"Dad, don't you really need my help?" I asked, a little worried.
Dad stopped and turned to look at me, with a stubborn look on his face: "I'm only 77 years old, so I don't even need help to walk, right? "
"But what if you accidentally fall?" you see, the ground is a little uneven......" I tried to dissuade again.
"Enough!" Dad interrupted me, "I know what I'm doing. Since you were a child, you have been like this, you love to worry about everything. Can't I hold this old bone?"
Seeing that my father was angry, I had no choice but to give up. "Then you have to be careful, and call me if anything happens. I said helplessly.
Watching my dad slowly walk out of the room, my heart was mixed. On the one hand, I am sincerely happy and relieved that he has maintained such a great level of self-care ability. Despite his advanced age, Dad still maintained his independent spirit, and this tenacity is worth learning from and admiring.
I secretly made up my mind that I would try to convince my father that he would learn to accept the love and care of his children properly. After all, it is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation for thousands of years that the old age has an end and the old age has been supported. As children, we should do our part so that our parents can enjoy family happiness in their old age.
Just when I was distracted, my dad had already walked away. His back looked a little rickety, and his steps seemed labored and staggering. I hurriedly trotted to follow, far behind him, for fear that he would fall to the ground if he was not careful.
Dad seemed to sense my presence, and he turned around and waved at me, signaling that I didn't have to follow. Even though it was a bit of a distance, I could see the smile on his face. It was a relieved, comfortable smile, as if to say to me, "Don't worry too much, I'm fine."
Seeing my father's expression, my heart suddenly felt much more steady. I know that even though his body is weakening every day, he still maintains an optimistic and positive attitude in his heart. This positive spirit is the source of strength that has sustained him through the setbacks and tribulations of life.
"What's wrong, Dad, what's wrong with you?" I hurriedly held him up and asked anxiously.
"I, my waist...... It seems to have twisted ......," Dad said through gritted teeth, enduring the pain.
I quickly helped him to the couch and sat down, and then called the emergency services. About half an hour later, the ambulance arrived, and several paramedics carried Dad into the ambulance.
"Son, don't worry too much, it shouldn't be a big deal......" Dad comforted me as he was lifted into the ambulance.
However, my heart is not steady at all. Yesterday, my father was fine, but why did this happen all of a sudden? Watching the ambulance's taillights fade away, my heart was extremely heavy.
The ambulance took Dad to the emergency room of the hospital, and after a preliminary examination, the doctor said that Dad had a herniated disc in his lumbar spine and needed to be hospitalized for surgery immediately. I quickly went through the admission procedures and contacted a few relatives to visit my father.
While waiting for my father's surgery, my heart was extremely entangled. On the one hand, I felt guilty and guilty for my negligence and carelessness. If I had insisted on supporting my father, maybe this wouldn't have happened. But on the other hand, I also know my father's stubborn personality, even if I forcibly supported him at that time, he may not be obedient.
However, just when I was in great pain, I suddenly remembered what my father had taught me on a daily basis. He often told me that there will inevitably be some setbacks and tribulations in life, but we must not be deterred from this. Instead, we need to face it with a positive and optimistic mindset and draw strength and courage from it.
Yes, the current situation is worrying, but we haven't lost everything. As long as the surgery can go smoothly, Dad will have a chance to get back on his feet. The key is that we all face the reality strongly, encourage and support each other, and not feel sorry for ourselves.
In this way, I silently encouraged myself in my heart. I told myself that no matter what, I had to remain optimistic and hopeful, and that I must not lose momentum at this juncture. I want to use my strength and courage to infect and inspire my father and help him through this difficult time.
Just as I was struggling inside, the red light in the operating room came on, and the doctors came out pushing my father's operating table. I hurriedly stepped forward, for fear of seeing what hurt my father had suffered.
When I saw my father's face clearly, I couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief. Although his face was a little pale, he was generally in good spirits. He even barely smiled at me, as if to say to me, "Don't worry, I'm fine".
I stepped forward to hold my father's hand, and my eyes couldn't help but moisten. Seeing him standing tall despite his bruises, my heart was filled with pride and admiration. This is my father, a tenacious fighter who never gives up, a life force that lives forever.
The doctors pushed my dad into the room, and I stayed with him. Although his father had just undergone surgery, he did not show any weakness. On the contrary, his eyes are as bright as ever, full of love for life and anticipation for the future.
"Don't look sad, aren't I okay?" Dad said to me, "You have to learn to be strong, there will inevitably be some hardships in life, but as long as we don't give up, we will definitely be able to get through it." "
Hearing my father's words, my heart was filled with strength. As a son, I should have encouraged and supported my father with my strength and courage, instead of feeling sorry for myself.
So, I tried my best to make a strong smile, patted the back of my father's hand, and said, "Dad, you can rest assured, I am waiting here." I'll take good care of you, and when you're fully recovered, we'll go out for a walk together, okay?"
Dad listened to my words and had a relieved look on his face. "That's wonderful, son. With you by my side, I don't have to worry about anything. "
I hurriedly peeled off the fruit in my hand and handed it to my father: "Come, Dad, you can eat something to cushion your stomach first." "
"Well, well, with your thoughtful son here, my old bones will not starve anywhere. Dad joked and took a bite of the apple as he spoke.
Seeing my father so energetic, my heart suddenly felt much more steady. I know that if we are determined enough, we will be able to get through this difficult time.
