilling and refused her mother on the spot, saying that it was absolutely impossible.
Looking at the daughter who has always been docile, this time so tough, the mother is sad, Shen Danping is also soft,She can't bear her mother to be so sad, so she has been comforting her mother, and also discussed with her mother to see Wu Wei, the mother is finally distressed about her daughter, or agreed.
Shen Danping
At noon on this day, Wu Wei picked a restaurant to invite Shen Danping and her mother to eat together, and her mother sat very far away, but Wu Wei was still very enthusiastic, standing up to pour water for her mother's vegetables, and the meal was not too embarrassing.
After the meal, her mother asked Wu Wei a few questions, and Wu Wei answered very well, looking at the prejudice that disappeared in her mother's eyes, Shen Danping knew that her mother would not stop her anymore.
However, the mother agreed, and the father's consent was also a problem, even a more difficult barrier to break through.
After the New Year in 1984, Shen Danping decided to have a showdown with her father in the fourth year of junior high school, but she did not expect that her father did not even give her daughter room for consultation, and directly scolded her, and the fierce battle between father and daughter also made the atmosphere of the whole family become very dull.
At dinner that day, Shen Danping came to talk to her father again, and after pouring a cup of tea for her father, she said:
"Dad, I'm going back to Beijing on the 16th."
Shen Danping
Dad was surprised and asked if there were still three months off? Unexpectedly, Shen Danping was very calm, saying that she had made an appointment with friends in Beijing, and they would give me a birthday, including her lover Wu Wei.
This sentence completely angered dad, just when dad began to speak, Shen Danping said a word, dad is afraid that you don't know when my birthday is, right?
Suddenly, dad was stunned, from childhood to adulthood, he really did not give his daughter a birthday, what he did not expect was that her daughter would actually use this matter to remind him.
After a long silence, Dad opened his mouth and expressed his worries:
It turns out that the father is not prejudiced, but worried that this exotic love is the daughter's whim, in case Wu Wei abandons his daughter in the future, then the daughter will be finished, whether it is a career or a relationship, especially the daughter or a star, the impact of this relationship, how can he not worry?
Shen Danping
However, Shen Danping still insisted on her own ideas, saying that she must be with Wu Wei and insist on her love, and her father was angry when he heard this, and said:
"Yes, your wings are hard now, you can fly, go, I only thought I hadn't given birth to you, you filial son."
On the 16th, Shen Danping set off on time to return to Beijing, her father did not come to send her for the first time, only her mother and brother came to send, looking at the family in front of her, Shen Danping also made up her mind to be happy and not to disappoint her parents.
However, can this relationship really end well? She didn't know it herself.
Shen Danping threatened to give Birth to Wu Wei "Ten Children"
On the 17th, Shen Danping arrived in Beijing on time, and Wu Wei covered her tightly to pick her up and take her home.
Shen Danping, Wu Wei
Then, Shen Danping told Wu Wei the truth, because their love offended her father, and her father estimated that he would not forgive her in the future.
Wu Wei hugged Shen Danping, comforting will not, in the future these contradictions will definitely get better after marriage.
February 19 arrived, this day is Shen Danping's birthday, Wu Wei drove to pick her up early, entered the door, Wu Wei immediately took out a small box from his pocket, and then pulled Shen Danping to the mirror. Shen Danping obediently stood in front of the mirror, only to see Wu Wei open the box, take out an emerald stone necklace from inside and hang it on Shen Danping's neck.
The surprise is not over yet!
Then, Wu Wei took a large frame, indicating that this was the second birthday gift prepared for Shen Danping, opened it, Shen Danping shouted, the original frame was a pair of paintings cut from colored cloth, the room on the painting, the small bed, the bicycle... These are all things in Shen Danping's home.
In the middle is Shen Danping
Wu Wei, this is to give Shen Danping a home!
Looking at the gift in front of her, Shen Danping shed tears and hugged Wu Wei tightly, thanking her lover for giving her such a happy and meaningful gift.
In the evening, everyone gathered together to celebrate Shen Danping's birthday, Shen Danping also felt very happy, the party dispersed, Shen Danping was already a little drunk, and was snuggling in Wu Wei's arms.
