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Dating back to August 18, 2022, in a delicate and chic nest in an apartment building in the bustling capital Beijing, Qiu Yue hugged a precious posthumous photo on her chest with affection, and her tearful eyes stared closely at the familiar and friendly face in the photo - it was her deceased husband Xie Yuan.
The photo recorded his gentle jade-like appearance and elegant and intelligent temperament in the most beautiful and moving way, which was deeply imprinted in Qiu Yue's heart.
Qiu Yue gently rubbed the photo, tears silently sliding down her thin cheeks. "My dear, why do you want to be so cruel to leave me alone to face the world?" she choked, her heart filled with endless pain and longing.
In those good years, she and Xie Yuan were extremely affectionate, and they spent countless springs, summers, autumns and winters together, but now, she can only rely on this photo to remember the past and express her sorrows.
Qiu Yue's memories flashed in his mind like a movie picture, and the bits and pieces of acquaintance and love with Xie Yuan were like warm sunshine sprinkled in his heart. It was a sunny day in 1996, on the set of the movie "Love You Is Not Negotiable", and they finally met again after a lot of hardships.
Recalling those youthful years, Qiu Yue had a secret affection for Xie Yuan. As a young woman, she admired Xie Yuan, and in an interview, she plucked up the courage to express her heart to the esteemed mentor, but Xie Yuan politely declined.
Xie Yuan refused with a sincere attitude: "I am already married and have a family, and there is a 17-year age gap between us, and the relationship between us is really not suitable." ”
Although Qiu Yue's heart was full of sadness after suffering rejection, her beautiful and refined appearance deeply touched Xie Yuan. Despite his initial reservations, Xie Yuan was eventually attracted to Qiu Yue's passionate, sweet and lovely personality.
This emotion was like a warm current, gradually melting the ice in his heart.
So, on the set of "Love You Are Not Negotiable", when Qiu Yue firmly confessed to Xie Yuan again, Xie Yuan finally let go of the worries in his heart and accepted this sincere love with an open heart.
Only 8 months later, after careful preparations, they entered the sacred marriage hall amid the warm congratulations of their relatives and friends. In the days of the newlyweds, they only need to look at each other and smile, and they can feel the happiness and sweetness that they have never had.
However, fate played a trick on them mercilessly. On August 18, 2020, when Xie Yuan, whose career was in full swing, was busy filming the TV series "Holiday Warmth" in Wanning City, Hainan Province, due to the physical exhaustion caused by high-intensity work for many days, he suddenly fell ill on the set, foamed at the mouth, and then collapsed to the ground.
Seeing this, the staff immediately rushed him to the hospital for treatment, however, sadly, despite the best efforts of the doctors, Xie Yuan still left this world forever at 5:18 p.m. that day, at the age of 61.
This sudden blow, like a roar of thunder in the clear sky, hammered Qiu Yue's heart, making her feel as if she was in a dark abyss, and the world lost all color in an instant.
The sight of laughter and laughter in the past suddenly turned into devastation, and the heart-rending pain pierced her chest like a sharp sword, making her almost unable to breathe.
Her boat of life lost course in an instant, crying day and night, physically and mentally exhausted to the point of collapse. Relatives and friends were heartbroken and heartbroken, and they all reached out to help, comforting and encouraging, hoping that she could regain the courage and hope in life.
In order to comply with Xie Yuan's last wishes, Qiu Yue did not hold any form of memorial service or grand farewell ceremony for him, but only held a simple and solemn farewell ceremony for him at home.
Friends and relatives came to pay their respects and say their final goodbyes to this dear friend.
Liang Tian, Ge You, Zhang Fengyi and other old friends of Xie Yuan were all in tears and grief-stricken. They were all filled with emotion and deeply regretted that this outstanding figure in the theater world had left us in this way, leaving behind only endless artistic wealth.
Looking back on Xie Yuan's youth, he was a high-profile "bane" in the countryside, and he did all kinds of evil. He either climbed trees to make trouble, demolished the roof of the house, and even led a group of neighborhood children to cause trouble.
In order to make this naughty grandson change his bad habits and become more well-behaved and sensible, grandma can be said to have worked hard.
"If you don't obey again, I'm going to send you back to your mother!" these are the words that Grandma used to threaten Xie Yuan back then. However, Grandma's intimidation did not have the desired effect, but instead inspired Xie Yuan's rebellious character.
In the face of Xie Yuan's own way, grandma could only take strong measures and teach this "bear child" a lesson in person. Due to the punishment of Xie Yuan for a long time, the slippers in Grandma's hands were changed one pair after another, and the soles of the shoes were worn out by her with countless holes.
This frightening hit made the young Xie Yuan feel a little afraid in his heart, but on the surface, he was still the same, and kept promising that "I will correct it", but once he walked out of the house, he immediately returned to his former naughty nature.
However, it was this naughty spirit that eventually created Xie Yuan's brilliant life in the future. In the college entrance examination in 1978, Xie Yuan barely passed with a score of 190 points, and there is still a long way to go from the Peking University of his dreams.