At this moment, my father suddenly stopped me: "Son, come here, let my father take a good look at you again." "
I walked up to my dad, and he looked at me with those cloudy but still loving eyes with a happy smile on his face.
"How happy you were when your father gave birth to you...... Remember, no matter what happens, the Father will always be there for you, always supporting you and loving you......"
Listening to my father's words, tears finally came out of my eyes. Yes, despite the merciless years, my father's loving heart for me will never change.
Looking at my dad lying on the hospital bed, my heart was mixed. On the one hand, I feel sad and remorse for his current situation. If it weren't for my negligence, maybe this wouldn't have happened. But on the other hand, I also know that there is no point in blaming what has happened, and it is important that we face the reality with a positive and optimistic attitude, and support and encourage each other.
I made up my mind that I was going to do my best to take care of my dad no matter what. During his recovery, I will be his solid support and reliable support. I will be by his side patiently, answering all his doubts and worries, so that he can concentrate on recuperating without worries.
At the same time, I will try my best to convince my father that he can learn to accept the love and care of his children appropriately. As children, we not only have the responsibility but also the obligation to take care of our elderly parents so that they can enjoy their old age. In the past days, perhaps it was because of our negligence and neglect that Dad developed the habit of being too independent and self-conscious. But now, the situation is different. We must learn to be considerate and considerate of our father, so that he can feel the filial piety and warmth of his children in his lifetime.
However, I also know that it is not easy to convince my father. His stubborn personality has a long history, and it is a huge challenge to get him to get rid of that overly stubborn self-esteem. However, I am not discouraged by this. On the contrary, I was even more determined to guide and enlighten him with enough patience and wisdom.
Perhaps, it will take a long process. However, I believe that as long as I can treat him with sincere love and persuade him with the utmost emotion, he will one day open his heart, let go of his stubborn self-esteem, and learn to face up to his weaknesses and flaws. At that time, he will be able to let down his guard and take the initiative to accept our love and care.
In this way, with infinite affection for my father, I began the long journey of taking care of my father. I tried my best to use my patience and wisdom to persuade and enlighten him, hoping that one day, I would be able to let him let go of all his guards and self-esteem, learn to face up to his weaknesses, and take the initiative to accept our love and care.
Dad's condition improved quickly and it didn't take long for him to be discharged from the hospital. However, the doctor still told us to pay more attention at home and try to avoid strenuous activities to avoid recurrence of old diseases.
Watching my dad walk out of the hospital gate step by step, my heart was mixed. On the one hand, I am extremely relieved that he has finally recovered. But on the other hand, I also knew that taking care of my dad from now on would be a daunting long-term task.
After all, Dad is already in his old age, and his physical functions are declining every day. While the timely rescue avoided more serious consequences, we can't be sure if a similar situation will occur in the future. If an accident happens again, it may cause irreparable damage to Dad's health.
Therefore, I must always be vigilant, pay close attention to my father's every move, and timely detect and prevent possible risks and hidden dangers. At the same time, I also have to patiently enlighten my father, so that he can learn to let go of his stubborn self-esteem and take the initiative to accept the care and love of his children.
I know it's not going to be easy. Dad has a stubborn personality for a long time, and it is impossible to completely change his mindset in a short period of time. But I was determined that no matter what the cost, I would fight for it. Because this is not only related to the happiness of fathers in their old age, but also related to the value and dignity of life as children.
In this way, I secretly resolved that no matter what difficulties and obstacles I may encounter in the future, I must persist in doing this well. I will patiently enlighten my father and make him realize our good intentions; I will also do my best to care for him so that he can enjoy the joy of family life to the fullest.
Of course, I also know very well that it is not easy to completely convince an old man who has been stubborn for a long time. This will take a long period of unremitting effort and perseverance. However, I am not discouraged or deterred by this. On the contrary, I am determined to influence and influence my father with my own actions, and to interpret the responsibility and responsibility of a filial son with practical actions.
As long as our determination is firm enough, as long as our love is sincere enough, I believe that one day, Dad will open his heart, let go of his stubborn self-esteem, and take the initiative to accept our love and care. At that time, he will be able to live his old age without worries, and those of us as children will be able to be worthy of our hearts.
Next, I rearranged the furniture in the bedroom. I moved the bed closer to the window so Dad could rest in a sunny setting. The bookcase and wardrobe, which had been placed against the wall, were moved to the opposite side of the bed by me to prevent my father from colliding with them when he got out of bed.
Finally, I installed several aids in the bedroom to facilitate my dad's mobility and activities. For example, the handrail near the side of the bed can help Dad get out of bed. And the safety pedal at the bathroom door can prevent him from slipping and injuring himself while taking a shower.
Just as I was busy, my dad walked in and saw my series of "big moves" with surprise written all over his face.
"Son, what are you doing here, how are you making a mess of my room?" Dad said with some displeasure.
I hurriedly stepped forward to help him, sat him down on a chair next to the bed, and then crouched down and looked him in the eye seriously.
"Dad, it's all for your own good. You see, I've made this place safe and comfortable, and I'll let my father rest here in the future. From now on, with me here to take care of you, you won't have to worry about anything. "
After listening to my explanation, Dad's expression softened a lot. He looked at me with those somewhat cloudy eyes, with a kind smile on his face.
"Good boy, my father knows that you have good intentions...... It's just, you see, I'm 77 years old, why do I need you to work like this......"