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Xie Yuan, together with Ge You and Liang Tian, is called the "Comedy Three Musketeers", and among the three musketeers, Xie Yuan is the most popular among girls.
Xie Yuan once broke the news in a show that Liang Tian and Ge You would not talk to girls. Every time they talk to girls, they either ask about the girl's age or the girl's salary.
Only Xie Yuan, when chatting with girls, completely avoided these two sensitive topics.
Although Xie Yuan is the most popular among the three musketeers, Xie Yuan's love road is not smooth.
Before sharing a whitehead with his current wife, Qiu Yue, Xie Yuan also had an ex-wife.
Xie Yuan and his ex-wife were married for many years, and finally separated peacefully due to the weakening of their feelings.
Xie Yuan met Qiu Yue after separating from his ex-wife, and after that, he and Qiu Yue began a happy and happy life.
It was only Xie Yuan's sudden departure that made Qiu Yue sad.
Now that Xie Yuan has been dead for 2 years, how is Qiu Yue living?
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Xie Yuan was born in Beijing in 1959, and his childhood lacked parental love.
His father died when he was 2 years old and his mother remarried.
After that, Xie Yuan lived with his grandmother and grandfather.
Xie Yuan was very naughty when he was a child, he not only dug traps for the teacher and took the lead in "pitting" his classmates, but also threw a whip during the New Year and "collapsed" the old man's head.
Because he was too naughty, at that time, Xie Yuan was often beaten by his grandfather.
Grandpa likes to beat people with shoes, and every time Xie Yuan commits a crime, Grandpa will hit Xie Yuan's head hard with his shoes.
Grandpa did not allow Xie Yuan to cry when he beat Xie Yuan, and the more Xie Yuan cried, the harder Grandpa beat him.
Slowly, Xie Yuan developed the habit of never crying when beaten.
Although Grandma and Grandpa disciplined Xie Yuan very strictly, Xie Yuan was still very skinny.
During his studies, Xie Yuan spent half of his time playing pranks and half of his time chasing beautiful girls.
Xie Yuan opened his mind relatively early, and when he was in the sixth grade, he knew which class of girls was the best looking.
Xie Yuan also invited a beautiful girl to come to his boat while rowing, but was reluctantly refused.
At that time, the beautiful girl proudly said to him, "Why are you on your boat?" Scram! ”
Xie Yuan once chased a girl after the first opening, when Xie Yuan bought a book for "more than 1 yuan" to give to the girl.
But the helpless girl only accepted the book, not Xie Yuan.
After being rejected by the girl, Xie Yuan could not eat grapes and said that the grapes were sour, and complained that the beautiful girls had low IQ.
Xie Yuan fell in love with a beautiful girl when he was 15 years old, but at that time, Xie Yuan only dared to have a crush and did not dare to pursue.
When Xie Yuan finally plucked up the courage to prepare for the pursuit, the beautiful girl moved again.
Xie Yuan and the pretty girl missed it.
Xie Yuan was not too sad after missing the beautiful girl, at that time, Xie Yuan was preparing for the Beijing Film Academy.
Xie Yuan originally planned to enter Peking University, but his 190-point score shattered his Peking University dream.
Later, at the suggestion of a teacher, Xie Yuan began to try nortel.
Xie Yuan easily passed the Nortel preliminary test, but when the retest came, Xie Yuan took a lot of effort.
At that time, the examiner asked the candidates to perform "intellectuals steal watermelons".
Xie Yuan's performance is average, and he is very unselected among the candidates.
Because he was worried about being passed, Xie Yuan was in a hurry and added a unique performance in the examination room, he imitated the speech of the city leader and made the examiner laugh.
Xie Yuan's unique skills allowed him to successfully pass the re-examination, and he entered nortel's campus in 1978.
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Xie Yuan was still very skinny after being admitted to Nortel, and he often played pranks to tease his classmates.
If it is a classmate with a gentle personality, naturally, Xie Yuan will not be cleaned up. But unfortunately, Xie Yuan kicked the iron plate, and he tricked Zhang Fengyi.
Once, Zhang Fengyi strained his left leg because he did not prepare for the exercise.
When Xie Yuan learned about it, he began to spread rumors about Zhang Fengyi, saying that Zhang Fengyi had a strain on his left leg because he was distracted from peeking at beautiful women during the exercise.
Zhang Fengyi was blown up after learning about it, and he chased Xie Yuan in Nortel.
Because Xie Yuan was "suppressed" by Zhang Fengyi with force, he was very "afraid" of Zhang Fengyi.
Therefore, when he was chased and beaten by Zhang Fengyi later, Xie Yuan "jumped off the building" in fear.
Xie Yuan had a crush on five or six girls such as Fang Shu and Shen Danping when he was in college, but unfortunately, these five or six girls did not like him.
Although he could not catch up with his college classmates, later, with the opportunity, Xie Yuan chased after his high school teacher's daughter, Xiaolin (pseudonym).
