Volume 8 Foolishness
Observe people in order to obtain talents
[Original]
Those who look good, in addition to bones, often lack bones. Those who are modal, in addition to God, often support the lack of God. Pay attention to the spirit of watching people for a long time, and see the mood of watching people at first glance. Everyone's manners are also good for shyness; The main purpose is also to distinguish the turbidity, and the details are also discussed.
There are weak states, crazy states, lazy states, and circumferential states. The birds are tactful, and this weak state is also. Shirtless, if there is no one around, this madness is also. Sit and sit freely, ask questions and answers casually, and this lazy state is also. Playing one of its opportunities, not smiling, observing words and colors, tending to good fortune and avoiding evil, then the circumferential state is also. It's all rooted in the feelings, and it can't help but be overkill. Weak but not flattering, crazy but not noisy, lazy and sincere, circumferential and vigorous, all can become instruments, and vice versa, scum also. Probably two or three.
【Translation】
Appearance is the outward manifestation of bones, which can often compensate for the lack of bones. The modality is the external manifestation of the spirit, which can often make up for the lack of the spirit, and the human spirit can be observed by looking at it for a long time, and the first thing you see at a glance is the human mood, as long as it is the attitude of everyone, such as the behavior of high-ranking officials and nobles, even if there is a sense of shyness, it is a good picture; on the contrary, as long as it is a child-like attitude, the more childish actions such as jumping and shouting are used to cover up the truth, the more naïve and vulgar it appears. It is necessary to distinguish clearly the big things in the mood of the people, and not only to distinguish the small things clearly, but also to distinguish the priority and the back before making a choice.
There are about four common modes in us, namely, the euphemistic and weak demeanor, the uninhibited demeanor, the sluggish and lazy demeanor, and the sleek and thoughtful interpersonal attitude. For example, the bird is attached to its master, and its affection is tactful and delicate, which is the euphemistic and weak mood. If the clothes and hats are untidy, unkempt, arrogant, and unrestrained, this is the wild and uninhibited attitude, do whatever you want, say what you want, this is the lazy and lazy state. And hide your mind and wisdom deeply, be serious all day long, always observe the appearance of people, and be good at dealing with good luck and avoiding evil, this is the smooth and thoughtful attitude of communication. The four states expressed above are actually all true feelings from the heart, and they are not easy to fake at will. Euphemistic and weak but not bent to welcome, wild and uninhibited but not noisy, lazy but honest and innocent, smooth but not strong and heroic, will be able to become a useful talent in the future. But if you do the opposite, you will definitely become useless waste in the future. The situation is changing in a myriad of ways, and it is difficult to grasp, but as long as you can see the general situation, you can probably see who can become useful materials in the future, and who will become useless waste.