In 2010, more than half a hundred years old, xie yuan, who had no children and no daughters, participated in the interview program "The Best Scene", which talked about the topic of "not having children", and the host asked Xie Yuan: "Have you not thought about the pension?" ”
Xie Yuan put his hands together and said in a dashing manner, "I think that when people are alive, they are alive, and when they are dead, they are dead." "It's that simple, there aren't so many concerns.
Unexpectedly, in 2020, Xie Yuan became a slur and passed away due to illness. Xie Yuan, who died at the age of 61, did not encounter the problem of "raising children and preventing aging".
Now that he has been dead for more than a year, his wife Qiu Yue, who is 17 years younger, has no children and no daughters. Do you regret not having children with Xie Yuan?
In 1959, Xie Yuan was born in the capital Beijing, because his parents were intellectuals, so Xie Yuan had a cheerful personality and profound knowledge from an early age.
When he was 19 years old, Xie Yuan graduated from high school, and a teacher thought that his desire for performance was particularly strong and that he was very suitable for studying acting, so he led him to the Beijing Film Academy.
Zhang Tielin, Zhang Fengyi and others are xie yuan's classmates.
Xie Yuan in the first row (2 from left), Zhang Fengyi in the fourth row (4 from left), zhang Tielin in the fourth row (2 from right).
In 1983, when they were about to graduate, the school had a place to stay in school to teach, and Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Tielin both wanted to get this place.
In the interview session, Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Tielin were too introverted, and Xie Yuan relied on a three-inch tongue to make the interviewer lean forward and backward, and in the end, eleven teachers unanimously passed Xie Yuan to stay in school to teach.
At that time, Qiu Yue, who was far away in Ganzhou, Jiangxi, was just 7 years old, and she had just planted a dream of acting in her heart, and was shuttling through major cram schools, which also laid the foundation for her and Xie Yuan's acquaintance.
In 1984, Xie Yuan officially became a teacher at the Beijing Film Academy, his teaching style has always been strict, every day will stand in front of the teaching building, as long as the class bell rings at eight o'clock, no one can go in, so the students gave him a title of "spicy teacher".
Nowadays, many big names in the circle are Xie Yuan's students, actors Yu Nan, Zuo Xiaoqing, Sun Li, etc., don't look at Xie Yuan's big grin, very funny, students are afraid and respectful of him, especially after these people became famous.
Zeng asked him: "Why are these students who are more famous than you afraid of you?" Very nervous after seeing you? ”
Xie Yuan smiled:
"The audience treats them like gods and goddesses, but in my case, they are always students, and I know all their things, making mistakes and jokes, wearing slippers and sloppy looks, I remember it." 」
Xie Yuan's students are not only the biggest names today, but also his first wife.
Remember the teacher who took Xie Yuan to Nortel?
In 1979, the teacher's daughter was preparing to enter the film school, and thought of Xie Yuan, so she asked Xie Yuan to help her daughter with her homework, and the result was that the girl was lively and beautiful, full of youthful atmosphere, and Xie Yuan gradually developed a good feeling for her.
Unfortunately, in the end, the girl did not succeed in entering the film school, but was assigned to Beijing Friendship Hospital as a midwifery nurse.
He did not become brothers with the same disciple, but the two became lovers, and his girlfriend would often go to the film school to help Xie Yuan clean up his room and take care of his life. In that era, young people were married very early, and Xie Yuan married his girlfriend as soon as he graduated.
After marriage, the unit did not give Xie Yuan a house, he could only live with his wife in his father-in-law's house, and his parents-in-law treated him as his own son.
In order to give his wife a better life, Xie Yuan taught classes at Nortel while acting and doing some part-time work.
In 1984, with the role of the "old pole" in the movie "Child King", Xie Yuan opened up his fame in the film and television circle, and there was an endless stream of directors who came to him to act.
Xie Yuan also left the audience with many classic roles such as Wang Shengsheng in "The King of Chess"; Ding Jian in "The Great Gasp", and he won the Best Actor Award of the Chinese film "Golden Rooster Award" with his wonderful acting skills.
Xie Yuan became a movie emperor, but he did not become arrogant, he should go to class, he should go home, but then an unpredictable thing happened that changed the trajectory of his life.
In 1986, his wife became pregnant, but Xie Yuan was filming in Guilin at the time.
Because Xie Yuan's wife is a midwifery nurse, she witnesses the birth of a new life every day and looks at the suffering her mother experiences during childbirth, so Xie Yuan's wife has a little fear of having a child.
When she found out that she was pregnant, she did not tell Xie Yuan at the first time, and after careful consideration, she secretly went to the hospital for induction surgery.
I thought that this matter was sneaky and hidden, but I didn't expect that she had just returned home from the hospital, and Xie Yuan had also returned.
Xie Yuan's mood was at the bottom of the sky, and because of this incident, there was a gap between the two people's psychology.
With the first estrangement, there will be a second and a third, because Xie Yuan has been filming outside for a long time, the two have gathered less and more, there are too many trivial things in life, the contradictions are accumulating more and more, and the married life is not as good as imagined.
In 1992, Xie Yuan and his wife divorced peacefully, and he moved away from his father-in-law's house and returned to nortel staff dormitories.
Before Xie Yuan, who was single again, had time to grieve, 17-year-old Qiu Yue was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.
Qiu Yue's college entrance examination score is enough for the score line of the acting department, so she was admitted to the choreography major. But she is still fascinated by the profession of an actor, and in her spare time, she will always go to the acting class to rub the class, coincidentally, she rubbed the class of Xie Yuan.
The two became familiar, but the first time they really talked was in 1996.
This year, Xie Yuan received an invitation to the TV series "Love You Is Not Negotiable", and after coming to the crew, he saw a familiar figure, that person was Qiu Yue.