When he was once deeply lost, fortunately, the selfless dedication of his friends led him to embark on a new artistic path - relying on his outstanding imitation acting talent to throw himself into the arms of Beijing Film Academy.
Prior to this, Xie Yuan lacked confidence in himself, and had always modestly assumed that he was ordinary-looking and not talented, fearing that the academy would not appreciate his talent. However, under the pressure of the cruel reality, he had to abandon his inherent pride and resolutely embark on a difficult challenge.
As expected, on the stage of the interview, Xie Yuan deeply touched the hearts of the judges with his superb imitation performance skills, successfully won the favor of Beijing Film Academy, and got acquainted with well-known movie stars such as Zhang Tielin and Zhang Fengyi, and started his brilliant acting career.
However, as soon as he stepped into the door of Beijing Film Academy, Xie Yuan faced many difficulties. Because of his ordinary appearance and mediocre talent, many teachers did not have high hopes for him, and only assigned him some inconsequential small roles during the rehearsal process.
The tremendous stress caused Xie Yuan to suffer from severe insomnia and massive hair loss. Whenever he saw the teachers handing over the responsibility of the protagonist to other students, his self-esteem took a heavy blow, and the doubts and anxieties in his heart grew like weeds.
Just when Xie Yuan was desperate for the future, an experienced teacher reached out at the right time to stabilize his psychological defense line that was about to collapse. That day, Xie Yuan was anxious and uneasy, and mustered up the courage to take the initiative to find the teacher and confide in him about the various difficulties and helplessness he was currently facing.
With his broad mind, the teacher patiently listened to Xie Yuan's heart, and then pointed out the way forward for him in eight short and powerful words - "There are no small roles, only small actors".
These simple and unpretentious words shook Xie Yuan's heart like a hammer, and made him suddenly realize that as an actor, the role should be the most critical element, and personal preferences should be put second.
Since then, Xie Yuan's concept of life has undergone a seismic change.
No matter what kind of role, he can perform with professionalism and rigor, and irrigate every performance with hard sweat. Looking at his hard work, the teachers' evaluation of him has also undergone a 180-degree reversal, and they have given him affirmation and praise.
In 1982, after several years, Xie Yuan was finally awarded the honor of graduating from Beijing Film Academy and stayed in the school to teach. Just two years later, he tied the knot with the love of his heart, Xiaolin, and has lived a loving and happy life ever since.
Xie Yuan originally thought that his life's great cause had been entrusted, and he just wanted to enjoy the rest of his life with peace of mind. Unexpectedly, the world is unpredictable, and a sudden hammer in life almost smashed him into a daze.
In order to reach a higher level in his career, Xie Yuan often needs to leave his hometown and drift away from the beautiful woman because of filming. Until one day, when Xiaolin was pregnant, the contradiction between the two became more and more acute, and his wife couldn't help herself, so she made the decision to have an abortion without authorization, which undoubtedly dealt a fatal blow to Xie Yuan.
As a result, the couple's relationship broke down, and their seven-year marriage came to an end. The love story of Xie Yuan and his first wife Xiaolin can be described as a typical case of breaking up from happy enemies.
At first, they were a campus couple at the Beijing Film Academy. In 1984, after more than two years of passionate love, they finally entered the palace of marriage. On the occasion of the newlyweds, they only need to gaze at each other to feel endless happiness and sweetness.
However, good times are always short-lived. The pressure of his career made Xie Yuan have to travel for a long time, and the couple's lives gradually became estranged. In order to alleviate the financial pressure, they had to live together with the help of their mother-in-law's family.
Cracks began to appear in the originally warm and harmonious family. Whenever Xie Yuan returned home exhausted, he would always hear the sound of his mother-in-law arguing with her neighbors at the door.
It turned out that the neighbors privately accused Xie Yuan of being a person who "eats soft rice", which made the mother-in-law deeply resentful.
Xie Yuan felt deeply guilty in his heart, realizing that it was precisely because of himself that he had put the kind old man in such a predicament. He desperately wants to earn enough money to buy a property for his family and provide a stable place to live.
Finally, with his outstanding performance in several films, he has won a handsome reward, and he can finally straighten his waist and no longer be despised by others.
However, just as the dawn of happiness illuminates the way forward, a disaster quietly struck. During her pregnancy, his wife made the decision to have an abortion without authorization, which dealt Xie Yuan a heavy blow.
"Why do you act like this, who gave you such power?" Xie Yuan asked angrily at that time.
Surprisingly, this woman turned out to be an experienced midwife! Over the years, she had witnessed countless mothers struggling during childbirth, which made her fearful of pregnancy and childbirth.
Coupled with the shift of her career center, her confidence in life is fading day by day.
It is precisely for these reasons that the relationship between the once sweet and loving couple has declined rapidly after this storm, and the emotional rift is gradually deepening. Finally, at that difficult moment in 1991, the wife officially filed a divorce request for divorce from her husband Xie Yuan.
Although Xie Yuan tried his best to try to save this marriage, his wife's attitude was as resolute as iron, and he could only reluctantly accept this cruel reality. The seven-year marriage road came to an end in silence.