Text丨Shuangqi Town Inn (We don't have much time in this world, it's not worth wasting time trying to please those vulgar and despicable scoundrels!)
If there are no concrete examples, the parents of students feel that the problems within the education ecosystem are not serious.
In other words, if there are no tragic problems in the education ecology, the parents of students will not feel that they are accomplices or initiators, even if they think that the problems in the education ecology are serious.
It's as if the problem of bullying and being bullied among minors does not show an unusually tragic side, and everyone is like the Virgin, with holy light all over their bodies.
Everyone speaks of the purity and innocence of minors, and does not care about the ferocious and brutal beastly atmosphere.
In the current education ecology, the parents of students have actually become dementia en masse.
This kind of group dementia is not only limited to the shortcomings of short-sightedness, narrow-mindedness, impulsiveness, paranoia, etc., which must be possessed by groups as pointed out in the definition of group psychology, but also because there is no war to disturb us, and the material environment in which we live has changed, and the huge rushing ideological trend has changed.
Because of the dividends of the real estate industry and urbanization, many people suddenly live a life very different from that of their grandparents and parents, and they think that everything that is historical is rotten, and everything that is past should be smashed and broken.
If they could, they wouldn't even mind taking their ancestors out and humiliating them. The crowd at this moment always feels that they are a hybrid of Superman and Thanos, rewriting history by themselves, and their abilities are so powerful that they feel terrible. As a result, they certainly lose their reverence for the teacher community.
This is actually similar to the natural effect of smoking a certain psychedelic preparation that should not be smoked, and it is also similar to taking a certain product containing sildenafil citrate, which produces the hallucination of self-paralysis.
However, the disease has reached a terminal point, and there is no cure.
Because the parents of the students have no reverence for the teachers, they are extremely indulgent in their own children.
All the unruliness shown by their own children is interpreted by them as having individuality, all the brutality and domineering shown by their own children are interpreted by them as bloody, and all the cruelty and tyranny shown by their own children are interpreted by them as decisive killing.
There are always two sides to things, and they use their extremely selfish perspective to interpret it with the success theory of MLM that prevailed in the early 2000s, and of course only interpret the beneficial side for themselves.
Most of the parents of students in this era have the same attributes as "needles" - their eyes are on their buttocks, and they only recognize clothes but not people.
In their eyes, they saw that Fa Xiao, who grew up with them, was not a good person in a complete sense since he was a child: stealing chickens and dogs, bullying men and women. At that time, people were generally living in poverty, and these people may have sold scrap and stolen bicycles. However, later, in the torrent of the times, these people exploited various loopholes in the rules of the times, used Chinese-style emotional intelligence, and actually amassed hundreds of millions of assets, becoming far more successful than themselves, and showing off in their hometown.
As a result, when some parents of students with water injection qualifications educate their children, they will inevitably cultivate their children in this direction - inadvertently, they are cultivating their children in the direction of their own hair: they don't have to be good people, and they don't have to keep in mind any ideals, but they must be able to bite and make money desperately.
In this process, it is inevitable that individual minors will rebel against the education of the teacher group, so that the conflict between home and school will become more and more intense.
I can give you an example of my chance encounter yesterday on my way to work, and it is absolutely true: I was waiting for a traffic light at a traffic light intersection when I had a conversation between a middle-aged woman with yellow hair and a boy in the back seat on an e-bike in front of me.
The mother of a middle-aged woman with yellow hair and a lot of clothes that looked valuable: "As a teacher, I should teach my students how to succeed, how can I just teach you boring knowledge?"
That's the general meaning, and the tone is full of disdain and ruthless ridicule for the teacher group anyway. The child sitting in the back seat of the electric car had an indifferent expression, probably already accustomed to all this.
I always thought that such a person would definitely muddy the pool of pure water in education. When will knowledge become completely useless in the eyes of students' parents?
There is no doubt that mainstream education in any era and in any country cannot allow for selfishness and over-maverickism. Education in any era and in any country is based on the overall situation and requires individuals to live in harmony with each other, rather than being enemies and calculating against each other. The height of the big education station is the whole country and the whole era, and it will inevitably have serious conflicts with the students and their parents who stand on the height of themselves.
The strange thing is that there are no laws and regulations to punish students and their parents in this era, and students and their parents are a rabble that wanders outside of morality and law.
As far as students are concerned, does the "Code of Conduct for Primary and Secondary School Students" have any practical effect? It is just a piece of paper! And the "Law on the Protection of Minors" is an effective shield against their recklessness!
For the parents of students, when the channels for individual complaints increase, people wearing black veils cannot become the objects of random complaints, and the teacher group can only become the object of the people's anger: complain about the teacher group! Whether it is "unwarranted" or not, it is our right to complain!
Moreover, for the parents of students, they have sufficient motivation to complain about the teacher group: their children's conduct and learning will inevitably encounter great resistance in the new era - in terms of conduct, they will conflict with other living students with parents and fathers, and in terms of learning, the difficulty of learning in the new era will not be reduced, but increased.
If they don't complain about the teachers, how can their depression and resentment be vented? Only by complaining about the teachers and giving themselves the pleasure of playing with others will they find a little sense of belonging and bring some comfort to their family life: Giving birth to a child is not as good as Sun Zhongmou? No, the teachers are bowing their heads to my children! The problem is not my children, it's the teachers! It's not that my children are mediocre and stubborn by nature, it's really that the teachers who provide education don't have the ability to turn a stone into gold!
Filler
Playing with the group of teachers and letting go of their own children is a disease of the times, and without the natural death of one or two generations, there may not be any antidote.
The reason why parents of students like to play with the teacher group is that they have their own ideological motivations -
First, playing with the group of teachers can make them feel a sense of euphoria, so that they can forget about their own family's educational shortcomings.
Second, all the parents of students play with the teachers, then they can change the atmosphere of the times and muddy a pool of water, and after muddying a pool of water, they think that they are the ones who fish in troubled waters.
These people never advocated innocence and simplicity, and they admired something called "emotional intelligence" - a synonym for the word "relationship" in ancient times.
Do you think so? I don't think so. I think that people who muddy a pool of water now, like poisoning their own food, will one day reap the consequences.