Qiu Yue has a cheerful and generous personality, and after seeing Xie Yuan, he took the initiative to ask him for leave, and after a long time, the two of them had an inexplicable good feeling in their hearts.
Xie Yuan is 17 years older than Qiu Yue, which has also become a major advantage of his "sister", and he often tells Qiu Yue some things that little girls don't know.
Xie Yuan would ask her: "Every year, the moon is close to the earth by 2.15 centimeters, or is it 2.15 centimeters farther away?" ”
Qiu Yue shook her head, looking at her ignited curiosity, Xie Yuan threw out the answer: "It is 2.15 centimeters far away." ”
It was this one question that made Qiu Yue solemnly respect him, and he did not expect that Xie Yuan usually grinned and was stunned, but his heart was so noble and noble, and he learned to be rich in five cars.
Relying on one small story after another, Xie Yuan chased Qiu Yue into his hand, and the two naturally established a relationship.
At that time, Xie Yuan asked Qiu Yue: "I am 17 years older than you, and I have divorced, do you really not mind?" ”
Qiu Yue said firmly: "What I love is your personality, your talent, and the rest is not important." ”
Indeed, it can be seen that Qiu Yue is infatuated and adored by Xie Yuan, she likes to lie on Xie Yuan's shoulder and listen to him tell stories that she does not know, and he also likes to listen to Xie Yuan's serious stories.
Before knowing Qiu Yue, Xie Yuan, Ge You, and Liang Tian were affectionately known as the "Three Musketeers of Comedy" by the audience, and had a pivotal position in the film and television circle.
With the help of Xie Yuan, Qiu Yue's career also began to improve. She has been featured in many TV series such as "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo", "Swallow Li San", "Journey to the West Sequel" and so on.
When filming "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo", Qiu Yue and Deng Jie played together, Deng Jie is an old friend of Xie Yuan, and naturally will take more care of this little brother and sister, not only guiding her to shoot, but also giving advice to her emotional life.
In 1998, Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue's career and feelings were carried out steadily, and this year, Qiu Yue took Xie Yuan back to his hometown in Jiangxi to visit his parents.
Originally, Qiu Yue was still worried that her parents would oppose, after all, Xie Yuan's age was similar to her father's, and she did not want to enter the door, Xie Yuan relied on being able to speak the Tao, and in just a few words, she resolved the embarrassment and made the old two mouths close.
In this way, in August of the same year, the two officially entered the marriage hall. After marriage, the husband and wife make progress together, love each other, fly with wings, and are a rare "model couple" in the circle.
However, the only regret is that the two have no children under their knees.
Since they are model couples, why do they have no children, and what is so difficult to say?
In the year of marriage, Xie Yuan was already 42 years old, and after marriage, he and Qiu Yue discussed the topic of having children, but Qiu Yue refused Xie Yuan's proposal because he was still young and his career was in the development period.
Xie Yuan also expressed understanding for his wife's choice, but his heart was still a little lost.
At a dinner table with Ge You, Xie Yuan talked about it.
Ge You is an unswerving Dink family in the circle, and he understands Xie Yuan's affection for him, and Xie Yuan gradually looks at this matter.
In 2006, Qiu Yue was 30 years old, with a small career success, and it was time to consider the problem of having children.
Xie Yuan saw that his wife wanted to open, and the two began to prepare for pregnancy, but after more than a year of pregnancy preparation, Qiu Yue has not been able to get pregnant.
Life is like this, the more you desire something, the more you can't complete it.
After a long time, the couple accepted the reality and became a Dink family.
When they first announced the news to the family, the parents could not understand it for a while, but they did not urge them again.
Xie Yuan once said that he was still a sister and brother, and they would fulfill their parents' wishes to pass on the generations, and it was enough for them to live a life in a dashing manner.
Some netizens have also questioned the bodies of Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue, and Xie Yuan also responded in person in the interview program "I Love My Home": "It is not that there will be no children, it is that there will be children, the other half is no problem, there is no physical defect." ”
When the host continued to ask: "Then why not have children?" ”
Xie Yuan's solemn response:
As soon as the remarks of loving the "little family" and loving "everyone" came out, no one could say anything to Xie Gardeningk anymore.
Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue lived in this two-person world, simple and happy, however, on August 18, 2020, the full life came to an abrupt end.
That night, Xie Yuan suddenly felt chest tightness and discomfort, and fell on the sofa. Qiu Yue hurriedly hit 120, but the result was still powerless to return to heaven, and Xie Yuan died suddenly at the age of 61.
Xie Yuan's life was frozen in that summer, and the roles he played were still vivid and interesting in the minds of the audience. Before his death, he instructed Qiu Yue that the funeral should be simple, that there would be no spiritual hall or memorial service, which would be like his simple and pure life.
Now that Xie Yuan has been dead for more than a year, how is Qiu Yue living alone?
At the beginning, Qiu Yue would dream of Xie Yuan every day, and when she saw everything in the family, she would think of Xie Yuan's appearance, and when she was bored, no one could make her happy anymore.
Due to excessive sadness, Qiu Yue's mental state is very poor, and Xie Yuan's former friends will take turns to enlighten Qiu Yue and accompany her through that time.
Today, Qiu Yue has slowly come out of her sadness in the company of family and friends, she is only 45 years old this year, and her life is still a long way. Sri Lankans have passed away, and if they have children to accompany them, maybe life will be better.
Maybe Qiu Yue also began to regret not being able to have a child with Xie Yuan, but unfortunately this wish will never come true again. So, Dink needs to be cautious.
I hope that Qiu Yue can bravely face the hardships of life and look forward in order to live a better life. If you cry about missing the sunset, you'll miss the stars too!