Text | Edited by Jiang Li
Nowadays, many young people do not get married easily, and even if they do, there are many who do not want children, because everyone pursues true spiritual freedom.
In the past, if someone had been married for three or five years and had not yet held a child, gossip must have been flying all over the sky. There is such a couple in the entertainment industry, they have been married for 22 years, but they do not have a son and a half daughter.
But no one will point fingers at them, they are also called "model couples", this couple is the actor Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue.
Although Xie Yuan has no children under his knees, he and his wife are also happy. It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, Xie Yuan died of illness as early as four years ago, and many celebrities posted condolences for him.
He did not leave children for his wife, but his wife chose not to marry again for his sake, and was willing to become a widow.
His life is not as glamorous as other actors, but an artist who has come out of misery.
Looking back at Xie Lao's life, I understand what is the real virtue and art.
Teachers all over the world
Xie Yuan's first work that entered the public eye was "New Soldier Ma Qiang", when Xie Yuan was in his senior year at Beiying, and was favored by director Yu Qing and made his first debut.
In the same year, Xie Yuan also made a few works, and then graduated from Beiying.
Whether to continue filming or do something else, in fact, Xie Yuan is also very entangled. Because he knew that his image was at a loss, and he had also been hit by what the teacher said.
In addition, Xie Yuan's family situation is special, his father died early, and his mother married again. Xie Yuan was afraid that he would become a burden, so he rarely asked his family for money, and always carried it by himself.
So after graduating, Xie Yuan chose the most stable job - working as a teacher in a school.
Although Xie Yuan did not have any famous works at that time, his acting skills were already three points. What's even better is his ability to imitate, what he looks like.
Xie Yuan has always been in awe of performances, and his requirements for students are more demanding, so he has earned the nickname of "Spicy Teacher".
However, in private, Xie Yuan often invites guests to dinner, not like a teacher, but more like a friend.
Coincidentally, his brother Liang Tian opened a restaurant, and Xie Yuan often took students to eat "overlord meals" together, and he also brought his own seafood, which made Liang Tian very helpless.
It is precisely because of Xie Yuan's rigorous study that the students he teaches are very good, such as Yu Nan, who starred in "The Story of Tuya", not only won the Golden Rooster Award, but also won more than a dozen international awards.
As we all know, internationally famous big-name actresses include Zhang Ziyi and Gong Li, and although Yu Nan is not as well-known as them, she is also a real international actress.
and Xing Jiadong in "My Leader, My Group", and Zuo Xiaoqing, the national daughter-in-law, are also his students.
For the students he has taught, Xie Yuan said that he is very satisfied.
Similarly, Xie Yuan also used his own strength to prove: even if you don't have a good image, you can become a powerful actor!
The four actors deserve it
After teaching for a few years, Xie Yuan felt that he still liked acting very much, so he started filming again, the so-called debut is the peak, and it is not an exaggeration to describe Xie Yuan.
In 1984, Xie Yuan successively acted in "The Child King", "The King of Chess" and "The Big Pant", the latter two dramas made Xie Yuan win the Golden Rooster Award in one fell swoop.
Whether it is the "old pole" of the educated youth teacher or the life of Qi Idiot Wang, under Xie Yuan's portrayal, the character can really enter the hearts of the audience, and every character has Xie Yuan's thoughts on performance.
At the same time, in terms of love, Xie Yuan and his former student, Xiaolin, tied the knot, and the two formed a family.
But the two didn't expect that after the marriage, everything would slowly become dull, and if they were not careful, they would end up losing everything.
In those years, Xie Yuan's career has been on the rise, and with the title of actor, Xie Yuan's popularity in the circle has become higher and higher, and he has received more and more plays.
Within a few years of winning the Golden Rooster Award, Xie Yuan received the script of "Widow's Village" again. At that time, village love was the most popular, and the widow's village told the story of several young couples in a village.
After the show was broadcast, it won the "Popular Film" Hundred Flowers Award. Xie Yuan also won the Golden Phoenix Award for this and was highly recognized by the Art Society.
The so-called pride in the workplace and frustration in love are inevitable even for actors.
Because of filming outside all the year round, they can't take care of their careers and families, and the contradictions between Xie Yuan and Xiaolin are increasing day by day, and they both feel that each other is very different from before they got married.
Xiaolin felt that Xie Yuan only had filming in his eyes, and he didn't take him to heart at all. Xie Yuan believes that his wife is inconsiderate of herself, and it is not easy to earn money outside.
