Today we are going to explore what is tacitly accepted by society
The phenomenon of "one maid and two husbands".
This is not just a simple description of the phenomenon,
It is also a manifestation of complex social relations.
This is the "gangster" of the old society
Simply put, a woman and two men live together for a long time
The woman is to give birth to two separate men
They also take turns sleeping with them
When we talk about "one maid and two husbands",
The first thing that comes to mind is the question of morality and ethics.
In this traditional concept,
Such behavior seems to be a challenge to the institution of marriage,
A test of loyalty.
However, in different cultural contexts,
This phenomenon may have its raison d'être and social basis.
In the old society, there was a sentiment called "gangster".
This is a special kind of family that was tacitly approved in the old society
It is not a prestigious being,
But in the plainness contains a deep human brilliance.
Lagang, a word that originated from the northern countryside,
It has been given a new meaning here - a spiritual symbol of solidarity and mutual assistance and common progress.
Pulling a gang is not a simple huddle for warmth,
It's a process of supporting each other to tide over difficulties.
It's not just about helping each other materially.
It is also reflected in the spiritual support and encouragement.
In the old society, once the male head of a family had an accident and was unable to work
Then a second man will appear
The second man takes on all the work in the house
At the same time, he also has the power to share the bed with the hostess and have children
The three of them help each other and live together
In this fast-paced era,
People tend to overlook this emotional connection.
Forgetting the watchfulness of neighbors,
Selfless support from friends,
Even a warm smile between strangers.
However, the word "gangster" reminds us that
The seemingly insignificant little things in life,
In fact, it has immeasurable power.
When we saw an old man crossing the street,
Reach out to help; when a neighbor is sick at home,
Send a caring, when a friend is in trouble, give sincere help......
These are the concrete embodiment of "gangsters".
They constitute the most basic emotional connection in society,
It is also an important cornerstone of a harmonious society.
Today, however, such traditions seem to be fading.
Busy lives make people become themselves,
The distance between people is getting farther and farther apart.
"Sweep the snow in front of the door, and don't care about the frost on the tiles of others" has become the principle of many people's lives.
If this continues, what kind of indifferent world will our society become?
Therefore, we need to reawaken the warmth that lies deep in our hearts,
Let the spirit of "pulling the gang" illuminate our lives again
We need to learn to stop and see if the people around us need help;
We need to dare to take responsibility, even if it is just to provide others with a listening ear;
We need to be grateful and thank everyone who has helped us.
In general, "pulling a gang" is an attitude and an action.
It is the love of life, the love of others,
It's about caring for our own hearts.
Let's work together to carry forward this wonderful tradition,
Let it be the link that connects everyone's heart.
Remember: walking alone may be fast, but walking together can go far.