Shen Danping was the first actress to marry a foreigner.
At that time, she broke with her family in order to marry a foreigner.
The man was 15 years older than she was, and the family thought he was a liar.
But Shen Danping still desperately married him.
She wants to pursue happiness, is her life really happy now?
Shen Danping was born into an ordinary family in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province.
When she was a child, she looked average and her skin was a little dark.
Because he looks ugly, he has always been very inferior.
She didn't have any friends since she was a child, her parents were busy at work, and she didn't even have a single person to talk to.
She loved dancing and wanted to go to dance school, but her parents didn't care what she said.
There is no place for her to speak in this house, and what she says is superfluous.
Gradually, she became less and less talkative, and her head was always low.
After graduating from high school, she went to the Yangzhou Song and Dance Troupe, and she could finally stand on the stage and dance.
But because she had too few words, she couldn't talk to the people in the group.
She has been in the song and dance troupe for more than half a year, and there are many people in the song and dance troupe that she can't name.
Everyone in the song and dance troupe thinks she is very cold, but in fact, she just doesn't like to talk.
Later, she was admitted to Nortel and became classmates with Zhang Fengyi, Fang Shu and Zhang Tielin.
Shen Danping has become more and more beautiful as she grows up, but she is still very inferior and always walks with her head down.
Once she accidentally bumped into someone while going to acting class.
Zhang Tielin was walking well and was suddenly bumped by a person who was about to get angry, and suddenly saw a very beautiful face.
Shen Danping looked up at him and said, "I'm sorry."
The voice was particularly small, and he quickly lowered his head after speaking.
I didn't expect Zhang Tielin to fall in love with her at first sight.
The two are classmates who often rehearse together, and Zhang Tielin is particularly kind to her.
The two came and went together.
Although Shen Danping still does not like to talk, her acting skills are very good.
She began filming in her sophomore year, she filmed "Lilies", "The Forgotten Corner of Love", "Night Shanghai" and so on.
Shen Danping has filmed so many TV dramas before graduation, and she is a popular figure in school.
At that time, Zhang Tielin was still a newcomer, and he felt that he had a special face with her.
Graduation season breakup season.
After the two graduated, Shen Danping went to the North Film Studio, and Zhang Tielin went to the Tianjin Radio and Television Art Troupe.
The two gathered less and left more, and Shen Danping, who originally did not like to talk, now had even fewer words.
Later, Zhang Tielin and actor Gong Xue had a scandal.
Eventually, the two broke up.
After the breakup, Shen Danping put her time into filming.
She also filmed "Phoenix Dance", "Women Like Flowers", "Children of Ai Bang" and so on.
At a party, Shen Danping met Wu Wei.
Uwe is a German, but has been living in China for 10 years.
He works as a proofreader in the Foreign Languages Publishing Bureau.
At this time, Uwe was 38 years old, tall and handsome, not married and had no girlfriend.
Shen Danping is only 23 years old, and the difference between the two is 15 years.
They all say that the three-year-old generation gap, then there must be a river between them.
Age is not a problem in the face of love, Shen Danping liked it at the first sight of Wu Wei.
When they first met, Shen Danping was a little inferior and did not dare to look at him.
Uwe asked her, "Why do you always keep your head down?" Shen Danping said, "Because I'm not good-looking." ”
Uwe said, "I think you're pretty." ”
It was the first time anyone had said she was good looking.
Shen Danping liked him even more.
At the party, she said she wanted to go to the bathroom but the people around her didn't pay attention to her words.
Only Uwe heard it and took her to the bathroom.
He had always cared about what she said.
Later, Uwe often asked her out to play.
The two came and went together.
When we first got together, one couldn't speak German and one couldn't Chinese.
Therefore, the two communicated by painting.
Shen Danping drew the words she wanted to say to Wu Wei in the book, but she didn't draw well.
Uwe had to look good for a long time to know what she was going to say.
The two were together on the first day of the Chinese New Year.
In the second year of the first year, the family knew that the two were together.
Because a friend of my father's saw the two dating together.
At that time, Shen Danping was learning to sing and wanted to sing everywhere she went.
The two passed a small square when they went to dinner.
Shen Danping suddenly stopped and jumped on the small stage.
Then he said to Uwe, "Uwe, I'm going to sing you a song." ”
She sang on the small stage, and he applauded her below, looking at her affectionately.
This scene was just seen by the father's friend, and then he told her that his daughter was with a foreigner.
When my father found out, he was furious.
And Shen Danping didn't know that her family already knew about the two of them.
When she returned home for dinner in her second year of junior high school, her father scolded her, and the family objected to the two being together.
She didn't even eat before her family was kicked out.
Father said, "Don't follow us, he doesn't have us." ”
After saying that, he slammed the door shut.
At that time, they were not married to foreigners around them, and it is no wonder that their families were so opposed.
After the two had known each other for 6 months, Uwe wanted to marry her.
Shen Danping decided to marry Wu Wei, so she went home and told her family about it.
As a result, her family did not agree at all, and she was again kicked out of the house by her parents.
Father still said: "There is him without me, there is no me without him." ”
Shen Danping had to choose between them and Wu Wei.
Shen Danping chose to break with her family, and she wanted to pursue happiness.
The two have known each other for 6 months and have been married.
After marriage, the two quarreled almost every day.
Because Uwe is particularly lazy, he doesn't do anything at home.
Even the cup that drank the water grew hairy and did not wash it, leaving it for Shen Danping to wash.
Shen Danping did not intend to get used to him.
He didn't wash the cup and just smashed it.
He also did not wash the dishes and mop the floor, and every time he finished eating, he went to the study and did nothing.
In the end, these things were all done by Shen Danping.
Shen Danping was particularly angry, and she did all the housework.
She suddenly felt that this man was an old and cunning "liar" who had deceived her little girl.
When not married, he took good care of her.
Sometimes she goes to filming, and he goes to the crew to bring her food.
Then eat with her.
After marriage, it is like a changed person.
Once the two quarreled again, this time Shen Danping couldn't stand slamming the door and went away.
Then he waited outside the door for a while, but he didn't chase him out.
Shen Danping waited for more than ten minutes before finally seeing the door open.
She thought he was going out to chase her, and then she trotted up.
After running for a while, I looked back and saw that no one was chasing after me.
It turned out that he was just going out to throw garbage and not to chase her.
Shen Danping was particularly angry.
Go back and ask him, "Why don't you chase me?" ”
Uwe said, "You'll come back eventually anyway, so why should I chase it?" ”
Shen Danping couldn't refute it, as if she ran out every time she quarreled.
But no matter how angry she was, as long as he gave a step down, she obediently returned the same way.
After marriage, Shen Danping gave birth to two daughters.
Shen Danping did not want to go back to live abroad with him, so he lived with her in Beijing.
After Shen Danping reached menopause, the whole person became grumpy and tantrum.
The two daughters always complained to Uwe that their mother had changed and could not communicate with her.
Uwe said to her two daughters, "You will be like this at that age in the future, and you must learn to hug your mother." ”
Although the two were always quarrelsome, he was really good to Shen Danping.
Today, the two are still together after many years of marriage.
Shen Danping married the right person, and Wu Wei has been married for many years and has been single-minded to her and tolerates everything about her.
With him she felt that life was happy and sweet.