Suddenly, Shen Danping sat up and said to Wu Wei:
"Honey, marry me."
Wu Wei was a little surprised and asked:
"Didn't you say two years from now?"
Shen Danping, Wu Wei
Shen Danping shook her head, no, she couldn't wait anymore, she hoped to be with Wu Wei immediately, forever and ever.
Soon, the early spring passed, Wu Wei was serious, decided to start to deal with the matter of marrying Shen Danping, did not expect Shen Danping to regret it.
It turned out that that night was Decided by Shen Danping for a moment, plus drinking, and now That Shen Danping is calm, she can't marry Wu Wei, she has a pursuit of her career, and she hopes to make two more successful scenes.
Wu Wei was very angry, because he felt that Shen Danping did not love him, just talking to him about a business, Shen Danping also knew that it was wrong, but looking at Wu Wei angry, Shen Danping did not want to explain, the two did not call each other for the first time, and a cold war occurred.
Do you want to break up? No, Shen Danping thought that the tears would all flow down here, she loved Wu Wei, she shouldn't do this, so wasting Wu Wei's sincerity.
Shen Danping
The next morning, Wu Wei came to Shen Danping's dormitory, watching Wu Wei's arrival, Shen Danping came forward and hugged Wu Wei and cried, Wu Wei also apologized and said that he could not live without Shen Danping, please forgive yourself.
Two people who love each other always have some contradictions to strengthen the love fortress of the two people.
Half a month later, Shen Danping and Wu Wei discussed well, submitted a marriage application, such a big decision, the two did not tell anyone, because they have enough confidence, even if there is no blessing from their families, they can always be together, after submitting the marriage application, Shen Danping smiled and said to Wu Wei:
"I'm going to have ten children for you."
Wu Wei smiled and hugged Shen Danping tightly, and the two of them also felt that life was so happy.
Wu Wei and Shen Danping are on the show
The next morning, Shen Danping got up early and walked to the actors troupe office on the second floor, yesterday she submitted a marriage application, today she has to see if this marriage application can be approved, which is not only related to her happiness, but also related to her career and even the entire film industry will cause a storm.
Unfortunately, at this time, the leaders of the troupe were all in a meeting, and Shen Danping walked in, wanting to know what the result was, but the leader of the troupe did not reply to Shen Danping, but let Shen Danping go to work on his own first, and when there was news, he would naturally contact Shen Danping.
In desperation, Shen Danping had to leave the office and went to Changsha to shoot a drama in the afternoon.
It seems that this is another ordeal!
Shen Danping and Wu Wei's love was finally recognized by her father
Fortunately, the tribulation did not become a tribulation.
Shen Danping
Although there were some twists and turns, Shen Danping and Wu Wei still received the marriage certificate at the Civil Affairs Bureau, the two were happy and broken, holding hands tightly on Wangfujing Street, regardless of the eyes of others on the road, Shen Danping was deliberate, she wanted to announce to the world that they were legal!
Then, Wu Wei and Shen Danping began to shop for things, Shen Danping bought vegetables, Wu Wei bought furniture, and the two prepared to have a small wedding in the evening, so they invited a few friends.
In the evening, everyone came to this wedding with good wishes, not so much a wedding as a party, but Shen Danping did not care about these, she cared about happiness.
The next morning, Wu Wei woke up Shen Danping, this day Shen Danping had to go to Changsha to shoot a drama, even if she got married, she could not delay her work, and Shen Danping was cleaning up while getting up, Wu Wei was making breakfast for her, and the two were obviously already the lives of old husbands and wives.
Since getting married, Shen Danping "didn't have to worry" when filming, and she began to miss her husband as soon as she played, and she wanted to return to her husband's side immediately, and Wu Wei always comforted Shen Danping and would meet immediately.
Shen Danping
Finally, the three-month filming career was over, Shen Danping immediately flew back to Beijing, flew back to Wu Wei's side, even if going to the toilet, they had to stick together, eager to make up for the three months.
Now Shen Danping and Wu Wei are happy enough, it is time to invite their parents to come and see their lives, both to reassure their parents and to prove it.
