1. Fascinating introduction: The marriage journey is not as stable as a dream, but contains many twists and turns and trials in life
There is a well-known marriage quote that reminds us: "No matter how loving a couple is, there are more than 100 thoughts of ending this marriage and more than 50 impulses to put each other to death in their lives."
This is undoubtedly a true revelation that the journey of marriage is not as stable as a dream - the road of marriage is not a calm lake, but full of twists and turns and trials in life.
In today's society, the divorce rate is increasing year by year, and many people are gradually losing confidence in married life. However, there are always exceptions that show that the power of marriage is not so fragile.
Shen Danping and her husband Uwe are such a unique couple, their married life has gone through ups and downs, but in the end they have fulfilled their vow of "never divorce" with practical actions.
This cross-border couple may seem unremarkable, but digging deeper into the reasons for it hides countless bizarreness and twists and turns. Why did Shen Danping, who was heroic when she was young, choose to marry a foreign man? Why was she able to file for divorce from her husband more than 100 times in one day? And how did Uwe endure such "atrocities" by his wife? What's the story behind this? Let's explore the origin and origin of this special couple, and experience a seemingly ordinary but unique marriage process.
2. Revealing the trivial things of married life: tolerance and understanding are the secrets of maintaining a long-lasting marriage
When it comes to the name Uwe, some people may not be familiar with it. However, when it comes to Shen Danping, the wife who can tell him more than 100 times about "divorce" in one day, I believe everyone will hear about it.
Looking back on the married life of Shen Danping and Uwe, some subtleties may reveal the bits and pieces between this special couple. Shen Danping is a person with a rather impatient personality, who often loses control of her emotions and gets angry because of small things.
Once, when the whole family returned home from Germany, when they opened the door, they saw a house full of dust, messy luggage and crying children, Shen Danping, who was physically and mentally exhausted, was suddenly angry, and was about to scold Uwe, but Uwe was unexpectedly calm by everyone, he took out a bottle of champagne, carefully wiped the sofa for his wife, and invited her to sit down and share a good wine.
When facing his fierce wife, Uwe did not fight back with words from beginning to end, but chose to resolve all conflicts with tolerance and understanding. Even at the last moment of his life, Uwe still couldn't hide his guilt, because he deeply regretted that he didn't give Shen Danping a grand wedding because he was too hasty in the early years, so he specially planned a wedding full of romance and warmth for Shen Danping decades later, so as to make up for the guilt in his heart.
This kind of broad-mindedness, deep understanding and cherishing each other is an important cornerstone for Shen Danping and Uwe to go through 39 years of ups and downs hand in hand.
3. The tenacious road through family resistance: bravely move forward for love
Looking back on the past years, when 23-year-old Shen Danping decided to marry Uwe, the road she faced was not smooth. At that time, Shen Danping was at the peak of her career, and as a well-known actress loved by the audience, her charm was unstoppable.
However, when she decided to marry Uwe, a man from a foreign country, she was immediately met with strong opposition from her family.
Shen Danping's parents told her mercilessly: "Either follow him and leave, or end the relationship." But if you choose to go with him, then you will never have the opportunity to return home, and we will treat you as a stranger.
In the face of such severe accusations from her family, Shen Danping's heart was undoubtedly in a painful struggle and entanglement. On the one hand, she longs for a happy marriage; On the other hand, she also understood that in those days, marrying abroad was a very controversial thing.
In the face of this difficult choice, Shen Danping finally made the most important decision in her life with her deep affection for Uwe - she resolutely followed Uwe to leave her homeland and go to Germany, where she gave birth to the crystallization of their love.
This decision undoubtedly made Shen Danping pay a heavy price, she had to give up the family ties with her family and start a new life in a strange land. However, her willingness to gamble her entire life for this is enough to prove her persistence and cherishment of this relationship.
Fourth, the beautiful story of chance encounter: encounter good fate
Indeed, the acquaintance between Shen Danping and Uwe is completely arranged by fate, and it can be called a beautiful story of a chance encounter.
On a hot summer day in 1983, the two met their eyes at a banquet without warning. Uwe was first deeply attracted by Shen Danping's charming smile, and then by her straightforward, sincere, and unpretentious character.
As time passed, the relationship between this characteristic Chinese and foreign couple gradually warmed up, as if their marriage was so natural and closely connected. After only three months of brief acquaintance, Uwe unreservedly expressed to Shen Danping his desire to tie the knot with him.
Although they haven't known each other for a long time, both of them seem to have a magical perception and clearly know that this is definitely a once-in-a-lifetime beautiful encounter.
It was this deep fate that led Shen Danping to finally muster up the courage to firmly pursue her own happy marriage. Looking back, this is undoubtedly the prelude to a love story full of surprises, but extremely romantic.
5. Career is successful but no lover: wandering looking for a gap in marriage
However, before meeting Uwe, Shen Danping's life path was not all smooth sailing. Before she was 23 years old, although she had made remarkable achievements in her acting career, her emotional life was repeatedly frustrated and she missed her lover twice.
Shen Danping in her youth was a high-profile powerful actor with the reputation of "the first beauty in China". She once fell in love with Zhang Tielin, who also graduated from Beijing Film Academy, and the two were praised by the outside world as an excellent match for "talented women".
However, the good times are always short-lived. Due to the development needs of their respective careers, the two had to be separated for a long time, and finally had no choice but to break up, and this relationship came to an end.
For Shen Danping at that time, marriage was like an irrefillable regret and void. Deep down, she longs to be able to start a family with her beloved and live a happy life.
However, the failure of her two previous relationships hit her hard, and it was this strong desire for marriage that prompted her to resolutely pursue her own happiness after meeting Uwe.
The marriage gap in her heart made Shen Danping feel like a new life for the appearance of Uwe. She decided to seize this rare opportunity and walk hand in hand with him into the palace of marriage.
Behind this, she hides the bitter journey of finding true love for many years.
VI. Epilogue: The Eternal Power of a Successful Marriage
The marriage between Shen Danping and Uwe has gone through decades of ups and downs, but finally ushered in a happy ending. In the 39 years of living together, Shen Danping asked her husband for "divorce" more than once, but Uwe never had any dissatisfaction with his wife's mood swings, but resolved all disputes with a tolerant heart.
Why does this marriage, known as "never divorced", last for a long time? may be in response to what Shen Danping once sighed, she met that special person - "a man who can never get divorced"! Uwe's understanding and tolerance towards his wife can be said to be the ultimate, and this wholehearted devotion not only stems from his deep love for Shen Danping, but also the most perfect embodiment of his marital responsibility and dignity as a husband.
There is no doubt that the affection between Shen Danping and Uwe has long surpassed the shackles of the traditional marriage model. That selfless tolerance, deep understanding and incomparable cherishment are their unconditional love and care for each other.
On such a solid psychological foundation, their marriage is like a solid rock like a mountain, no matter how many trials and hardships it has gone through, it can stand firmly.
As a well-known marriage counselor said, "Love is fleeting, but marriage is eternal." Shen Danping and Uwe confirmed this wise saying with practical actions, and they spent 39 years honing and sticking to it, and finally won an eternal marriage.
This power of never divorce is undoubtedly the most precious symbol of modern marriage.