In 1979, Xie Yuan's high school teacher approached Xie Yuan and asked him to tutor his daughter Xiaolin and help her successfully enter Nortel. Xie Yuan attached great importance to the teacher's request, and he tried his best to guide Xiao Lin to study.
With the guidance of Nortel's senior, Xiaolin's possibility of being admitted to Nortel has become greater.
Unfortunately, the overall strength of the current candidates is very strong, and Xiaolin finally fell off the list.
Although Xiaolin failed to be admitted to Nortel, she did not get nothing, she gained a boyfriend.
It turned out that when Xie Yuan tutored Xiao Lin to study, the two secretly had a relationship with each other for a long time.
Therefore, Xiaolin's trip to Nortel is not a loss, although she was not admitted to Nortel, but she has a boyfriend who studied at Nortel.
Xie Yuan not only studied at Nortel, he also stayed on to teach at the time of graduation.
In 1982, Xie Yuan was already a senior. This year, the school has a place to stay in school.
At that time, like Xie Yuan, the students who were ready to stay in the school to teach were Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Tielin.
Among these three people, the teacher resolutely chose Xie Yuan.
There are three reasons why the teacher chose Xie Yuan to stay in the school to teach.
The first reason is that Xie Yuan is simple, the second reason is that Xie Yuan is loyal to Nortel, and the third reason is that Xie Yuan's understanding of movies is deeper than Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Tielin's understanding of movies.
At that time, during the campaign, the teacher asked the three people the question of why humans invented movies?
The first time he heard this question, Xie Yuan raised his hand to apply for an answer, but the teacher rejected him.
The teacher said to Xie Yuan, "I know you know, don't say it first, listen to Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Tielin's answers." ”
Although the teacher gave Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Tielin the opportunity, the two did not seize the opportunity, and they did not know the answer to this question.
So there was no way, they had to watch Xie Yuan play.
Xie Yuan's answer was very correct, and the teacher nodded his head after listening to it, so there was no accident, and Xie Yuan successfully stayed in school to teach.
After Xie Yuan's identity transitioned from a student to a teacher, he also married his beloved girl back home.
In 1984, Xie Yuan and Xiaolin entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, Xie Yuan and Xiaolin spent a short period of happiness.
But with the increase in life chores, and Xie Yuan spends more and more time at work.
Slowly, contradictions and quarrels began to appear in their lives.
By 1989, the relationship had fallen to a freezing point.
Seeing that life really could not restore the sweetness of that year, Xie Yuan and Xiaolin chose to divorce.
When Xie Yuan and Xiao Lin divorced, there were also rumors that "the reason why the relationship between the two broke down in addition to the above factors was because Xiao Lin had beaten up the children of Xie Yuan." ”
It turned out that Xiao Lin had once conceived a child, but because Xie Yuan was busy with work, Xiao Lin did not want to raise a child alone, so Xiao Lin beat the fetus without consulting Xie Yuan.
Xie Yuan knew that Lin had blown up after hitting the tire, and he did not understand Xiao Lin's approach, and he had always been grumpy about Xiao Lin's approach.
Because of the abortion, the relationship between Xie Yuan and Xiao Lin became cold.
03
Xie Yuan and Xiao Lin were single for a long time after their divorce, and during this period, Xie Yuan met Qiu Yue.
In 1993, Qiu Yue was admitted to nortel's choreography and directing major.
When she was studying at Nortel, Qiu Yue liked to run to Xie Yuan's class to listen to lessons, because Qiu Yue frequently went to Xie Yuan's class to listen to lectures, and slowly, Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue became familiar with each other.
Later, when Xie Yuan filmed "Love Fool", he also brought Qiu Yue to participate in the shooting.
At that time, although Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue were acquainted, they stopped at the friendship relationship.
The reason was that Qiu Yue was only 17 years old at that time, and he was still an adult, and Xie Yuan had always treated Qiu Yue as a child.
When Xie Yuan treated Qiu Yue as an adult, it was already 1996.
This year, Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue reunited in the "Love You No Discussion" crew.
After the reunion, Qiu Yue often chatted with Xie Yuan.
Once, Xie Yuan asked Qiu Yue: "Is the moon nearly 2.15 centimeters from the earth every year?" Is it far 2.15 cm? This question made Qiu Yue difficult, and when Xie Yuan said the answer that "every year the moon is 2.15 centimeters away from the earth", Qiu Yue sincerely admired Xie Yuan's full knowledge.
It was also in this conversation that the two became more and more acquainted and eventually naturally got together.
After becoming a couple, Qiu Yue became a trickster who loved to tease Xie Yuan, but xie Yuan, who used to love mischief, grew a lot.
At that time, Qiu Yue often "dug a pit" for Xie Yuan, using some pitting tricks that everyone knew to pit Xie Yuan.
Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue fell in love for several years, and then entered the palace of marriage in 1998.
After marriage, Xie Yuan filmed outside to earn money to support his family, and Qiu Yue faded out of the entertainment circle to take care of the family.