Just when the relationship between the two became increasingly tense, the real fuse appeared.
Xiaolin found out that she was pregnant, and thought that this happy event would ease the relationship between the two. But for various reasons, Xiaolin didn't discuss with Xie Yuan, so she ran to beat the child.
This made Xie Yuan sad, and the two quarreled more and more, as long as the child was mentioned, there would be conflicts, and in the end, the relationship was over.
Xie Yuan also realized that feelings are not easy to come by, and it is not easy to keep them. So he didn't dare to like others easily, so he could only continue filming and concentrate on his career.
In 1992, Xie Yuan played the young Ah Xiang in "Shanghai Family", which also left a lot of impression on the audience.
Especially when he died tragically in the end because of saving people, the picture of hanging upside down made people cry.
It is precisely because of this drama that Xie Yuan won the Golden Eagle Award and the Feitian Award for Best Supporting Actor, and at this moment he is still a quarter away from becoming the four actors.
Then in "I Love My Home", although there were only two episodes of cameos, Xie Yuan was able to rely on his witty and humorous acting skills to play a migrant worker very funny, leaving a deep impression on the audience.
can play a tragic character, and can also catch a comedy role, Xie Yuan's comedy talent, Ge You has praised it more than once.
He, Ge You and Liang Tian are both friends and partners, and the three of them also established a company together - Hollywood West Film and Television.
It is precisely because of the comedy "Born Timid" produced by his company that Xie Yuan brought the Hundred Flowers Award and became a well-deserved "Four Actors".
Perhaps it was God's favor, and less than a year after winning the Hundred Flowers Award, Xie Yuan met Qiu Yue, the person who accompanied him for the rest of his life.
He had no children and no daughters, and his wife was no longer married
Xie Yuan and Qiu Yue met when he was teaching, and Qiu Yue, who was a choreographer at that time, often went to Xie Yuan's acting class.
Xie Yuan felt that this girl was very active and bold, and she was at ease in class, but she didn't care about anything.
Unexpectedly, there is a certain number in the dark, and after a few years, the two meet again in the play.
Considering that Qiu Yue and himself are 17 years apart, although the two are playing a couple in the play, Xie Yuan still has a sense of proportion. But who doesn't yearn for love.
For Xie Yuan, whose career has already won the "Grand Slam", it is also his wish to have someone who will accompany him until he is old.
Love can transcend everything, including age. Although Xie Yuan was worried that the age difference of 17 years would become a generation gap between the two, he found out that Qiu Yue was the person he liked.
The two not only have the same concept, but also have a certain tacit understanding in thought. After filming, Xie Yuan was reluctant to cut off contact with Qiu Yue, and it only took two years from falling in love to getting married.
The lessons learned from the previous relationship let Xie Yuan know that he should spend more time with his wife, even if he was busy filming, he would report it in time so as not to worry Qiu Yue.
Although Qiu Yue and Xie Yuan didn't care about the age difference between the two, it still had an impact on their lives.
Because of respect for Qiu Yue's idea of wanting to start a career first, the two did not have children when they first got married, but they missed the best period because of this.
When I wanted to regenerate later, my age and body didn't allow it. In desperation, the two chose Dink. Until Xie Yuan passed away, he did not leave a son and a half daughter.
may be because Xie Yuan is too important in his life, Qiu Yue has not chosen to remarry until now, and gradually faded out of the public eye.
"Journey to the West" Nezha Qiu Yue
Maybe not having children is Xie Yuan's last regret, or maybe Xie Yuan thinks that this is the real freedom and freedom.
Until November 17, 2023, Xie Yuan still has works to be broadcast, which are the scenes he filmed before his death, even if he suffers from heart disease, he still does not give up filming.
It's more like saying goodbye to everyone in another form. Coming in a low-key manner, walking in a low-key manner, and only communicating with the audience with his works, he is a respectable old artist.
epilogue
After Xie Yuan's death, many seniors in the entertainment industry felt very sad, which also reflected Xie Yuan's character in the circle, even Cai Ming said that he didn't dare to call to confirm, for fear that this was the truth.
But no matter what, he still left a gift to this world, hoping that Qiu Yue can also come out of his sadness.
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Sources of information in this article:
[1] "Baidu Encyclopedia: Xie Yuan"
[2] "Xie Yuan had a heart attack on August 18 and died at the age of 61. 》
[3] "Xie Yuan student Xing Jiadong posted a message of condolences, wishing the teacher to continue his film lessons in heaven"