It is often said that sometimes, not being born is also a kind of kindness. It's not that the poor are not allowed to have children, but I hope that they will have fewer children, spend their limited money on one child and focus on training, so that they can have more time to earn money.
But these people can't listen to persuasion, they have their own set of logic, thinking that raising children can be left alone, they can grow up by themselves, have more children, and there will always be one who can become a talent, then their family can turn over.
You can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, it is not the environment that is poor, but their heart. If your mind doesn't change, nothing can change.
In a certain family, the husband lies in bed and plays with his mobile phone every day, and the wife comes home from work and sees 5 children rolling on the floor, the house is in a mess, and she almost collapses.
From the picture, you can see that a middle-aged man is lying unkempt in the bed, holding his mobile phone and swiping the screen by himself, indifferent to the environment.
The room was very messy, the floor, the bed, the wall, everywhere was dirty, the paint on the wall peeled off to reveal the color of cement, he was lying in the bed, quite content.
Just when he was only playing with his mobile phone, the five children in the family were rolling all over the floor. The children were all dressed in dirty clothes, their faces and hands were black, the eldest was only five or six years old, and the two younger ones could not walk.
My wife was busy in the factory for a long day, and when she came home from work, she was about to collapse when she saw such a scene in her room.
She went out early in the morning, came home very late, had no time to take care of the children, her husband didn't do any housework at home, making a mess in the house, she still had to clean up, where could she stand it?
Then the wife began to count down her husband, saying that he was a big man, he didn't go to work to make money, and he lay in the bed every day and played with his mobile phone, and he didn't know that he was in a hurry!
The husband thinks that it is enough to have food, drink and a place to live, and not to covet too much. But if we have to raise so many children and don't have to work, what kind of good life can we live? The income from farming is to provide food and clothing, and if you want to eat and dress well, you can't have enough food.
Since the husband does not go to work, the wife has to go to work. Other people's families are all men who go out to earn money, but their family is reversed, the husband is happy and does not feel ashamed, and it is useless for the wife to say anything.
It's okay to just earn money, if the husband can clean up the housework at home, but he doesn't do anything, he comes home after a busy day, and he has to cook and take care of the children, and the house is messy, and he really doesn't have the strength to clean up.
The wife filmed this scene and posted it on the Internet, asking the opinions of the majority of netizens and what they should do, which immediately aroused heated discussions among netizens.
Some netizens commented that I don't dare to die now, for fear of being reincarnated in such a family.
Some netizens commented that since the family is so poor, why do you give birth to so much?
Some netizens also commented that I also have five children, but all five children are well taken care of.
The husband lies in the bed every day and plays with his mobile phone, unwilling to go out to earn money, so the wife has to go out to work by herself, and when she comes home after a busy day, she finds that the house is in a mess, and the children are rolling around the house and almost collapse.
Their family's economic conditions are not good, her husband is not self-motivated, and life is so difficult, but one child after another is born, how can life be good?
The wife doesn't want to be too tired, so she doesn't want to continue to have children, and she can raise the current children well.