After Qiu Yue returned to the family, Xie Yuan handed over most of his salary to her.
Xie Yuan paid his salary for a reason.
It turned out that the reason why Qiu Yue faded out of the entertainment circle was at the request of Xie Yuan. Therefore, Xie Yuan put Qiu Yue in charge of the financial power of the butler.
Xie Yuan not only handed over most of his salary to Qiu Yue, but also wrote Qiu Yue's name on the property deed.
Xie Yuan expressed with actions that everything he had was Qiu Yue's.
04
Xie Yuan was very good to Qiu Yue after marriage, and in order to provide Qiu Yue with a favorable living environment, Xie Yuan took on a lot of drama during that time. In the process of filming, there was also an oolong incident between Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue.
One day, Xie Yuan returned home after filming. Because he was too tired, Xie Yuan fell into bed and slept.
But who could have imagined that Qiu Yue would suddenly wake up Xie Yuan and ask him something.
At that time, Xie Yuan was very sleepy, and he perfunctorily said to Qiu Yue: "Tomorrow I will talk about it, and I will sleep first today." ”
Qiu Yue didn't listen to him at all, but Qiu Yue still woke up Xie Yuan, and then began to force him to ask: "Why did you come back so late during this time, did you do something outside?" ”
Qiu Yue's persecution made Xie Yuan cry and laugh, where could Xie Yuan think that Qiu Yue would doubt himself because he came back late.
In order to go to bed early, Xie Yuan had to sigh and explain: "What do you want?" I came back late because the co-actors couldn't get into the scene. I can't shoot it myself and leave! I had to wait for the co-actors to finish filming together before I could go home. ”
After Xie Yuan finished explaining, he also knew that his wife wanted to go home early.
So after that, Xie Yuan went home after filming and tried to free up more time to accompany his wife.
In 2008, Qiu Yue was 32 years old, and Xie Yuan was already 49 years old.
It is rumored that this year, Qiu Yue began to prepare for pregnancy.
Qiu Yue plans to give birth to a baby for Xie Yuan before she turns 50, but her pregnancy preparation is unsuccessful.
Because she could not get pregnant for a long time, Qiu Yue was under great pressure.
After Xie Yuan learned about it, he comforted Qiu Yue: "Our life is already very good now, and it doesn't matter if we don't have children." ”
Xie Yuan's words successfully relieved Qiu Yue, and after that, Qiu Yue no longer struggled with the matter of not being able to have a child.
Later, a host interviewed Xie Yuan and asked him why he did not want to have children and did not want to continue his smart genes. At that time, Xie Yuan's answer was: "Success does not have to be in me, and one more child does not have to be in me." ”
After Xie Yuan answered, the host asked one after another: "If you don't have children, who will give you a pension in the future?" ”
Xie Yuan was very dissatisfied with the host's question, and he emphasized: "People! To be alive is to be alive, to be dead is to die, it's as simple as that, there's no need to worry too much. Besides, why bother with someone to take care of you? There is no one to take care of me, and I can take care of myself. ”
Xie Yuan is a person who wants to be open, in his opinion, as long as he is with the person he loves, it is fine, there is no need to dwell on some irrelevant things.
What people did not expect was that on August 18, 2020, Xie Yuan died forever due to a sudden heart attack, at the age of 61.
Before Xie Yuan died, he asked Qiu Yue not to set up a spiritual hall for him and not to hold a farewell ceremony for his body.
Qiu Yue obeyed Xie Yuan's instructions and handled Xie Yuan's funeral in a low-key manner.
After Xie Yuan's death, Qiu Yue was very sad. Whenever she saw Xie Yuan's photos, Qiu Yue couldn't help but cry.
According to legend, at that time, many friends advised Qiu Yue to remarry, but Qiu Yue insisted on living alone.
When asked by a friend what to do if she did not remarry and no one would provide for her, Qiu Yue was still very rational: "Then I will go to the nursing home."
The reason why Qiu Yue did not remarry was simple, she could not forget Xie Yuan. Even though Xie Yuan has been away from her for 2 years, she still remembers Xie Yuan and loves Xie Yuan.
Every time xie yuan festival day, Qiu Yue would go to the tomb to accompany him.
Sometimes I miss Xie Yuan too much, and Qiu Yue will also find out the film and television dramas filmed by Xie Yuan to see.
In the two years since Xie Yuan left, Qiu Yue has not changed the layout of her home, and everything is like Xie Yuan has not died.
Sometimes, Qiu Yue would say to himself sadly: "You once said, let me be strong, I did it, but I regret it, I regret not having a child for you." ”
Not leaving Xie Yuan a son and a half daughter became the biggest regret in Qiu Yue's heart.
Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue's love is touching, the two fell in love because of their fate, and they loved each other for 22 years.
Now that the Si people have passed away, Qiu Yue's infatuation makes people cry.
I hope that Qiu Yue will be healthy and happy in the future, and this must be what Xie Yuan wants to see.