How to get along with the teacher-student relationship?
The relationship between teachers and students is difficult to get along with, and one of them is that parents have the absolute "initiative", such as the phenomenon of indiscriminate fees in schools, teachers' teaching style and morality, campus health and other issues.
Parents can complain and report to the higher departments of the school, which to a certain extent, does have the role of supervision and warning.
But this double-edged sword is sometimes the fuse that affects the relationship between teachers and students.
Recently, I saw a video of related content, the incident occurred in a primary school in Shangrao, Jiangxi, and the child's parents said that their child was only in the second grade, and he was "beaten" by the teacher because he did the wrong question.
Judging from the video, the child does have several red marks on his face.
Then the school's principal also responded:
The teacher just saw that the child was wrong in many questions, so he hit him a few times with a pen.
I have been to his house yesterday and communicated with his mother, and she also expressed her understanding!
It seems that the matter has been properly handled, but netizens have been discussing this matter, let's see what everyone has to say:
What will this child do in school in the future?
When I was a child, I was cleaned up by my teachers, but we never tired of it.
If I were a parent, I would be thankful that the teacher was too late.
Isn't that what a responsible teacher is?
I did this once, and I regretted it after a while.
This kind of thing is always considered on the side of one's own interests.
There have been more than ever before, aren't they all good?
When I was a child, if my parents found out, I would be beaten.
Apologize as soon as you complain, indiscriminately? A teacher who kneels can't teach a student who is standing.
When a teacher is complained about and does not dare to pick up the whip again, where should education go?
As parents, we are still very grateful to the teachers, and the children's questions can be taken to heart.
Whether it is the netizens' own experience or their own opinions, in this matter, I don't think there is anything wrong with the teacher, shouldn't the teacher discipline the child?
The teacher is not looking for trouble, the child has many wrong questions, the teacher educates the child, which is also a normal teaching process, if you apologize to the parents at every turn, how will the teacher's teaching work be carried out in the future?
However, there are also netizens who have different voices, thinking that the teacher is wrong and should apologize, that is the child's face, can you get started at will?
There are many ways to educate children, and the last thing that should be done is a slap in the face.
It's okay to punish a child, but you can't hit a child in the face.
Just like netizens said, in fact, sometimes parents are very double-standard, on the one hand, they hope that teachers will take good care of their children, and on the other hand, they are very repulsive to all the punishment measures of teachers.
There are dozens of students in a class, how can the teacher handle this degree?
Therefore, as a parent, learn to let go appropriately, and as a teacher, pay attention to the way to create a healthy learning environment for your children.
What do you think about this?