Today, we went to visit an older sister who cooked a super colorful and delicious dish herself.
But a table of delicacies did not light up her former look, and it always made people feel that she had a depressed face......
Sure enough, during the chat, my sister said that her son-in-law was abroad, and her daughter had become more and more anxious recently because she was too serious with her little grandson, and she got angry at every turn, and she lost her sense of proportion in her speech, and her image was disregarded, and her social interaction was interrupted, and she frequently changed aunts.
My sister felt sorry for her daughter, but she was also affected by her daughter's emotions, and there was a little resentment in her helplessness between her words.
In order to adjust her daughter's emotions, she has thought of various ways, not only to help herself, but also to take her daughter and grandson out, and even think about whether the magnetic field at home is not good, and specially invited a master to do things.
But all kinds of efforts have been made, but the daughter's state is still not good, and she is particularly rude to her, which also affects the little grandson and makes the child's mood very unstable.
Although she saw a lot of problems with her daughter, she didn't dare to say it anymore, because her daughter would have an emotional breakdown and would feel that everyone thought she was at fault - she was really afraid that her daughter would be depressed.
Actually, we have met this sister's daughter a few times, and she is a very smart and righteous girl.
We comforted my sister that our daughter is not targeting her now, but her inner energy is insufficient, so there is always a sense of insecurity, and the heart can't control her emotions, but is controlled by emotions.
At this time, people are like mobile phones running out of power, they should not criticize, but encourage, and they should not be reasonable, but should give energy.
Only when there is enough energy can people figure it out for themselves, and when there is enough energy, people can adjust their state by themselves.
So, we came up with a few ideas for my sister:
First, read the Tao Te Ching to meditate and return positive energy to your daughter.
Children's problems are rooted in their parents, as long as the parents' energy is sufficient and the roots are strong, the branches and leaves can flourish.
Therefore, the more my daughter loses electricity, the more we can't lose electricity with her, we have to do the opposite, maintain our own energy, and keep ourselves in a state of tranquility and harmony. Because, you are the core of the world around you, and if this core is fixed, everything around you will be straightened out and dissolved.
But my sister said that she couldn't calm down now, so she would rather invite a powerful master to come, just because she couldn't do it.
We also understand this, after all, it is not easy for people to calm down when they are in turmoil. Then try the second point.
Second, adjust the focus of thinking: good children are praised, find three advantages of their daughter every day, and sincerely praise her.
Thinking has the function of a magnifying glass, and where the mind focuses on, it will be magnified.
When our daughter is stuck in negative emotions, we use positive feelings to pull her out of the quagmire.
Although this method is simple, first adjust your focus, when you focus on the positive, your mood will improve first, and when you have enough electricity, you can recharge others.
My sister didn't object to this suggestion, but I think she is a little absent-minded, and I guess she is anxious, and she won't be able to find the advantages of her daughter for a while, let alone find three a day, and she has to stick to it.
So, we gave her a third idea.
Third, imagine: the future daughter is happy and happy, the grandson is smart and lovely, and the daughter and son-in-law have a harmonious and happy family.
It is difficult for people to get what they don't want, and only when they really want to do something, can the power of faith dial the phone of the universe and let the whole universe come to help us achieve what we want.
When people fall into negative emotions, their eyes are full of darkness and the other party's badness, and it is difficult to imagine a bright future at that time.
In fact, life is all about passing through difficult hurdles.
As long as we look a little farther, let our thoughts travel through time and space, and lock in that beautiful future in advance, that beauty will turn into light and illuminate our hearts in an instant.
Our sister is a person with a lot of positive energy, and when I encountered a major setback, it was her words that made me lock in the successful results.
From that moment on, I didn't hesitate, everyone went all out, overcame obstacles for three months, and finally turned the impossible in everyone's eyes into a possibility.
We've been through this together, so I said to my sister:
Now imagine the happy picture of your daughter's family in the future, and that is the result we want.
If you think of it, lock in that result, and then let's find a way to solve the problem on the way, this is your style.
My sister nodded, and I saw a twinkle in her eyes.
My sister said: Yes, you have to lock in the results you want, so that you know what you should do.
Life is love, and love is the root of all energy aggregation.
All the truths and ideas are the dialogue of the mind, only when our hearts cross time and space into love, that touch can bring heartbeat, heartbeat can lead to action, action will produce interaction, love is transmitted in this way.
When the picture of love is always kept in the heart, the heart lamp will never be extinguished, and the road ahead will be clear under the feet.
Thank you for everything that happened, and thank you for every friend who has a heart to heart with us!
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