On this day, Shen Danping and Wu Wei went to the train station to pick up their parents and mother, as soon as they left the station, Wu Wei took the initiative to carry his parents' travel bags, looking at his father's silence, Shen Danping knew that his father still had a heart knot, so he took the initiative to joke with his father, saying that Wu Wei was a porter.
Wu Wei was also very humorous, and immediately said that he had come to China to mix rice and eat, and he did a good job in this profession, and asked Shen Danping how much money he gave him.
A joke, the gap between everyone slowly disappeared.
Subsequently, Shen Danping and her husband took their parents to the restaurant to eat, and during the meal, Wu Wei took the initiative to give his father and mother a dish, and his father and mother also accepted.
Shen Danping
After seeing people's hearts for a long time, in this way, his father finally accepted Wu Wei, and the two even became confidants and got along very happily.
It seems that the love between the two can finally go on sweeter.
Shen Danping cried and asked Wu Wei to take her to live in Germany
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, it's 1985.
In January of this year, a strong change began to occur in Shen Danping's body, yes, Shen Danping was pregnant with the crystallization of their love, but this little life was not obedient, and had been tossing Shen Danping, so that Shen Danping could not eat and vomited.
Perhaps heaven wanted to give Shen Danping a little test, at this time the contract signed by Wu Wei and the Beijing Foreign Language Publishing Bureau expired, so Wu Wei's economy had problems, but Shen Danping had earlier taken over the filming of "Unfinished Debut".
Wu Wei, Shen Danping and the child
The difficulties of life and the hardships of filming made Shen Danping extremely weak.
7 months pregnant, Shen Danping finally insisted on completing the filming of the movie, and the big house where she lived also needed to be turned around because of economic problems, but the turnover went out to find where to live? Shen Danping did not know, so Shen Danping contacted the leader many times to help, but there was still no news.
Shen Danping's psychology completely collapsed, and she began to wash her face with tears every day.
Slowly, Shen Danping could not bear it any longer, one night, Shen Danping hugged her husband and cried, and then said that she wanted her husband to take herself to Germany to live and give birth to a child in Germany.
Wu Wei was very calm, the current difficulties are only temporary, and will not continue forever, so Wu Wei comforted:
"You, it's disgraceful to go like this, we must succeed, if everyone says that you were taken away, then you will regret it for the rest of your life."
Shen Danping
Hearing this, Shen Danping was also stunned and had to continue to insist.
Subsequently, Wu Wei ran around to turn around the big house, while Shen Danping was dragging her bulky body to bed every day, afraid that the child would be hurt because of her.
Finally, an opportunity to reverse fate has come!
One day, a reporter surnamed Li came to Beijing to interview Shen Danping and Wu Wei, and published an article in "Chinese and Foreign Film Drama", outside fans knew Shen Danping's difficulties, and wrote letters to encourage Shen Danping, which made Shen Danping very moved, there are so many fans, she is lucky.
Seeing that so many fans cared about Shen Danping, Wu Wei was also very moved, and said to Shen Danping:
"You, if our thing happens in Europe, absolutely no one has written you such a letter, and this is the best quality of Chinese, and why I have lived in China for 12 years and still love it." 」
Shen Danping
Hearing Wu Wei's words, Shen Danping suddenly realized, yes, she is a Chinese actor, she is a Chinese, there are difficulties, there are so many people who support her and encourage her, then what else can she not insist on?
Subsequently, Shen Danping's child was born, although the hotel attendant came to urge the rent to be paid, which was 3750 yuan, but Shen Danping was not sad, because she believed that life would always be better!
Finally, Heaven did not fail shen Danping, who had persevered bitterly.
In 1993, Shen Danping was invited by directors Lei Xianhe and Wang Xingdong to star in the movie "Staying in the Village", which tells a story of poverty alleviation. And Shen Danping also relied on so many years of acting experience to successfully play the heroine in the movie to the fullest.
Shen Danping
In 1994, the movie "Stay in the Village" was released and was widely acclaimed, and Shen Danping also successfully won the Best Actress Trophy of the 18th Popular Film Hundred Flowers Awards with her excellent acting skills.
It seems that as long as you don't give up hope, love and career will have it, Shen Danping has already told everyone isn't it...