Tonight (May 4th) "Rich Milk: If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", a "love white" appeared on the stage, claiming that the biggest advantage is to listen to persuasion, "Friends persuaded me to come to "If I want to fall in love, I can come to "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", I will come!" Another male guest believes that love needs to be expressed in a suitable way, "When I encounter crazy and passionate feelings, I have to stick together almost every day, and when my lover is introverted and low-key, I will express my love in a funny way." The three teachers also agreed: love in the way that the other person likes and needs, and they will get along more and more harmoniously.
"Love Xiaobai" focuses on a simple and pure love
Wu Tong, a male guest from Suzhou, is a subway ticket administrator and has formed his own band with friends. In addition, he also has a hobby, "My house is downstairs is the vegetable market, I like to find inspiration for cooking there, and my best thing in life is the ordinary egg fried rice, which has been fried in more than 30 types." Wu Tong said: "My biggest advantage is to listen to persuasion, my father persuaded me that a man can not be handsome but must be clean, so I developed a good habit of skin care; my colleagues advised me not to spend all the salary I earn every month, so I developed a good habit of saving money; my friends persuaded me to come to "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" if I want to fall in love, I will come! What do the female guests on the scene want to persuade me? I will focus on listening to persuasion!"
Wu Tong's love experience is relatively simple, only one campus love, "She is my senior sister, I am a love novice, and many details in love are taught by her." For example, when walking on the road, let the girl take the inside line, take the initiative to help tie the shoelaces when they are loose, and let the girl sit down first when eating...... Under her nudge, I slowly became mature, but eventually broke up because of different graduation plans. Emotionally, Wu Tong doesn't want his other half to be silent when he is angry, "When you are angry, I will observe first, don't bother you, and then recall what I did wrong and what caused you to be angry, and then take you to eat delicious food, and then communicate with you well." ”
Coming to "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", Wu Tong is looking forward to meeting a girl who resonates with him and talking about a simple and pure love, "I think a healthy love relationship should learn from each other and make progress from each other, I don't reject sister and brother love, age is not a problem, what is more important is whether two people get along." The female guest Zhang Binqian insisted on leaving the lamp for the end, "I am a fellow countryman with the male guest, and more importantly, many points about him move me very much." He is a good cook, and I wish a boy could cook for me. And then he has his own band, which is cool! And he's sunny and cheerful, which is exactly the type I like. The three teachers matched, "The two of them are dressed too well today, they are fellow villagers, their age is appropriate, and the nature of their work is also the same!"
The essential attribute of growth is to respect and love someone in the right way
From Urumqi to Shanghai, the male guest from Xinjiang, Mu Lizati, flew 3,500 kilometers to find himself, "Boys still have to go out more, to know the world is also a process of knowing themselves and growing up." "It's my daily routine to do what I have an idea, and I'll set off at three o'clock in the morning because I see a beautiful view; I have a movie plan in my head, and I will watch a hundred movies in 30 days; if I have a good impression of my friends, I will express it immediately." ”
Emotionally, Mulizati believes that loving and being loved have their own ways of existence, "My love is the process of expressing love in a variety of ways, when I encounter a crazy and passionate relationship, we have to stick together almost every day, no matter when I want to deepen our love for each other by kissing each other, and when my lover is restrained and low-key, I will hope to express my care and love in a funny way, when I sit on the subway with a half-human tall strawberry bear, I will happily think of a hidden poem for her to guess." On the plane where I was parting from each other, I hoped she could relieve her sadness and boredom by finding the toffees I had hidden in my backpack pockets. However, I also had a crisis because of her bold expression, when she was troubled by her ex's phone call and didn't know how to refuse, I called her ex to express her attitude, but she felt that it was completely unnecessary, and the different expressions often caused us to disagree, and finally came to a breakup. ”
Chen Ming said: "The experience of the male guest tells us to pay attention to the sense of boundary in the relationship between lovers, men will have a kind of illusion when they are young, that is, the word 'of' of my girlfriend, he feels that it is a kind of sovereignty, but an essential attribute of growth is respect." How she and her ex-boyfriend handle the relationship is within the boundaries of her personal ownership, and when you look at her at the same level, respect her, and trust her to handle it, that attitude will make people feel more warm. Love will have an illusion, that is, when forming an intimate relationship, there will be a sense of belonging, possessiveness, how to deal with this original possessiveness? to use reason to overcome it, and then use growth to smooth it out. Meng Fei and Huang Lan also suggested: When you fall in love, you should communicate clearly with each other's appropriate expressions, find the way you agree, and when you love in the way that the other party likes and needs, you will get along more and more harmoniously.
Coming to "Do Not Disturb If You Are Honest", Mu Li Zati looks forward to meeting the other half who is sincere enough, and the two people are in love with each other, happy together, and create an interesting and warm life together. Female guests Yu Chenxin and He Lu insisted on leaving the light for the end, who will he choose to hold hands with in the end? Tonight (May 4) at 20:30, please look forward to Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Zhen Thick Milk, Do Not Disturb".